LTR staring at other guys | TheRedPill

LTR and I currently live together. Before this I was plating her with a few other girls. She saw guys at the time as well. It wasn't until a few months in that she wanted something serious with me. First time she was sick, she would drive over my place and take care of me. This was before I promoted her to LTR status.

Fast-forward a year later, I promoted her to LTR status. She cooks and cleans for me, and wants us to move in together.

Occasionally she would question where I have been and who I was with on my weekends out. She asks me to send her picture/etc to make sure I'm not cheating. When ever I glace at some fat ass butts, she would get upset and say that I'm cheating by looking at other women. This isn't a shit test from her specifically, but an actual insecurity. I know this because when we first started to date seriously she would say the same stuff and I pass it like a regular shit test but it backfires because it isn't one.

During the plate stage, she acted up one time and I ghosted her. Started hanging out with my ex and other plates, posted it on social media and she went bat shit crazy. I eventually plated her again cause she apologized and said she would see a therapist to fix her moodiness. So from then on she always thinks I'm leaving her for some other girls.

Another incident that occurred was that she was texting her FWB and Ex when we were together. But I suspect its because I told her I kept my ex as friends prior to us being serious. I set my boundaries and she cut off all ties with ex and fwb early on in the relationship.

But one thing that I am concerned about is her staring at other guys when out. She would do it subtlety and deny it if I call her out. I read that I should dread her, which I do every single weekend and when we're out together.

I'm on top of my shit on every single aspect of life. Wealth, style, fitness, etc you can name it.

I'm extremely confused and not sure where to take this.

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whytehorse2021 4y ago

I had an ex like that. Turns out she was cheating so it was always on her mind. My wife does none of that shit and never has.

Newbie-Casanova 4y ago

So there's a chance that by her calling me out constantly could be a sign of projection

OtPayOkerSmay 4y ago

Exactly. I think projection is just part of female nature. You can learn a lot about a woman by listening to what she openly complains about other people doing - the things she projects on to other people

For example: The girl that complains that people don't text back right away despite always being on their phones is usually the type that... big surprise... is always on her phone. They assume their way is the only way of doing things, or that their own character flaws and insecurities are things that everybody else suffers from; even when that's clearly not the case.

Well, I'd say the same goes for girls that try to say any little thing you do is cheating - if you're not legitimately cheating but your girl is accusing you of cheating, that should clue you in on that she's probably cheating.