I'm considering taking a break from dating just to focus on myself for a little while. I lost both of my plates in the last month (I've been spinning them for 7 months) and don't really feel like looking for new ones especially with exam season coming up. I have a lot of matches on tinder (550+) and have no issue attracting women I just don't really feel like sleeping with anyone for the next little while as I want to keep a perfect GPA, hit the gym and get an internship.
Has anyone done anything similar?
r3z01v 3y ago
Meh, it will pass, stay dry for 10 days and you'll be mass texting in no time.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
I do this sometimes with my wife. Just too much shit to do.
pofkaf 1 3y ago
I'm going through that right now. Although I suspect I'm older than you. I find it relatively easy to attract women, but I haven't felt a strong desire to game them recently.
Instead I've been focusing on building my business. It's been going good.
Just stay focused and keep on striving to become the Alphain all aspects of your life. The girls will follow eventually.
ThrowawayAccount_2k 3y ago
I'm 19 so you are probably older than me, but the last year and a half of my life has been dedicated to attracting girls and I guess it's not really that much of a challenge and I need to conquer something new. My sex drive is also really shit right now because I've been relapsing on nofap quite frequently. I'll have girls messaging me "wyd tn come over" and I'd rather just go to the gym. I think taking a break and getting a good streak of nofap would help me a lot, probably need to get my testosterone levels checked too.
Hanscheezburger 3y ago
monk mode too. no drinking, no women. decided to switch jobs and grinding hard to learn new skills while working 2 jobs. have to wake up at 5 everyday now just so i can still fit my workout in the schedule