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Honestly one of my hotter dates, Met on tinder, quickly moved to messages and set up a yoga date. I know already starting off bad. She lives within 5 minutes of me on campus, so i picked her up. The place was 25 mins away, which led to a lot of talking and no kino while i drove. Second mistake.

We get there and the yoga class is more serious, with many reoccurring customers and a serious instructor. I had never done yoga so it was honestly terrible and lasted around an hour with barely any talking lol.

I then drove us back to her place and didn't escalate or even attempt, dropped her off and left. I know the yoga part was one of the worst dates i've been on, but she talked a-lot in the car and was into our conversations.

I let two days go by and she doesn't reach out. I send her a text on the 3rd day saying "Yoga was a little more serious than expected, Let's set up something more relaxed." To no response. It has now be 4 days since i texted her.

Feedback on date? Hard next her and delete number? This made me realize how much easier coffee/drinks downtown are, 15 min walk back to my place.

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Corneliuscaruso 2y ago

You weren’t fun

Move onto the next

NeoSpartan 2y ago

Send her a pic of richard simmons and suggest one of his classes instead next time.

SeasonedRP 2y ago

For a first date, do something more in your element, or at least an activity where you know what you're doing. A yoga date like this is better when you two have gotten to know each other. I wouldn't delete the number necessarily; if she reaches out, great, if not, no biggie.

liftheavystuff 2y ago

Who cares what these hoes think / want. So many hoes out there just move on.

Stick to coffee / drinks.

coolsocks00 1 2y ago

Horrible date. Next.

And get used to the idea of kino while driving. Even if you just met you should give off a familiar light hearted vibe.

Be grinning as she gets in the car. Perhaps jokingly neg her on her outfit or use callback humour from previous convo to make some comments. Take charge of the conversation.

Example: As you are talking just rest your hand by the mid console, and touch her thigh with the back of your hand as you make a point.

During conversation ask her a couple quick questions about her as a person, (not like "where do you work"). Dont worry about interrupting her if what she is talking about is boring. End with "are you ticklish though!?" as you grab her thigh up by her knee with some force going back and forth as if to tickle/poke her.

During talk just casually place your hand on hers and feel her hand while looking at the road. Or look at her ring. You can do the same on her thigh. Just never linger.