Ive worked hard on myself and started dating again Was dating a girl for 3 months before she made up an excuse to stop seeing me only for her to have a new relationship a week later. We were not officially together but it made me feel a bit bad as i saw on social media her posting about him (she didnt do this with me) I just feel a bit down after doing so much work is this normal?
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User4566 4y ago
That sucks man, but you're only making it worse by caring about her. Let her go. Stop following her. Focus on what YOU'RE doing.
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User4566 4y ago
None of that matters, dog. It's whose the next chick you're going to idealise.
Come on dude, you're better than this. I've been getting rejected by girls lately and I still keep my head up and looking for other opportunities and potential plates. Fuck the rest of them. Stop thinking about what happened yesterday because yesterday don't mean shit since what's done is done and gone.
You need to look to the future. You need to be on your mission, you need to widen your horizons. Right now, you sound like you have tunnel vision for ONE girl.
Tell you what: it's getting nicer out. One of these days you should go for a walk and think about how much more this world has to offer besides some stupid broad. Think of where you want to be this time next year. That's what you should be focusing on. That's how you win. Focusing on her and thinking about what could've been is how you lose.
Last week, I started thinking back about how I fucked up with a super hot girl because I was too pushy for a date after I got her number. It sucks, but what the fuck ever. There's like 4 billion women on this planet, she's not the hottest/last girl on the planet. This chick you're talking about certainly isn't either.
master-of-losers 4y ago
I'm sorry man. It sucks. Stop following her on social media. It will suck the life out of you and waste your time. Maybe think about any mistakes you might've made, learn from them, and do better next time.
nfc66 4y ago
You can only control so much about what others do
As long as you respected yourself and didn't give her any unwarranted attention when things went south you're good. Even if you did I mean, just do better next time
It sucks. Most of us if not all have been there. More than once maybe even
You have a lot of control over how you can approach this. None of that everything happens for a reason bullshit but more about you cannot control what happens but you can control how you feel about it and act upon it. That's coming out of stoicism mind you
Goes without saying unfollow and block her if needed on everything
Feel bad but keep up with the grind. Literally nothing time doesn't heal. It's evolutionary
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whytehorse2021 4y ago
You'll get the last laugh. The Wall is undefeated. When you're both 35 she'll be invisible to Chads and you'll be Chad.
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