You don't improve your confidence by getting compliments because you are NOT a woman. That's weak and it starts to fail the minute you stop getting compliments, that's why women are really insecure and always break when encountering a man with real frame.

I suggest you start at the basics, learn to crawl before walking. Learn about stoicism and apply it to your life, stop worrying about things you can't change and instead work on things you CAN change. You need to be a man and take a practical approach to life, that's what stoicism is ultimately about.

We think our lives today are hard, but they're nothing compared to what our ancestors endured. This is why they invented stoicism as a framework to help you navigate a harsh and hostile world, and be able to cope with anything. Once fully understood you will unlock a superpower, but it will take years to train your mind to be logical like this. Start with the book "how to think like a roman emperor" to get some basic history and idea behind it, and then read about stoic philosophers that the book mentions like epictetus, zeno of citium, seneca, marcus aurelius, etc.

Think about it these way, these BLM cucks protesting today. What the fuck are they protesting? They have the exact same rights, they are protesting the fact that they have a weak mind, the embodiment of a victim complex. Epictetus was BORN a slave, he gained his freedom and became an amazing philosopher that we still read about today, he didn't fucking start crying saying "oh the romans are keeping me down" or some bullshit like that.

That's the kind of thinking you need, go read about those amazing people that lived in the past because they had real values and real logic, the message you receive today from our society is pure cuckoldry and not worth listening to.