One of the most common advice people new to the red pill get is to gain a strong eye contact. Most people look away or are afraid of looking into another person´s eyes.
I have never had that problem. It´s just a pair of eyes. But my problem is that sometimes this gets people (and women in general) nervous.
When I maintain a strong eye contact they often look away after a while and says things like "oh this is awkward" or "can we talk about something" and so on. I have started to fill the moment of silence with small talk because of this, but I don´t think this is the right way to approach this.
What am I doing wrong and how can I correct this?
Thanks in advance
subnauticexp017 4y ago
Thanks a lot for the responses
unplugged69 4y ago
If a girl is acting nervous after eye contact on a date that's a good thing and you should touch her while maintaining eye contact.
Just make sure you don't look pissed off or intimidating while making eye contact. But making her a bit uncomfortable is part of the game, you must make her FEEL on a date, doesn't really matter what the feeling is.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
There's a general rule that eye contact for too long is staring which triggers people's "I'm being hunted" instinct. It makes us self-conscious. Think of how a cat stares at a mouse long and hard before pouncing. For women it's called "the tingles" or "chemistry" and once you've triggered the response of a heightened emotional state, you make her feel safe while escalating the physical contact.