Do girls lose feelings instantly? | TheRedPill

I know that it's common for a women to be in a relationship with a guy and lose attraction for him and decine its over in her head but stay with him until she can monkey branch to a new guy But i was wondering, can this effect be a lot shorter, for example, say she is totally into the guy but then a chad or some other dude starts talking to her and boom she monkey branches? can it be a lot more spontaneous ? Maybe nothing you did was really wrong someone just gives her tingles?

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unplugged69 4y ago

Yes once she's got a new and better option she will easily forget about you, like flipping a light switch. That's why we call it the light switch effect, there's some good posts on it if you do a quick search.

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unplugged69 4y ago

Yes, it's pretty instant, like flipping a switch. It's because a woman's feelings define reality, and she feels whatever she feels in the moment. So for example if right this second she loses attraction, then she will start acting very differently and to you it feels like a switch was flipped. Read more about it here: https://www.trp.red/p/trp/938

Is this happening to you right now? Or why are you asking about it?

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SeasonedRP 2 4y ago

They sure can.

KaliosX 4y ago

I understand the phrase "hard to swallow" now.

It's like a large piece of food is stuck in your throat, you can't swallow. It's actually just disgust.

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Index 4y ago

That's likely contextual. E.g. Post wall mother of your two kids without any realistic option can slowly disassociate from you when you begin to lose your value or behave as a simp in favor of eventually looking for replacement and planning divorce and the process might take months or years. Hot 23yo you've been dating for six months that just met Brad Pitt on a party will likely have no problem switching overnight. Also switches are usually accompanied by cheating. E.g. If she goes cold overnight it's very likely something happened that night.

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whytehorse2021 4y ago

War Bride Effect. It's well known. In the past, the stronger male would kill you and nature selected for women that can just switch to a new guy. https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/03/war-brides/

Index 4y ago

From my experience when they branch it usually happens very fast. Like within weeks or days easily within meeting the dude. It's not like you have some long period to catch it. She throws a shit test or two, you might even pass them, and before you even realize she's considering branching she's already getting pounded by somebody else. Your best bet against her branching is by prevention, not by reaction.

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r3z01v 4y ago

I don't know why you're asking - go out there and find out.

You have a naive understanding of "attraction". It's not "liking" someone as a person. Get that blue pill concept out of your head at once. She doesn't have to like you. People in general don't have to like you if you have something "to offer them" - and just to be clear I mean emotionally - I mean they feel better with you around. Be it because you're skilled, daring or powerful as Jack Donovan underlines in his theory about tribes, or you are witty, charming or emotionally astute - as underlined in the more socially orientated PUA tactics.

But back to your question. Let's say you talk to a homey girl, a nice pleasant girl from around town. Then behind you comes Megan Fox in a sheer dress, massages your shoulders, whispers in your ear and then moves her hand down your body to start jerking you over your pants. How good would you be in continuing the date or the conversation with little miss homey? How secure do you think she would be continuing to have a casual non-sexual conversation?

This is what happens when a more confident guy comes into the set. She isn't being rude, she is getting aroused by someone that plays a rock song, and the gentle bossa nova is overshadowed. Frame or social energy is like touch or looks for a man.

mattyanon Admin 4y ago

lightswitch effect

Grey 4y ago

When it happens you often won't know it until months down the road.

Monkey branching is correct, and that's often passively set up over time even you start to lose loyalty/respect. The problem is when they lose feelings they will still use you for your resources until they can make the jump to another guy. This is why you often see dudes get kind of shell shocked when their gf/so leaves them and "instantly" has another guy ready. What the original guy doesn't know is this has been planned for awhile.