I think lack of sex is making me crazy | TheRedPill

The girl: I recently came back to my hometown and I've met this female friend I have. For how silent I remembered her, she was quite talkative to me. She has a BF and since I don't want any trouble, I kept distance. Since we have some backstory, I slowly started talking again to her to see how her things were going.

The situation: I went to a music show. There was her with her BF. I talked to her a little before the show started. After that, anoter female friend (which also has a BF) came by. I immediately jumped to talk to her. After that, I feel the first girl became more distant.

The problem: I feel I fucked up something. But it may well be something I'm making up in my mind. I've been so lonely that the mere idea of having lost an opportunity with this first girl I mentioned is making me lose my mind. I can't stop thinking all the recent interactions we had were "signals" she's interested in me now. But since I showed interest in this other female friend I have, she now became insecure of my commitment as a potential BF, insecure of herself and jealous. So, she became distant as a revenge.

The actual problem: So, the REAL problem is I'm making up 99% of this in my mind and it's wasting my mental energy for nothing. I can't concentrate on my job. I try to stay focused on my grind, I really do, but these thoughts just keep popping in my head.

Possible solutions?: I feel I need to fuck a girl ASAP. It's been at least 6 years since the last time I had sex. I need to pump and dump. I don't know if it's OK to do it with the first whale that likes me on Tinder, what do you guys think?

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unplugged69 4y ago

Man have you read any of the side bar? even the intro?

unplugged69 4y ago

Okay OP, I will add a bit more info so you can get out of this situation. You are thirsty and that will put women off, the number 1 rule is to be OUTCOME INDEPENDENT and have an I DON'T GIVE A FUCK attitude to any interaction with a woman. This is because you need to take risks in a conversation, if it's boring then she will not get "feels" and you cannot fuck her. That means you need to risk offending her and be prepared for her to walk away, additionally women are fickle and will reject you for all sorts of shit, don't get discouraged and keep trying because for everyone here there's at least 100 beautiful women willing to do everything for you but you need to FIND them.

Here are two basic guides you need to read, firstly how to tease bitches:

https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/4972/humansockpuppet_s_guide_to_teasing_bitches/653684

And then how to manage your bitches, once of course you have bitches to manage:

https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/3524/humansockpuppet_s_guide_to_managing_your_bitches

NoodlesAndRice 4y ago

Thanks for your reply! I'm actually used to follow the rules in other forums, but yesterday I was in a bit of a crysis. So after you pointed out I didn't read the sidebar I expected my post to be deleted. I'm glad it wasn't. Then, after taking a long walk and reading your advices I feel better.

mattyanon Admin 4y ago

. I can't stop thinking all the recent interactions we had were "signals" she's interested in me now

They weren't. She has a bf.

But since I showed interest in this other female friend I have, she now became insecure of my commitment as a potential BF, insecure of herself and jealous. So, she became distant as a revenge.

No.

Women get more jealous and interested when you talk to other women, not less.

The actual problem: So, the REAL problem is I'm making up 99% of this in my mind and it's wasting my mental energy for nothing. I can't concentrate on my job. I try to stay focused on my grind, I really do, but these thoughts just keep popping in my head.

You have oneitis and scarcity mentality.

Get more options with more girls.

Possible solutions?: I feel I need to fuck a girl ASAP. It's been at least 6 years since the last time I had sex. I need to pump and dump. I don't know if it's OK to do it with the first whale that likes me on Tinder, what do you guys think?

That's entirely up to you. Any which way, get out there and meet more girls.

NoodlesAndRice 4y ago

Thanks for such a detailed reply!

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whytehorse2021 4y ago

Just do what I did and go bi. I can get laid 5x/day by guys. I wasn't always bi but lack of women got me to try it out and I liked it enough to keep doing it.