Had something pop up yesterday on a date that I wanted to get other opinions on. In the past, I've been blue pill in my relationships (nice guy, never got angry) but I noticed that sometimes I'd get super angry/irritated at something (but wouldn't explode) and my girl would always make some comment like "Wow, you're really angry" and it was in a tone like it turned them on seeing me that way. For example, once I was driving and something pissed me off and I sighed heavily and squeezed my steering wheel with all my strength and my girl at the time said something to the effect of "Wow I've never seen you that angry before" and the look she gave me was like she got super wet.

Last night I was on a date and some guy was drunk at the bar and kept trying to include my FWB and I in his convo. My date and I were both irritated and I kept trying to nicely tell him off but didn't act too aggressive because he was drunk. Eventually he left us alone for a bit but tried to start that shit again. I got a more angry tone and told him to cut that shit out and go sit on the other side of the bar and he backed off once he saw my anger and left us alone for the rest of the night. She made a comment like "Wow, you got pretty angry there" and again it was said in a tone like it made her panties wet. Is controlled anger something that they find attractive? I think that's what I'm gathering but wondering everyone else's thoughts.