Hey guys,
Still on my RP journey and a friend just told me something that made me realize an area that I need to work on. Long story short, I discovered TRP about 10 months ago and was in a LTR with a woman and I was blue pilled to the max at the start. I started applying TRP, and eventually ended things once I realized she was trying to beta-ize me (she was a single mother already at the wall). Just recently a friend told me that one of her complaints in the relationship was that she wanted to do more sexual things with me (threesome, going to sex clubs, etc) but she never brought it up because I seemed like I would judge her for it. Considering how blue-pill I was back then, I can admit that I probably would have. Also hearing that made me think back to phrases/things she'd say and she even once sent me an an instagram post of a guy laying in bed with two women next to him and my response to her was "That guy's living the dream" and took no action to try and escalate cringe
Either way, I think one of the things I need to work on is killing this Madonna/Whore complex. I still struggle a bit with this, but I buy into the vibe a woman puts off that she's too innocent to want to do threesomes or sexual things of that nature. I've had women overtly suggest that to me, but in those instances they were sluts that were out in the open about it, so it was "easier" for me to believe and engage. Any advice on killing this shit because looking back, I regret not taking action on it and I don't want that to happen again.
unplugged69 4y ago
You'll only kill it with time. All women are sluts, we say AWALT for a reason. A good trick I use sometimes with very innocent looking girls on dates, is to polarize and sexualize the conversation by saying "I bet you're very kinky in bed". Often they'll protest or even act insulted but instead of doing some beta shit like "JK" I will stand my ground and most of the time they relent and agree.
However the way you truly realise they're all whores, is when you fuck a woman in all holes and cum in her mouth. Then she picks up a call from her boyfriend or fiance or husband and talks all lovey dovey saying she's out with friends and will be home late. That's when you realise you should never marry these whores.
Try some introducing some BDSM and kink with your plates and FWB and you'll notice how much better they treat you afterwards.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
OK, so this is an actual mental disorder in men. The Madonna is your mom and the whore is a degraded woman. You can't simultaneously hold both images of the same woman in your head. So you either have to fuck mom or some cheap whore. Mom isn't desirable(sexually) but the whore is. Mom can be loved but the whore cannot.
She isn't your mom, dude. And your mom fucked a dude to make you. Either you spin off into cognitive dissonance or you accept female nature. Your mom probably was into anal and had a butt-plug. She's not the Madonna(Virgin Mary). You just got tricked by blue pill into thinking that way. Girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice. Yeah right my ass.