Just another example I found. In the song, Adele signs about her failed marriage. To me, it sounds like going back to the beta.

"Go easy on me, baby

I was still a child

Didn't get the chance

To feel the world around me

Had no time to choose

What I chose to do"

Getting rid of any and all responsibility on her part. It's ridiculous the lengths they go to. I was enjoying the song the first time I heard it, then it all clicked at once.

You really can't treat them with more than just a passing interest. I don't know anything about her husband, but it really sounds like he's the beta in all of this. To be honest, can't enjoy a lot of media today, since it's so blue pill and subsequently off putting.