Hello,
I am exploring a new subject and I am trying to find quality resources on manipulation related to relationships in general, sex with one partner or multiple partners.
I am also looking for cheating advice, like how to not get caught, and how to caught the other half cheating
There are tons of books but i'm not sure if they are really pragmatics ...
Thank you, any comment will be welcome :)
Bulba 2y ago
Alphas come from a place of abundance, so they will just say "I'm dating other women. If you aren't ok with that let me know so I can replace you with someone else".
Cheating is intrinsically beta male behavior.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
If you don't have children: be honest with yourself and your partner and go after what you want. Don't lie, you just end up trapping yourself.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
What's the point of being in a relationship at all if you have utter disregard for your partner like this?
Why not just demote her to a plate if you don't care about having a mutual bond, which would honestly be destroyed if she knew about this
Gitroy 2y ago
Well, I understand what you are saying. The thing is that i'm attracted to other girls and I prefer to built a LTR relationship. For me there is a difference between having sex and loving someone. I can love my LTR and still bang some other girls, and my LTR relationship is improving as well because i'm not bored, i'm more confident, i am with her fully, etc ... . Otherwise I'll end up breaking up after 1 or 2 years ...
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
The bottom line is that if she knew about it, loving you would be destroyed. You say love and sex are different but at the same time you feel the need to cheat, so clearly it would cause problems if she were to know.
I don't know why you want love built on a pack of lies. It's fake. That's living like a fraud
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Exclusive relationship with non-exclusive sex. You have to be very high value to a woman for her to do this and you both have to be very mature and have an adult conversation about it. Then you have to set rules. My wife and I have a don't ask/don't tell policy. Another guy on here can't sleep with the same woman twice. Each couple will have their own rules.
Gitroy 2y ago
Do you have any resources about that, rules or whatever is interesting to read about other people experiences on that ?
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Basically the rules are:
Don't ask/don't tell(ignorance is bliss)
Don't damage her reputation as a lady in a committed relationship/marriage(what would her mom think?)
Don't bring home any babies or STDs
Don't have any other relationships
4 is the hardest one. I've had people fall for me and then I have to end it. I kind of fell into this lifestyle one drunken night when I slipped up about cheating on my wife. Next thing I know she has dread and drains my balls so much I don't even have energy for other women. She even holds me inside her and won't let me leave even after we've both cum. It's pretty funny.
hannulv 2y ago
Cheating is low-value behavior. If you are a high-value man then women will share you. Lying to say you are exclusive, when you aren't, is no different than lying and saying you are a genius Billionaire CEO with 10-pack abs and an aristocratic title. Its cringey and you will get caught, and you will be an asshole, and you will deserve people's hate and scorn. Unless you are a psychopath, the lack of personal authenticity will wear you down and leave you mean, bitter, and jaded in the end.