The fact that my personal value, success and happiness depend on the existence of a woman in my life, therefore this situation always creates a need for the existence of a woman in my life, I find myself constantly chasing women. İ am 35 years old,there hasn't been a period since I was 20 years old that I wasn't in a relationship.This situation has worn me out psychologically.

All I want is to be able to get into the mindset that it's not a problem whether I have women in my life or not rest of my life

But I don't know how to do this,i read about red pill but it didn't help me,what can i do please help me