Examine her friends | TheRedPill

Now lets say we unplug ourselves from the matrix for a second and imagine you're dating one of her friends. Now the crazy thing is, the girl you are dating would become one of those annoying slutty girls. Not so special now eh?

There are a few points here. The first and most important is that many men in LTRs have the tendency to slap the rose-tinted glasses on, crank up the oxytocin, and begin their betasization by 1000 concessions program. Why? Because she's SPECIAL and BEAUIFUL, and most importantly, SHE'S different from the rest! Sorry to break it to you buddy, but once the chemical reactions die down, you will find she's just like her friends, and if you wouldn't date them, you shouldn't date her, because they're her most powerful and consistent influence.

Now leading on from the influence point. Your lovely girlfriend will go out and spend time with her slutty friends, and therefore will engage in the same activities as them. Now women may not be able to design a machine or fly a plane or parallel park like a man can, but one thing they absolutely excel at is thriving in group settings. The female brain is hardwired to be able to survive and thrive in group settings, because many many years ago, when we lived in huts and threw spears, she depended on this for survival. She needed acceptance of the group to access its resources. Why's this important? Because your girlfriend will seek the acceptance and approval of her slutty friends above all else, above her 'love' for you, because that's just how her brain is wired. So, she will grind on that guy in the club, suck that guy off after the club, do double triple vodka shots, smoke that weed if pressured, because her friends validation is more important than yours.

Another side note for you, girls' night is never girls' night. Women group together to find other guys safely. As soon as a group of girl meets a few guys the immediately. discuss and start allocating the guys, a sort of "who gets who" thing. If she clubs with her friends, soft next or suffer the consequences.

So, to conclude, knowing her friends is ESSENTIAL to a healthy long term secure LTR (if that exists). You have to be able to trust her friends and know they'll keep her behaving responsibly, and stop her from slutting around, as she's probably more similar to her friends than your loved up mind could know.

A final side note, if most or all of her friends are in LTRs, she's more likely to stay with you, as the social condition for acceptance has moved from slutting around on girls' nights to having a boyfriend or whatever, and girls will always follow what's encouraged and accepted by their friends.

TL;DR: if her friends are sluts, she probably is too.

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spacecowboy 4y ago

What are your thoughts if a girl doesn't have many friends in general

milfslapper2021 4y ago

If she young she could be just 'waking up', in which case give her a couple of years and she'll be like any other girl

If she old she prolly has some mental health issues

Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago

Just from going to (country) dance clubs and seeing fully taken women -married, boyfriend, fiancé, etc- (according their own words since they don't come with their significant others) I can verify this

I've seen countless girls nights. Very rarely will I see a group of girls there just to chat. More times often than not, the presumably single ones will do what they were going to do anyway, which was chat and flirt with guys, dance with them, and then flirt some more.

The taken ones will then do the same. Occasionally I'll get a "I have a boyfriend, husband etc" as a rejection to dance, but then I inevitably see her dance with at least two different guys later. Safe to assume neither were her significant other just because of math alone.

The amount of times I've danced with a girl who gave IOIs only to tell me 10 or 20 minutes later she is committed or married is ridiculous. Not necessarily just because she agreed to dance, but because 80% of them don't open with that info

That information is a convenient afterthought for 80% of them and their guy who most likely would not approve that she agreed to dance. Even the ones with the decency to tell you up front still smile like a giddy school girl while they dance. They can't help themselves.

It's a rare sight to see a taken girl genuinely not abuse a girls night. I have seen some that throughout the night will just not interact with other men no matter how Chad they are, but it's fucking rare, like once in a blue moon.

Boys, I guarantee if she's doing a girls' night she is engaging in non-committal shenanigans with her fellow hoes, I mean friends.

Maybe if she's only out with her friends at McDonald's then she might not potentially be hoeing around, just maybe. But if she's at a bar, a club, dancing, or any other socially welcoming venue where approaches are all but assured, she sure as fuck is interacting with other men.

Bottom line is, she might initially resist, but resistance is usually futile in the face of being surrounded by her slutty friends and free validation from all of the eligible bachelors around her

Toxicking101 4y ago

I’m 16 and learnt this from my recent ex. She sent a photo of where she was at and it was one of those 3 second live ones you get on iPhones, I heard the “wanna go somewhere alone” from the guy and the “yes” from her. AWALT.

Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago

That reply hurt my soul to read, she sounds like a skank. Glad you have found TRP at such a young age though

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Scorpion69_ 4y ago

? Her telling u she has a bf is an obvious shit test, whether shes saying the truth or not

Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago

Not sure what the ? Is for

It's not worth my time to bother with it. 1) if it's the truth I'm not interested, 2) if it's a lie, I'm gonna have to deal with an endless stream of lies from them both early on and later. I have no desire to entertain either scenario when there are girls not doing either