So context and question is simple. Given options between the two, which would you choose. And yes, only two choices and nothing like "choice C, fill in the blank" type stuff.
Option A
- Woman who is a 6/10
- Age 32
- Can cook exactly how you like
- Will do laundry, iron your clothes, and clean your house without a problem
- Willing to have kids, might even strongly want them, but not desperately pushing you to have them
- Does regular exercise and takes care of herself
- Body count of 12
- Ability to help achieve goals
Option B
- Woman who is a 7/10
- Age 25
- Can cook, clean, and do all the household stuff, but does not know your preferences and will take time to develop them.
- Wants to get married and have kids before the age of 30, as a strong goal
- Does regular exercise and takes care of herself
- Body count of 7
- Willing to help achieve goals, but does not know how and requires a long amount of training
- Spends a bit more time working than the average person, might impact your ability to spend time together or for her to do household chores and assist
DownToDFelt 2y ago
I spent some time looking at this above and it certainly can be debated based on your station in life currently, so I will be speaking from mine: 31 year old, 6 figure job near the top of my field looking to hit a director level by 35. Married, with a wife who is submissive, cooks, cleans, is extremely intelligent, and works hard, who was able to fit into my life at 26 and help me with my mission to grow my earnings by 40% and hit my first financial goal of earning 6 figures before 30.
A 32 yr old 6 vs. 25 yr old 7: to me this seems like a true push, because of a few factors involved. First, we have no context of what the circumstances are of these ratings. Are these roll out of bed, yoga pants, pony tail up, or fully done up? Because makeup and good clothes can make a 6 into an 7 or 8. Plus with factors affected by the rest of thisbelow, you don't know how far either woman will fall, and if you have a wife who has hit the wall looks wise and is still a 6, that means she probably was a 7 or 8. Based on that concept, I see this as a veritable push, that I would err towards the 32 year old because of knowing where we are ending up.
Household skills: this is a clear advantage to the 32 year old. Clearly the 25 year old is capable, and depending on how much time you have to invest in making your LTR/ wife a functional component of your life you could say the 25 year old is better because age. If you are a man of abundance however, with a ton of shit to do in your life, you don't have the time to invest in teaching her how to woman good for you. I am in that camp, I work 50 hours a week at my main job, have a job at a casino for fun because I enjoy the environment, go to the gym, golf, and try to have a social life and spend time with my family... I ain't got no fucking time to deal with teaching my wife the shit I need her to do. I need to be able to mention I need something and her to be a capable human and get it done when I delegate to her. Thus in my opinion, A is vastly superior.
Loose about kids and marriage but willing vs. A functional requirement: this one goes to A by a mile. As a man you want to be able to choose to participate in the marriage and kids function of family. I find it ty be very helpful to do so. People will warn of divorce rape or child support payments, but if you are the man you should be, A. You protect yourself in writing in a way that gives her the feeling that she is also protected, but you are gonna keep yours. B. You should not be creating an environment where branching and trying to divorce rape you looks appealing. Your abundance should be so appealing to her she can't help but bask in it and her hamster couldn't see life anywhere else.
That aside though, B is the kind of girl with these demands and the last two conflicting pieces that I will get to that can lead to a very fucked up home, where as you are clearly the captain of the ship with A, as she will defer to you on these things. Meaning that you are in complete control
Regular exercise: push. They both do it. Onward and upward
7 vs. 12 body count: it is a push at the point of which you are a man that is abundant and has had many more partners. You don't realistically get to complain about the small difference in a reasonable way if you have spun plates with any efficacy for longer than a year. Ideally less is better yes, but if you are making large sacrifices to get a lower count you are losing. NOTE: IF YOU ARE A GUY WITH A LOW COUNT FOR REAL PERSONAL OR RELIGIOUS REASONS, YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO DEMAND THAT SAME RESPECT OUT OF YOUR PARTNER
Ability to help achieve goals vs Whatever that clusterfuck of words is: if you are driven and motivated, have good base tools and are well on your way, you need a badass, plug and play woman who is ready to fit into your frame and help propel you to higher highs by taking the annoying delegatable tasks off your plate. The second girl has the problem of having undeveloped talent, which again, if you are growing together and are early in your journeys, you have time to develop. The issue with the second one is that she will have less time to develop the talent because she works so much, so she won't be around to learn the skills she needs to in the arenas you need her to, there won't be time together, she might be not be as up to the sexual arena because of being tired, and she won't be able to help propel your abundance to the next level as a first mate. Add to that what is going to happen if she achieves the hard goal of marriage and a baby with the overwork, and this is where the 25 year old dies in utility. No one person can do all that, so either:
Based on all of that, it is painfully fucking obvious to me that the 32 yr old is vastly superior. You know what you are getting, you have less to invest in a ready to go plug and play partner, you are getting some extra experience in the life and sexual arenas, which you can benefit from, she seems more submissive, which is what we a men are trying to get from her when she comes into our frame, and she wants to help you with your goals instead of it potentially being a competition amongst yourselves.
To me it seems pretty bluepill to take the girl that most guys on here got fucked over by on their way to getting to RP, in an attempt to go back and rectify their past mistakes.. those are past mistakes for a reason, and we are going to leave them there, and take what fits our life better.
Again that is from my perspective at my place in life,. If I am a younger guy who is just starting my grind and have more time and money than sense, and am honestly in a place where we can grow together and effectively, then you could convince me of B, but once your life gets to a certain complexity, you need A so you don't have to fuck around pissing away time and potentially money you don't have to waste.
Scorpion69_ 2y ago
If i had a gun aiming directly to my balls and i had to choose, im going with B.
The only problem with this one is that she has the strong goal of getting married, but its up to you if she accomplishes it or not
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I'd plate both of them. No way in hell with those body counts are they viable LTRs.
drdontgiveaf 2y ago
What max body count do you go for?
whytehorse2021 2y ago
0 is ideal. I get that some women make mistakes but if she makes the same mistake 7 times she's not a serious contender for a wife/mother. A woman who is serious about being a wife might have 1 or 2 mistakes but beyond that you really have to wonder if she's just a hoe.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
OP are you secretly asking us to choose which of your two plates you should LTR?
drdontgiveaf 2y ago
No. I am curious about the kinds of things various guys are willing to give up on in order to get with women. As some would weight heavily youth. But with youth brings lack of experience in areas, which requires time commitment from a guy. So, its about what one is willing to "settle" with in absence of the perfect chick, which simply does not exist.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
I was joking since the two options weren't drastically different.
I'll give a more serious answer later today when I have the chance
drdontgiveaf 2y ago
Feel free to post also stuff you would be willing to give up for in exchange for other qualities. I'm curious.
21543546ea 2y ago
I don't see how anyone would pick option a? Just my personal thoughts. I would definitely go for b