You will find somebody who is at least 10x hotter and more feminine than her. Guaranteed.

Trust me man. She isn't special. Have you read the sidebar? AWALT is the truest concept ever. She would've dumped your sorry ass in a heartbeat if Chad Thundercock hit her up.

Here's how you get over her. Stop crying like a bitch. Lift. Lift some more. Make money. Fuck other women. Lift.

I don't mean any of this in an offensive way, but if this is your starting point you need to hear some hard truths

I didn’t know her much but it feels like I lost someone special and I’ll never find somebody else as good as her.

You admit you barely know her. This goes beyond putting her on a pedestal, this is fantasy thinking. I garandamn-tee she does things with guys that would instantly shatter this perception

She's not special

I’m in a 7 year dry spell so maybe I’m influenced and blinded by that and I overestimate her « value »

There is a reason for that, you're putting too much value in women, and in all likelihood, mediocre pussy you need to be on your purpose and a lot of the rest will sort itself out

right now it feels like whoever I may end up being with in the future won’t be as good as her.

Because you're over-valuing the hell out of her. You didn't even know her that well, and I assume have never even kissed her. How would you know how great she is, you've barely gotten close

I feel like I wasted my one and only chance. I have trouble sleeping at night. I cry every day. I don’t know what to do.

You didn't waste your chance, you never had one to begin with. If she had been interested she would have made it easy for you

Stop being a bitch. The first thing you could do is start having self-respect and developing more personal value instead of what you're doing now.

Cry when your dog dies or you get laid off from your job. This girl isn't worth tears

Am I wrong in my assessment that I will never find someone else as good or better than her ? What can I do to move on ?

Yes. Develop value. Read the sidebar, you're missing some basic fundamentals of TRP

ok, this is oneitis and overinvestment in This One Special GIrl.

Fact is that investment fucks you over: girls don't want to data a solid beta or a friend or someone who feels like a brother. "Friends First" is a terrible dating strategy that is only designed to get more support for women.

I feel like I wasted my one and only chance. I have trouble sleeping at night. I cry every day. I don’t know what to do.

Oh boy...... you're 30....... this is your prime dating time of life.

This was not your one and only chance. This chance didn't even exist - but fuck tonnes of other ones do.

What you do is you start seeing other women. I know this isn't easy because "one special girl", but giving other girls a chance and trying to bed them, and then finding the special ones from the ones you are already fucking is the best way to find really great girls who actually want to fuck you.

I know that's a big shift, and I know this One Special Girl feels super special, but there are tonnes of other girls out there.

You may also suffer from low self esteem - only wanting girls who don't want you. I can't fully tell you how to fix that, but focusing on yourself and building yourself back into an awesome human being is a good start.

Am I wrong in my assessment that I will never find someone else as good or better than her ?

YES. Totally wrong.

Here's another factor: she's like a celebrity. She may be totally fucking amazing. But it doesn't matter because she is not accessible to you in a dating capacity. Work harder on being attractive rather than "being friends and hoping" with girls. Being friends is EASY. And some girls, some times, will completely lead you on and pretend it's "going somewhere" when it isn't.

The result of this "make him feel like it's going somewhere" is that the guy feels he had a chance and then he feels like it's him who fucked up when it goes nowhere. Sorry to tell you this, but the girl was misleading you in order to secure your attention, support and/or resources.

Quit being friends first, ditch women who you have spent 20 hours in their company without sex, quit dreaming, start actually DATING. It's hard and it's unknown and it's scary, but you can do it and it works.