I was smashing this chick over the summer I met at her work who is a cashier at this local grocery store. Long story short, shit fizzled out and she friend zoned me so I told her last time we should go our separate ways cause I didn't want to just be her platonic friend.
I went to do some groceries last night and she was working. The store was pretty much empty and I'm sure she saw me. I purchased my stuff at a register next to hers where we were facing each other.
I didn't even acknowledge her or look her way and just bought my shit and left without saying hi. This situation also happened a month ago as well where I saw her, but I didn't even look at her or say hi and just kept it moving. This was about a month after we broke it up. Been no contact since we last saw each other and broke it off.
Did I play this right?
My boy who got mad game told me a real g would have have said what up or a head nod and then keep it moving. Gotta act like the shit don't phase me. Other friend said I did the right thing.
Miss this bitch not gonna lie cause the sex was bomb, but I ain't gonna chase her for self-respect.
Just want to know cause I'm sure I'm going to bump into her again and want to know the right play
Appreciate y'all fam!
mattyanon Moderator about a year ago
Nope..... be indifferent, make no effort, but don't ignore.
Guyandtheroadtovictory about a year ago
Yo man,
Miss this bitch not gonna lie cause the sex was bomb, but I ain't gonna chase her for self-respect.
The old saying goes like this - Past memories are the past for that reason.
Its great that you feel this way, that there are great memories to remember, - it means you are alive, but some say " dont poke the old shit, it will start to stink badly afterwards".
What is wrong or right - subjective. What does it mean to you matters. If you haven't done something what you yearned for, that could be wrong. Your body always say what to learn, to do and to feel.
Initial-Glove about a year ago
Nope. You did the right thing. Anything else and she'd take that as her "winning" or having power or control of the shituation.
Keep her guessing.
MarloChrisSnoop about a year ago
Thanks man. I didn’t want to come off butt hurt. She’s the one that friend zoned me so not going to give her the time of day. Most of my friends I shared told me I seemed butt hurt. If I lock eyes with her next time, I’ll just say hi or nod my head.
The bigger issue is that I still care and taking the energy to make this post. Brought up old feelings seeing her again and I obviously still care about her. I need to work on moving on.
Thanks again bro for your honest feedback.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a year ago
@initial-glove is a wahmans.
MarloChrisSnoop about a year ago
@initial-glove my apologies
Tooktheredpill about a year ago
Expect a “hey big head” text.
MarloChrisSnoop about a year ago
Lol.. can you elaborate what that would mean? Isn’t that a song
Tooktheredpill about a year ago
It’s a ping text to see if she’s living rent free in your head.
If she does text you, answer with “who is this?”
MarloChrisSnoop about a year ago
Bet my guy appreciate you lol
Tooktheredpill about a year ago
Anytime brother. Best of luck.