For some context, we've been together for almost 2 years. Don't live together and only see each other every other weekend. Between visits we only text one another a couple times per week. I had set the frame from the beginning and she knows I'm busy/not a texter.
I sent her a text this afternoon--an old picture of us and basically told her that she is great and to have a good day. Now this may sound beta but I like to throw her scraps every once in awhile. Being too cold and distant didn't work in the past, so I throw in a few compliments, "I love you"s, etc. here and there, without overdoing it.
She will usually respond to my text within a few hours (even if it doesn't require a response), so her not responding to my text the entire day is a significant change in her behavior. And I doubt she is THAT busy where she can't text back for this long.
She just booked us a hotel room at a resort as my early christmas present, and things have been going great in the relationship. So I'm a little puzled. My plan is to ignore, keep busy and just wait until she texts me back. But do you guys have any idea why she would be ignoring me? Perhaps a shit test due to acting a little too beta lately? Her faking being "busy" to appear high value?
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Get to the bottom of it. Maybe her charger came unplugged or maybe her pussy was plugged with another cock.
MrSmiley8585 4y ago
I doubt she is cheating on me. Last time she saw me she was all over me (she always is), and always shows high interest/attraction.
But it's been two full days and no text back. So either she is intentially ignoring me, or she lost her phone, or she is in the hospital/had an emergency. Those are the conclusions I've come to.
I'm debating between soft nexting her or texting her to see if things are okay. Like you said, I do want to get to the bottom of it.
RPEsq 4y ago
You have one itis and it shows.
viperrang 4y ago
Jeez bruh he's going to catch some feelings if they've been dating for 2 years man come on.
MrSmiley8585 4y ago
Maybe a little. But I've been doing pretty good staying on my purpose and trying to have an abundance mindset, despite being in a LTR. And to clarify, it's not like I was sitting by my phone all day waiting for her to respond. I actually forgot I even texted her, and then later in the evening (about 6 hours later) realized she hasn't texted me back.
It's just not like her so I was simply wondering what it could be. Mind you this is a LTR of almost 2 years, not some random plate. Or am I just overthinking shit too much?
viperrang 4y ago
You probably do have oneitis I think most guys would if they've been with the same girl for 2 years so accept this, try to remember you will survive without her.
Now if you want you could call her and ask her why but that's pretty needy, maybe it's just a shit test, maybe she's busy, who knows just wait till she texts you back. If she starts acting sus maybe she's cheating.
RPEsq 4y ago
Yea that is what I’m saying. In an LTR, you lost sight of the mentality “I can take it or leave it.” She doesn’t text back, whatever. Flirt with other girls, lift, make money.
If her non response is a problem, soft next her and see how she feels