Hi guys, I getting oneitus for this girl I am seeing, we get on really well but I want to expand my horizons as I went on a date yesterday and instantly felt like I didn't care so much about the other girl. I meet and sleep with girls mainly through Tinder or social circle but I want to try cold approach.
Nearly everything out there I read though is like mindset stuff, with no technical stuff of what to actually do or say, I feel like I need some training wheels to get me going so I am not against memorising things etc... I have the fundamentals down and if I am on a date its pretty much a done deal but cold approach is completely new to me so any simple structure of what to say and do would be great.
Thanks

StartingFromHere 4y ago
Go out, and fail often. You will course correct
johnnysmallseed 4y ago
Game is hard to teach. There's a lot of non-verbal, and covert communication that has to be understood before you can even reply with an answer that will be considered a "win" to the game.
anima 4y ago
Hi, I am fairly new here but I´ve been plowing through the sidebar since I discovered TRP. So I completed Rollo`s "Rational Male" which at the end hinted at Nick Krauser and his "literature". So I ordered "Daygame Nitro" which might be what you (It2ka) are looking for. It was quite helpfull and I finished my first read yesterday so I can read it again and distill its technical aspects now knowing the bigger picture. I understand that the basics consist of internalizing the mindset (always keep frame, be alpha at any point, be central point of reference etc) instead of just learning PUA skills/ game and then of course practise en masse... A big question remains, though: can any of you guys hint at other game guides or are they basically burnt money once you understood one of those?
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Side bar.............
SeasonedRP 2 4y ago
If you know someone good at it, observe him and watch what works and what doesn't. And learning by trial and error will eventually make you good at it. Don't overthink things. Try to keep interactions fun and playful. Knowing how to accentuate parts of your personality is helpful. There isn't a one size fits all approach.
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