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Hearing you say the term ‘naturally rude’ is about as cringe as bitches that swear they’re ‘naturally hard-to-get’. Put some effort and stop being a black triad dark lord and confront the insecurities that make you want to become rude in the first place, cause as you’ve noticed, people usually don’t like being put down

TestMan 4y ago

Listen and ask more.
Make sure you are self-sufficient and have your own stuff, so you won't have to keep asking others for favors or be dependent on them. This can be annoying and some people love the dynamic where you're dependent on them. Make sure you don't love this mechanic too.
Don't be the quiet one, especially if you look a bit dorky, it only adds up and makes you look more dorky.
Joke a little based on what they told you (funny jokes, no insults) this also gives the impression you actually listened
Take an effort in maintaining contact from your side, but don't leave it one-sided

You're always gonna give more than you receive, if you already expect that, you won't be disappointed fast. And not everyone is gonna want to be your friend, or is able too.

You are who you hang out with, so if you want to be a healthy gym-goer , make sure you dont have friend who only use drugs

This is my first comment here, but i never had any problems making friends, so I thought I create an account and comment (i lurked for 5 months before)

KILLER008 4y ago

thanks for the advise mate i ll surely use it

i think it is also a bit because of my looks , i am fat i really didnt like people my age i used to chat with boys older than me 1-3 years. im 15 rn

TestMan 4y ago

If you're fat, try to do something about. As much as I hate to say it: People WILL treat you differently based on looks. That's because alot of people don't like themselves very much, so if they see someone who is easily not-likeable they tend to bully that person.

Also being fat signals a lack of self-control, even though you may have self-control and it might just be bad luck, most people will subconsciously think that.

You're 15, so the best advise I can give you is:

Get off this site, don't poison your fresh young mind with 'biased' internet forum information (even though TRP contains a lot of truth)
HIT THE GYM. YOURE 15 you have a head start!

KILLER008 4y ago

hitting the gym and doing cardio when its time to go back to school im 75kg at 5 7 ill get it down easily cuz ive reduced fast food drastically what do youmean by a head start?

TestMan 4y ago

You're 15, the fact that you're so young gives you an headstart. All good choices you make now, and keep, will benefit you for the rest of your life. And get off this site at this age, you should be socializing!! Come back when you're a few years older. This does not mean that youre not welcome, but socializing is VERY important.

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TestMan 4y ago

Nothing, but a 15 year old should be with his friends socializing and not be on an internet forum, its a very important age to get social, better not ruin it.