how to flirt or convey that you are intrested in them more than friends.also what do you call flirting with some examples
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johnnysmallseed 2y ago
Flirting is 99% body language.
Have you ever seen a girl say, "Hi" as she looks down and up at you taking her time? While there is no overt interest in a benign greeting. Her body is relaying sexual interest.
Flirting can be as simple as telling a girl, "Its a beautiful day outside" and smiling.
Danlong 2y ago
Do one of those foreign dating sites. Chat with random hoes to practice your flirting skills. See what works and what doesn't.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
I wrote a thing about a date I just had somewhere else. I'll copy and paste it for you. There's some good stuff there I think.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Yeah just taking it easy and having fun with it is the best way to go for sure dude. When you go out on dates, pick an activity where you can talk for a bit first and maybe have a drink or two, then move on to something with a lot of potential for touching and building physical chemistry, sharing food and drink is very good too, gets her comfortable with swapping saliva, put your arm around her during the latter half of the evening when you are walking together. Date went very well last night. Made out for a bit at the end and set up a second one. Very cute girl, 8.5-9, a bit shy, I like her. Keep hitting the gym dude, it increases your sex appeal by a lot. Even a manlet like me can pull top tier girls if he's fit and knows how to be somewhat smooth. Good luck out there bro.
Maybe nvm, I'm not sure how to get out of the friendzone if that's what your asking. Hope this is at least a bit useful. It def works to amplify interest once it's already there at least a little bit. Maybe try just asking her out somewhere(maybe even just as friends, idk) and trying some of the stuff above. Physical activities provide a lot of potential for building sexual chemistry.
KILLER008 2y ago
thanks mate for the intel
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Yw dude, update is we had sex after date no 2. Did a movie then took her back to my place.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Big grain of salt though, I've never really had any female friends. At least not in the last 8 years or so.
hannulv 2y ago
Flirting is not something you can say. It's an entire package deal of body language a rapport, that's laced with reciprocal expressions of interest. If you're Joe Rogan, you could probably just walk up to a chick and say "I'd poke YOU in the pooper." and then laugh and everyone would have a good time. It's heavily dependent on your confidence and presence.
Think of a movie when the wife sees the husband talking to the girl from work who comes by to drop stuff off. She can't hear what they're saying but she can see that they are flirting because of the way they smile and laugh and make eye-contact. She fumes when the girl's hand brushes his arm handing him the papers, and goes ballistic as he just pauses and looks at her for a moment before resuming the conversation.
Flirting is difficult to force, and it can be very subtle or very direct. A long time ago, just after high school, I sat next to a girl who was near my friends at a poetry reading. We didn't speak, I just looked at her and brushed the edge of my hand against her hand. She brushed my hand back. I picked up her hand and pressed my fingertips against hers and just stared at her. She didn't look away. Then I took her hand and kissed the back of it like a gentleman and leaned in and whisper-asked if she wanted to go somewhere else and hang out. She stood up and followed me to my car where we made out for a half an hour before heading to her place.
My point is that flirting doesn't need words to work, it is mostly body language. Words can frame things more sexually and help establish comfort and rapport, but without touching, eye contact, confidence, and a projection of sexual appetite, there is no flirting. Things like jokes and innuendo have there place, but if a girl likes you, she'll laugh at the dumbest thing and if she doesn't she'll scowl at the best joke in the world. Banter has its place as a qualifier to show you are intelligent, sexual and fun, but is way below other factors in terms of driving arousal and attraction.
The things that arouse and attract girls during flirting: 1) Sexual confidence 2) Sexual intent 3) Displays of high value 4) Displays of wit/banter 5) Mastery of subtextual communication/innuendo, etc. 6) Reciprocal escalations of banter, kino, etc.
This doesn't matter if its a stranger or a 10 year LTR. It's the same factors, confidence and body language that drive flirting.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I just raise my eyebrows at my wife and she runs into the bedroom and gets undressed. It's just signalling sexual interest in a way that is indirect. Like if my kids see it they have no idea what's going on or think we're weird. Another adult might pick up on it but there's no way to prove it other than "he raised his eyebrows" which isn't really proof of anything without context.