So I was recently at a conference in Atlanta and got to talking with this dude who was, like me, very un-PC and we connected on that basis. He was very well dressed and all but I didn't realize he was one of the big wigs in his organization. He ends up inviting me to this party at his house and I get out at the address and it's a fucking hell of a house in the Buckhead region which I'm told is where all the rich bastards live in Atlanta .
Every fucking girl there is hot. It was like a hotness version of a vaccine passport was needed to enter. For girls that is. There were a fair number of older guys who were hardly lookers. Anyway got to talk with him after and I said like 'You must do really well with girls' and he said 'Honestly, what I learned is that they are super impressed at first and then in the few cases where I've made them my gf, it only takes a few months for them to start taking it for granted and treating me like any other guy. The key is to date them and have the over a couple times a week and not go further than that."
I didn't get into RP specifically but he seems to subscribe to some of the general ideas. Do you all think that's right? Do you think the distinguishing effects of wealth wear off when you LTR girls or will the right girl continue to act the way you want even if you LTR? Not rich enough myself for this to be a real life issue for me right now haha but I am curious.
hannulv 5y ago
Yes, but its way bigger than that.
There are two things that get girls... arousal and attraction. Arousal inducing traits and behaviors are the dominant ones. Attraction inducing traits and behaviors are the ones that provide comfort and security. You can remember it with the hand mnemonic: Alpha Fucks vs. Beta Bucks.
If you are handsome, fit, successful, intelligent, active, have good social standing, etc, etc. You will be a good "catch". Girls will "catch" you by fucking your brains out for a little while to establish a pair bond. Just because you're attractive, does not mean that you are arousing. Being a good "catch" does not drench pussies. Once in an LTR, all girls will work to tame you into their docile subservient plowhorse. Think of a black widow that enslaves males instead of decapitating them. This will increase their comfort and security while simultaneously making you less attractive and less arousing. The less aroused a girl is by you, the more sex becomes transactional instead of validational, and the more your life descends into misery.
The solution is to spin plates. Eventually you may trust yourself enough to maintain dominance in an LTR, which is very hard to do. You may also find a girl that you are confident adores you and will completely submit to you in an LTR for the long term. In this sort of LTR, she is not fucking you for the sake of the relationship. She is fucking you because she actually craves getting fucked by YOU, and your continued sexual attention is personally validating to her. This is the only time you should become sexually exclusive. There is no doubt that more success and money raises your SMV and allows you to initially attract hotter girls. But it will not help you to more successfully navigate a relationship.
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unplugged69 5y ago
He is right in the sense that he LTRs them and gives too much comfort, and thus makes himself into BETA BUX. What he needs to do is appear as the elusive Alpha bux, basically be rich and have all that shit but NOT give any boyfriend vibes at all. It's not just about not inviting them over too much, it's more about not providing comfort and acting IDGAF.
Anyway, you should strive to be wealthy but not to fuck women because it doesn't help that much. Being wealthy is to improve your life and the amount of choice you have, it's a great goal for a man and more redpilled than anything you can probably do, the only thing to note is not to waste it on useless fuckers who don't deserve what you've worked for (especially women)
jormigaso 5y ago
I have a question: what to do when they make you wait for sex once they figure you have bank? that shit activates ASD and makes them behave like innocent creatures (to marry you because of the lifestyle, wealth, etc)
unplugged69 5y ago
Them seeing you have money does not actually make them want to have less sex, but it does make them want to appear to be relationship material so they will pretend they like shit that they actually hate to please you. If a woman makes you wait for sex it's because she sees you as beta bux which means you've provided too much comfort and gave beta vibes instead of giving fuckboy vibes, teasing her, making her qualify herself to you, basically all the redpill basics.
A lot of redpill guys are rich because they invest their money instead of spending it on worthless whores, and they prioritize their career and wealth over moving to some dumb fucking city because their stupid roastie just got a new job or whatever the fuck. Being rich will not hinder or improve your game, it will just change it slightly and you need to watch out for gold diggers and love bombing more.
jormigaso 5y ago
fair enough, thanks brother
whytehorse2021 5y ago
I dunno, I hide my wealth. Married a poor girl and live modestly. Spend a little on prostitutes. Going to the right brothel is the de facto hotness version of a vaccine passport.