So I have noticed, my roommate is basically an SJW. Everything is never his fault, always has someone else to blame. At first, I thought it was me and then my other roommate caught onto it too and he pretty much uses us as a scapegoat and won't ever accept responsibility he also uses his emotions to argue and will criticize your character or raise his voice to try and prove a point because he's a little rat.. He is also one to pull others down to bring his low self esteem up. or when we do own up to our mistake it he will be rubbing it in our face that it was our mistake. At first, I thought I was the crazy one until I spoke to my roommate about him and said that he sees what I see.
The main issue is sharing things and he likes to point and blame others for his mistakes. So to deal with this issue I have separated my stuff from him so he can no longer blame me. I am also distancing myself and treating him as the co-worker I don't like and limiting my conversations to a couple of minutes if I see him around the house. How would you guys deal with a roommate like this? What else could there be done to deal with a piece of shit like this?
YourOwnDisaster 4y ago
You can move out.
Growing 4y ago
If it's not an option, stonewall
He is behaving like a kid. That's what you do with kids.
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whytehorse2021 4y ago
Sounds like a narcissist. Move out.
interestinghuman 4y ago
Good Job separating your stuff try your best not to depend on him and do not talk to him unless its something of importance like bills or money or whatever, we don’t negotiate with bitches. Ignore him and act like he doesn’t exist
skriker 4y ago
I had been constantly been replacing the milk he may have bought the milk once or twice and when I bought it up to him he tells me I'm using his milk now in his whiney voice. I then told him I've replaced milk on multiple occasions trying to stand up for myself then he says some gay SJW shit like 'nobody is counting how many times you have replaced the milk....This is obviously his excuse for being lazy. So I told him oh well I thought you were just mooching off the milk without replacing it. He says he doesn't take notice of the milk...yet again another excuse but i ceebs trying to stand up for myself as it could go for hours. my claim so just ended the convo.
He then decides to call me a 'dog' for not replacing the milk and has a cry about me not replacing it for him again victim-blaming lol and makes me the bad guy. He then talks himself up and says how he does 'everything around the house' I don't say anything but ignore.
..Just having a rant/vent. Just a real piece of work. But yeah, you are right. The best bet is to ignore and act like the weasel doesn't exist. I can only limit my conversation with him before i go crazy.
unplugged69 4y ago
Laugh at him, literally laugh at him. When he rants at you smirk like you know something he doesn't and then walk away. He's behaving like a woman from all the cuckolding and soy in his diet so always DARE never DEER applies here.
So why smirk, what is it that you know and he doesn't? That he's a cuck of course, that he will never find the redpill and will spend his whole life worshipping women and being trampled by women while they all thirst for alpha dick.
I had a similar situation so one day I had enough and started checking the girls he was orbiting. I started gaming them and eventually as luck would have it I managed to plate what he would describe as the love of his life. Every time he would start an argument I would be like "one sec bud" then call his oneitis over to smash. Then turn to him and smirk.
He went into a deep depression and eventually moved out.
Your only choice with these people is to ignore or UTTERLY crush them.
skriker 4y ago
Thanks, funny how you talked about the diet....I am buying pre-made meals and he's like "You can saveee moreeee cooking" I just tell him "I can afford it and can do whatever I want to do" He kept saying the same thing so I said the same thing back until he got the hint.
Thanks for the tip. Will definitely apply DEER to this girl in a mans body.