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Furkan

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Great book. I recommend the Audiobook. I'm re-listening to it again which is why I made an account here. Hopefully chew through some of the material and help digest it by posting here about it. So much truth in it. And the Game part like everybody said, go approach. A good advice to build confidence is don't pick one girl to talk to, say a one liner or two then move on to the next and the next. Also include talking to guys. It's a soft way to avoid rejection because you're not comitting to one girl. You're just chatting with everybody.

ScubaSteve9000 2y ago

Start approaching women in the street.

Furkan 2y ago

Gonna man up and do it. Any tips from your own experience?

ScubaSteve9000 2y ago

JamesSkepp and unplugged69 are on points. I don't like night game personally. Too many variables, too much competition, loud music etc. Getting laid through night game is easier tho.

Day game is going to make you a man. 99% of the time you'll get rejected, from that 1% that are down to give you their number, 90% are never going to meet/answer your text etc. 10% will actually show up and you'll fuck 1/3 of them. It is truly a number's game. That's why you want to go a place with a lot of volume. I can do 20 to 30 approaches in 2 hours.

When you approach a woman, don't do indirect. Be a man, tell her you find her attractive, cute etc. Don't try to build some bullshit rapport. You can have the best rapport in the world, the bitch is going to ghost you. Just tell her what's she's up to, then ask her if she likes wine and finally close her by asking her when's she's free. Grab her phone and move on. 5 minutes interaction maximum.

Also never assume shit with bitches. You can have a 1 minute awkward interaction, think she's never going to meet up and you end up fucking the bitch.

Let me give you an example of what happened last Friday.

20 approaches

5 numbers

2 fake numbers

3 dates scheduled

1 bitch wanted to come with her friend (blocked her ass)

1 bitch stood me up

1 bitch I took home but I could not fuck, we are meeting again today tho

Once you approach 1000 to 3000 women, you'll realize that your confidence is not based on outcome. It is based on rejections and overcome these mini-adversity. This is the essence of abundance mindset. You could go anywhere and know that if you put the mileage, you'll get laid eventually.

JamesSkepp 2y ago

Nightgame is high intensity high density training. You'll learn 10 times faster, even just b/c in a nightclub you can approach in 1h what would take you entire day outside.
It's the same girls, it's just that in nightgame they are here to get laid. You increase your chances instead of interrupting her going to work. You waste your time and her's. Don't get me wrong you can daygame in good spots, but you need high density high rotation places equaling a nightclub which isn't available in every city.
Have a plan/goal for each week, month. Next week/month add something new to that. Say hi, ask some questions, deliver dhv, ask for number, move her, get instadate, isolate and so on, whatever. The idea is to move the interaction forward as much as you can. The goal/plan is there for you to go for what you want instead of "just socializing" which is a waste of time if you want to learn game.
Embrace rejection, get used to it, assume you will be rejected all time. This is what happens to most guys at the beginning. Don't get discouraged it's normal b/c you're learning the ropes for the first time in your life. But also be ready for unexpected results.
Do warmups. Each night before you land at nightclub, go early 20-30mins and say hi to EVERY person you meet on your way to the venue. At the venue, the first thing you do is open a set, DO NOT get a drink first. Create momentum.
Don't treat cold approach as chore, treat it as learning how far can you go. If you internalize cold approach as chore you will want to get it over with ASAP so you can just aimlessly mingle around once the "must approach" pressure is gone.
Don't do shotgun approaches on US campuses.

unplugged69 2y ago

OP, you should also remember that when you go to venues like bars and clubs, don't just talk to women but talk to guys. When I walk somewhere new I like to get in before it gets too busy, I start talking to the guys and move around a bit. Then when some hotties show up and I cross paths with a guy, we already know eachother and greet as friends which helps with social proof.

The thing about daygame is that it's pure numbers cold approach. Nightgame is harder for a noob but girls are more open to being approached so try to dominate the environment (such as know the people working or running the venue), have social proof and suddenly nightgame is a lot more powerful than daygame. You still need to do both to keep your pipeline nice and fresh and have options, you shouldn't stop when you have enough women, get as many as possible and then reject the ones that don't make the cut. This improves your IDGAF attitude and reinforces abundance, it will help you internalize the "I am the prize" mentality. A lot of this shit needs to be done before it can be internalized.