Recently in a major Mexican city I met up with an extremely intelligent, tall, HB 8.5-9, 28 year old Mexican girl. Perfect body. Amazing brain. I'm 52.

We met outside a trendy cocktail lounge. When she got out of her Uber and stood up, I immediately thought that she was out of my league (I usually bang 7s).
I thought she might even bail on me.

Regardless, we took a 10 minute walk before going in for a drink, and I had her laughing, making fun of her in a playful way, not SIMPing one bit. After round 2 I could tell she was wrapped around my finger, touching me as spoke and laughed. Eventually, she leaned in and said in her cute accent, "I REALLY want to kiss you."

Ended up having a very hot, dirty weekend with this tall, beautiful, Mexican chica, all because I kept the self-doubt in check and held my frame.