Hey guys, is there any way to cheaply have kids if you're a high earner (professional job) unless she earns arounds the same? Obviously without marrying etc. If you impregnate a broke woman, you'll be paying huge amounts in child support. The typical advice is to have kids with someone as close as possible to your status. But the alpha way is to have many kids with multiple women. Is this even possible without becoming broke?
I'd like to follow this alpha way but having to pay 30% or more for multiple child support payments scares me. Any loopholes?
Musicgoon425 2y ago
What is this alpha way bullshit? Get your head out of your ass. If you want kids get good at game, vet a good woman, keep steering your relationship and raise your family right.
My brother has 5 different babymommas, nothing alpha or cool about being broke and trying to stay out of jail by paying ridiculous amounts of child support.
Adopt a kid when you get older or just accept that if you want a kid now, you are just creating a kid and paying the mother to raise your kid and keep the kid from you.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
No
her earning the same doesn't help, because she'll take time off to raise kids, and you'll be paying for the kids and for her.
Of course this isn't possible. You're expected to pay for your kids. More kids = more payment. It's not complicated.
Yes: impregnate 12 women, and then either kill yourself or move to somewhere that has no extradition treaty.
This is a retarded question. Don't do this.
trapman1 2y ago
It's not a retarded question at all. That's just patronizing. How is her taking time off work gonna impact you, if you don't live together and aren't married? Having 1-2 kids with a single woman is pretty much a beta
splifferoo 2y ago
Retard of the day
trapman1 2y ago
I can see why people call this place toxic, any deviation and you get shat at. Did you know for example that many countries don't include capital gains for the child support calculation? Or are you guys are too retarded in your little brains to think outside the box, seems like the latter
splifferoo 2y ago
Brother you’re saying having 1-2 kids with a single women is ‘beta’. Have you ever considered that you can have kids with a woman in what’s known as a relationship? No need for child support if you’re there for the kid.
trapman1 2y ago
yes I know man, I was asking if there ways to do this outside relationships, not really a fan of relationships
splifferoo 2y ago
Then probably not, unless you live in a country which is favourable for a man to do so. But when you look at your standards, you’ve got to ask yourself how many kids do you plan on bringing into the world without a permanent father? Why? Keep in mind the chances are high that these kids will grow up to resent you for doing that. No one enters relationships because they’re ‘fans’, they do it because sacrifices must be made to ensure stability in their household and kin. Unless you wanted full custody of all your half-related children, then scratch what I said but still ask yourself why you want such a specific demand if you can’t afford it.
trapman1 2y ago
If there were no child support, I would've probably had much more, but I guess nowadays the smart move would be to find women who are more equal money wise, otherwise I would just feel cheated and exploited giving my hard earned money away.
splifferoo 2y ago
I feel like I’m wasting my day talking to a complete dumbass. How old are you? You don’t get to go on a jizz joyride shooting your shot into as many hoops possible and not expect repercussions. ‘Giving my hard earned money away’ what’s in it for the women? They’re not carrying a kid to term that they have no support to raise. Did you even learn from TRP? Hy-per-ga-my. Why would a chick have a whole yute with an ‘equal’ when she could either lock down an equal or higher. Or just not have kids!
trapman1 2y ago
Have you seen how many fatherless kids they are? Many of the dads out there are very young, brash and aren't involved with the kids. So it's a valid question. Yes, hypergamy, women often go for the 'hot' guy, who might be broke. I'm talking about being a higher earner but somehow hiding your money from her and child support. I guess I should ask fraud forums. Also this question wasn't about me at all, but about strategy