It's been nearly 2 years, yes 2 years.. since i had a 6.,5 month relationship with a trashy, slutty women. I looked at her instagram today, saw her on a date with a guy, laughing, together and I felt so sad i nearly cried. Why should I? He is just cock number 60 and any respectful guy wouldn't even date a girl like her.. but man i miss her. What is wrong with me?
undersiredone
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McGonzo 3y ago
Nothing is wrong with you. You had a lot of fun with a trashy slut. I dated a slut once when I was in great shape. Man, the sex was crazy! She'd suck my dick at the drop of a hat. Anal, got my salad tossed. Other than a threesome, she was up for anything. Hot little body. Yeah, I miss those marathon sex sessions.
There was a pizza place that I loved to go to. Just perfect pizza. I'm several states away so I don't go there any more. I miss that, too.
In college, there was a really great cliff I would climb. Well off the beaten path, neat view. A porcupine lived near the base of the cliff, sometimes I'd see him. Took many people on that hike. Obviously I don't go there anymore.
Point is, you'll miss stuff. You can dwell on it and feel loss and sadness if you want. Or you can look back and say "Man, I'm sure glad I got to experience that." Up to you.
Ventrego 3y ago
Nothing is wrong with you. She gave you something you need, and now you're not getting it. That hurts! It's also natural to imagine what might have been. That being said . . .
The only way through this is forward. Focus on something new and good. Friends, work, hobbies, and new flings can all help here. You'll still hurt while you do this. But like a strained muscle, the pain fades over time.
P.S. Don't follow her, don't check up on her. Stop picking at that scab!
Callista 3y ago
Your ideas are very useful to me, and this line are worthable
Aiamja 3y ago
Anybody can have a good body and change about anything physically... not anybody is a good person to have around.
You should ponder people by their actions, and recognize you are better than the misery these people (that don't care about your well being) bring to your life.
Think of... you really think these people do really care if you are hurt? they don't, they despise you... that's why by default I don't talk to women.
undersiredone 3y ago
i miss her man.
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LoneSpawn 3y ago
You don't miss her, you miss the sex redirect your focus on your goals. Sidenote: If you don't have any goals make some, work on them consistently this can be anything that you feel needs improvement. Also she's one of many women out there, so don't waste getting so attached.
undersiredone 3y ago
Thanks man, it's true her body/sex was out of this world. Goals and doing well in life is good and all but not really a replacement. What should i do?
Chris_in_PL 3y ago
It's tough to say from the information you've posted but it sounds like the other areas of your life might not be working so well so this girl has become an idol. Focus on building your self-esteem and boundaries. "The Six Pillars of Self Esteem" and "No More Mr Nice Guy" could be useful books to get into.
undersiredone 3y ago
Yep you're right i probably do have self esteem issues. This girl was incredible in bed and also hot and i got way too attached. Haven't been with a girl as good as her since.