You notice how many people like to complain that us men are hypocrites about the slut thing because we then say that women are either too shallow or too conservative with their sexuality?

Ah! But see the funny thing, you think men also are not contested with their sexuality constantly? Think again

Who remembers the show Jersey Shore? Now granted I only seen clips of the show here and there, but it becomes one of the themes behind the show was showing off sex or making it part of your identity I believe. It was also part of the show's identity to make you think of just chasing luxury.

Also, why is it men have to be more shallow with their sexuality than women if society really wanted to take the caution of male sexuality serious? Why are their so many labels to describe our sexual rank, yet not as many for women? Why does male sexual imagery actually incite stronger reactions (both positive and controversial) than those of women? Example, remember that Dolce & Gabana add pinning down a woman? Or what about the Calvin Klein Justin Beiber ad?

See women's sexuality is sellable, but also be to be protected right off the bat if women want actually make it part of their identity, but for men they need to resort to more polarizing views of their sexuality and sexual condition due to sex becoming another social status tool, which not only reeks it out of its original purpose, being reproduction, but it also damages the intimacy of both parties regardless of sexual orientation.

Men have to flaunt their sexuality, women can just be able to express whenever they want to whether is around social circles or corporations

What do you guys think?

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hearse223 5y ago

When you are sexually desired you can get away with anything.

But its up to you to be able to recognize when that desire is there. Delusions don't count.

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zino193 5y ago

I think sexual .... what can we call it - Hot Babe rank - so this would include desirability but from the side of the one that is desired - I would say sex appeal - but it's not limited to sex, and it's a term degraded by culture -- so let's stick to Hot Babe/boy rank. It's a measure of bangability - whether it's ONS or the lorship that comes from being the domme of prince William

So I think HBrank is power, it's like flaunting your muscles, your wealth and other competitive advantages that make the people that lack them envious and thus ruin the social peace.

You are allowed to have them with modesty, like how supermodels always pretend they do social work or save the planet, or how old school antepreneurs were pushing PR pieces about how they made a school.

Or you are allowed to be caricature of the archetype and thus be self aware of your looks, like how John Cena, Batista, the Rock or Terry Crews get away with being physical gods next to Colbert and he doesn't go all out defensive little bitch around them.

Now, these rules apply in media as well. We are a consumer society, that means that popularity rules. Popularity is rule of the average, the relatable and the meh. So that's why we have humblesexual women, in 10 inch cleavages like Sofia Vergara on a family show, and why you have a beast like Terry Crews crying about a old rich white guy grabing his dick.

brennyflocko 5y ago

Don’t post about shows you never watched. Waste of everybody’s time

jojojijo333 5y ago

A woman who fucked around is not ltr material, if sex was given often, sex is meaningless and cheating normal

Society wants men's productivity, sex is the main motivator for men

neveragoodtime 5y ago

Interesting. Society wants men’s productivity. Society wants women’s sexuality. Both are shamed in various ways by society for not meeting those expectations. That also leads to certain market forces:

Men encourage promiscuity because it reduces the value of female sexuality. Women encourage socialism because it decreases the value of male productivity.

jojojijo333 5y ago

This is why the best thing that you can do as a man is to eliminate the narcissist in you that thrive on female validation and use your producticity for yourself first