now if she actually knew how to wrestle this would be a much different story. when i first started reading I thought she was just the worst wrestler on the team or something, but actually shes a fat volleyball player who's never heard of testosterone...

Em, why you suddenly assume that he just was in a gym only a few times? Many guys who actively lift weights still stay skinny fat even after bench press 100kg or more. Have you ever seen powerlifters? Many of them are far from being ripped.

If he is skinny fat at 80kg then he isn't really a "small" guy and his height is a little bit above average as well. In comparison, his girl is very tall and big (for a girl), so she probably still can win the untrained guy who is less than 60kg or just fat without any training. Still doesn't change the fact that at the same level of training and weight women are much weaker physically, but it doesn't mean that any man is stronger than any woman.

This thread made me remember when Dana White and Ronda Rousey were pushing to try and arrange a fight against Floyd Mayweather.

They asked Floyd if he was interest in the fight and he replied "Ronda Rousey? I've never heard of him"

175lbs is heavy for 5'10.

I would like to know if a 125lb 5'10 male could beat a woman who is 180lbs 5'9 who lifts regularly and has high numbers for bench/squat/deadlift?

What if that woman takes steroids, could he still beat her? (not huge quantities of steroids - just the amount a high-level crossfit athlete would take)

She's 5"11

Fun Fact: Height is a huge indicator of high sexual submission in females. HUGE. It kicks in at 5'7" - 5'8" and by 5'10" is a lock.

At that point she seemed confused and things got a bit awkward. "Confused" means that she's realised what she's been told is a complete lie.

That and she's probably trying to figure out why she's suddenly so horny.

Pro Tip: Never let your girlfriend win at wrestling. They don't really want to. All my girls are sexually submissive. A couple of them like to "wrestle" me but they understand that, to me, they are little kittens. They just like being dominated by a strong, desired male. So when I pin them, or lock their wrists using only three fingers, they get all moist and say, huskily, "So now I guess you can do whatever you want with me." Girls can be a tough read, but some signals are LARGE PRINT.

Further reading:

Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women

-How to lead when she wants to follow.

How sad that reading this I’m so scared that this young man will get an assault charge just because of his GIRLFRIENDS delusion. And no joke I’m half way through dreading that this dude is in the college office getting disciplined and the title 9 section of the college handbook read to him.

The average man doesn’t weigh 125lb and the average female college athlete isn’t 170lb.

To answer your question, did you miss the point of the post?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQKIaEw4Hmc

Women college athletes from D1 all the way down to D3 and JuCo have some of the most hyper-inflated egos of anyone I’ve ever met.

This reminds of my school days.. There was this basketball player, extremely fit. Thicc would be a better word in fact. I used to be a scrawny kid, she was definitely heavier than me. She challenged me up for arm wrestling. I let my knuckle almost touch the table and yet she couldn't finish me. Then from that position I instantly finished her off. Lmao the face of her entire female squad of athletes.

Being overpowered in a wrestling match with a tall collegiate athlete woman?

....Sounds kinda hot not gunna lie

I train MMA and actually have a few amateur MMA fights and a pro record in K1 Kickboxing. I am predominantly a kick-boxer and my grappling SUCKS!

We have a female BJJ brown belt who has a very high opinion of herself and prides herself on “tapping” men (I had seen her bullying new trainees and a lot of the other women).

I’m not confrontational generally and she weighs maybe a bit above half what I do (my non fight weight is about 235lbs). She starts calling me out constantly to “roll” with her.

Again, my grappling is GARBAGE!

Finally I agree. She really thought that belt gave her magic powers or something. After a bunch of shit talking to me, which I never reciprocate, we started. She learned quickly that all that technique, and even her magic belt, doesn’t mean much against an opponent that can literally lift you overhead with one hand.

Now she just badmouths me behind my back. “He’s just brute strength, he has no technique and he fights like an asshole”.

This story has no real point except another example of a woman who drank way too much Feminist Kool Aid

Yup, the difference is significant. When I started BJJ it took me 3kk of practise to win purple belt women in my bjj gym...or that was the first time I first sparred with them. Dont know if I could have won even earlier.

To their defense I was bulked up 240lbs back then and they were around 165lbs. They had no chance when Ive gotten down basic mat movement and few basic locks/chokes and not do stupid mistakes.

Against similar weight purple belt men I had no chance until I had trained about 1,5-2 years and even then I couldnt win but the sparring was somewhat toe to toe.

Ofc there is also technique involved here so strengthwise you cant do direct comparisons.

Interesting breakdown and take.

Have seen delusion when it comes to “mental strength” but never physical.

Girlfriend must be dumb.

Simple rule of thumb for the autists in here saying "some women can outlift men", 90% of men are stronger than 90% of women.

I had a girlfriend who honestly thought she could beat me in a real fight. She was kind of a big girl though so maybe she could. I nearly threw my back out lifting her up once. Big boobs tho.

The Natural Order in action. Thats why the men were hunters.

This post is not about sexual strategy, who gives a fuck about feminism influencing society..

"I occasionally lift weights so I'm pretty strong".

I'm sorry but I cant help but laugh at that.

Women get shocked, sometimes literally, when they realize how much stronger a weak man is.

But want to get shocked yourself? Wrestle against somebody that lift. Or a Judo/JiuJitsu amateur. Blue-Belt, the second lowest belt, go ahead, choose a skinny one.

He not only will beat you, he will do it while not even breathing heavily. Take it easy, you could injure yourself, vomiting from the effort is common.

The difference in strength and endurance between a trained man and a non-trained skinny-fat man, is the same or bigger than the difference between a man and a women. You won't believe how stronger you can get with training.

I'm calling bullshit. I'm a christian, Republican, trump supporter, rugby player. I am not the typical redditor at all. But I know some rugby 5'10" girls who would destroy a typical guy.

This seems super made up to make OP feel better since he got his ass whooped by a chick.

One has to love that people who identify with the alleged party of science aren't keen on accepting biological realities.

So she's a volleyball player but assumed she'd out wrestle him just because she plays volleyball?

If she had BJJ experience and he didn't she'd probably wipe the floor with him. Volleyball and wrestling don't really have transferable skills though.

I played college baseball at a SEC school. I was dating a girl on the women’s basketball team that was/is a top 10 program and regularly in the top 5 in recruiting. With you usually athletic banter we ended up setting up a 5 on 5 game in the open gym with 4 or my teammates and 4 of hers. She was the 6/7th player on the team but she elisted their top 4. I grabbed who was around and one of the guys happened to be a second team all state point guard in high school. The rest of us were college athlete but not really big hoop guys. It was brutal. They quit at 18-3. Their PG couldn’t put it on the ground without getting picked. They couldn’t rebound. We were sloppy but when you get 80% of the rebounds it doesn’t matter. They regularly practiced against guy managers but the guys were all under 6’0 and were going 1/2 to 3/4 speed. You could see their faces were sinking and they grasped the gap. We had this goofy, gangly 6’5 relief pitcher that 360 dunked and they just walked off.

The author of the "misandry bubble" said 10 years ago that a global crisis was needed to end feminism. The crisis is arrived.

There was a local self defense for women instructor in my area that had gotten a bit of fame locally.

Her videos got uploaded to our local sub and I pointed out that she was being way too quick to try and take the fight to the ground.

That this could be really dangerous for someone that doesn't know what they are doing for obvious reasons.

1) You won't be able to bring down a 6ft 200 lbs plus but in one move.

2) She actually had plenty of leg muscles from triathlon training but her pupils didn't and would not be able to pin and dominate on the ground.

3) someone could have a knife in them and by putting your whole body on them your leaving yourself exposed to knife attack.

I was down voted to hell and call all kinds of things. I just think that her training was going to get someone hurt if used in real street fighting but I'm the bad guy for pointing out the weak points in her strategy.

You haven't demonstrated how this correlates to feminism. Sounds like it has nothing to do with feminism and everything to do with the fact she thought she would always win because he continuously let her win.

The only real reason why this post has any upvotes is because people read the original relationships advice post AND your title. You have taken more of your time to hate on the guy than try and explain behavior.

Your attempt at dissecting a relationships post is extremely bad. It’s filled with hate and radical assumptions. While you do have some knowledge, you are nowhere near the level needed and thus have written absolute verbal vomit on the subject of relationships.

Let’s try and think for a second now.

OP met someone in college. You assume that this happens just before the CC or right after because COLLEGE BAD FOR LTRS.

To make such an assumption you need to have more context, like is the college Florida State University?

OP let his girlfriend win in play fighting. You assume OP is a very blue pill beta male for letting his girlfriends win because this is an act of not asserting dominance.

It’s called playing a game. Relationships are a long term game. We all play games. Beating someone obviously inferior in every competition does not make you an alpha, it makes you unaware of your social surroundings and someone who isn’t fun to play with. Also it’s wrestling, which obviously leads to sex. Is it blue pill that OP let her win EVERY time? Maybe. But should OP win every time? Fuck no.

OP says he lifts weights occasionally and is strong. You translate this to OP goes to the gym 2-3 times. Radical. Far fetched. Out of your ass. Unnecessary.

OP talks about height and size. All you do is mention that they are the same size. Will you point out something wrong or something right with that? Otherwise unnecessary.

OP (175lb) wins against GF (165lb). You tell your audience that even though OP is way less athletic, he managed to beat his girlfriend. Well, weight and athletic performance are connected, you know. And OP did mention going to the gym. How did you assume his athleticism? You are hating on the guy. This is blue pill.

I will skip to your TLDR.

Skinny fat male (5’10 at 175) with minimal lifting experience (who told you that?) and lack of athletic background (assumptions not backed up to prove a point does not make it stronger) completely DESTROYED his girlfriend (he just won a wrestling match bro).

The original post is interesting. Your title is interesting.

Your post is dreadful. Your post is bad content.

It’s almost as if young women are growing up seeing female superheroes who weigh 140lbs beat the shit out of two 6ft4 220lbs men at the same time and thinking that it isn’t pure bullshit.

Men are told that they aren’t allowed to use their physical strength and then women start believing that it doesn’t exist.

The media pushes this narrative pretty hard. Even shows like Vikings show women physically dominating men. It looks absolutely ridiculous to me, but people seem to eat it up. They have no idea how ridiculous that narrative is.

Feminism is a hell of a drug. I love it when they call each other sis.

OP mentions in another comment that he is "quite strong" because he bench presses 80kg. Make what you will of that, but benching your own BW isn't that impressive by lifting standards. He probably is stronger than the average dude (who apparently can only bench 60kg), but whatever.

Can an average guy bench 60kg for reps? I find that hard to believe. The first time I benched in the gym my arms started to shake during the final reps of 4x12 with just the bar.