So because of all this quarantine and lockdown, I've been getting texts from some of women that I used to try to spin or the ones I was actively trying to before the virus hit the fan.

I'm not much of a texter, I suck at reading between the lines, therefore for me, it's a logistics tool. I use it strictly to share important information and set up dates. I don't use social media either. I used to, but it's a waste of time. So when I got the following text, I really didn't know not only what time think, but what to say.

9:40 PM : Please PLEASE do not tell anyone because I do not know how I ended up here I trust you.

I just did cocaine.

What? Okay first of all this chick is wild, this doesn't surprise me. Hot, extroverted, witty. She knows her game. She's hard to get. She normally doesn't share personal information or what she does, besides I don't text things like "what are you up to". I've been using the rule of less is more and slowly reeling her in. Her issue? Awful friends/influence/coworkers. Note: Apparently cocaine goes around but she "would never do such a thing".

Here is where this is a great example of solipsism.

She is acting like it happened on its own. It just happened. She is not responsible. Which is utter bullshit. Social perception got her in this position and now it's hitting her that she fucked up and is a bad girl. She always was, she likes her alcohol and pot, and with cocaine being all around her it was bound to happen. But telling women what to do is useless. What they see is what it is, and she saw herself as capable, responsible, good. Wrong. She's nowhere near.

I soft nexted. Seriously I have 2 dull plates waiting after quarantine, and it sucks cause this woman would not care about quarantine restrictions, but not looking for crazy. Especially when they follow up the texts with:

Idk why I shared with you, I'm sorry, I just need to tell someone, I'm in a bad stage in life, it will never happen again.

Why even apologize? If she never told me I could keep fucking her and not be bothered. But she cares what people prcieve her as. And that's all women care about.

TLDR

Plate texts me she did cocaine and it's not her fault and she isn't responsible. Right. You get the rest. The only reason women will tell you something like this is because they think you're some benevolent God who will forgive them and tell them everything is okay! She's not bad!

Edit:

I'm glad this brought up discussion, as thinking about something is a lot more productive than simply absorbing information.

Edit 2:

So what I've learned is there are way to many coke heads on Reddit! Y'all need some serious medical attention my friends! COVID-19 does like a weak immune system :D

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mikesteane 6y ago

All diseases like weak immune systems.

marianomanto 6y ago

Wait, so you are telling me chicks don't like taking responsibility for their actions?
Shocking!
I am joking, of course, thanks for sharing.

BTW, I would totally fuck her. Why the hell not?

when_its_too_late 6y ago

I mean I did fuck her lol just now I'm not gonna give her the same treatment for breaking my boundaries. I have standards. Kinda punishing her now

Nicaddicted 6y ago

My response would’ve been “Fuck... did you really? Alright that’s not good, bring over a rock and a bottle of wine and I’ll see if it’s meth or not.”

Free coke and free wine

TheRedPike Senior Endorsed 6y ago

COVID-19 does like a weak immune system

No, it doesn't. It kills the same way the flu does: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cytokine_release_syndrome. The reason older people are more susceptible appears to because they express the gene/receptor that allows the virus unto their lung cells more.

FYI to others: this post falls under the amnesty I offered in my pinned post. Please format your posts properly.

xfiles_tr 6y ago

Sometimes i think trp posts are related to low quality females. Such posts make me wonder is trp's analysis of female nature just a confirmation bias?

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NovicePilgrim 6y ago

Don't fall for the "quality woman" meme either, my dude.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

This probably has some truth to it. It is similar to reading reviews on Amazon for an item. The 1% with 1 Star will always give the worst description, where as the 5 star review with simply say "great product". Of course basing your purchase decision on that 1% isn't mathematically logical but still those few flukes stay in your mind especially if there is big enough sample size. The bad reviews scream louder.

So yes, thou is correct my friend!

SistaSoldatTorparen 6y ago

Just wait when you try to apply your pua material on someone who isn't a 19 year old superdrunk bimbo in a nightclub.

NovicePilgrim 6y ago

Muh "pua material",

Instead of being a beast of a man?

Get you swedish soyboi ass outta here, punk.

randarrow 6y ago

Nah, is more general than that. People normally relate through shared proximity, personality disorders, and trauma; most people suck at real relationships/friendships. We notice the outliers. And, online discussions are a further distillation of this process.

Go to any advice forum and just play the "which personality disorder/immature quirk is this?" game. Unless its greentexts, no one writes about getting a postcard from gramma.

Mens Redpill is mostly a big war against codependency, but just shifts it over to a weird case of histrionic disorder.

theUnBannableHulk 6y ago

Apparently ALL WOMEN CHOOSE TO BE LOW QUALITY

SELF CONFIRMATION BIAS

YES ALL WAHMEN

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TheGweatandTewwible 6y ago

Agreed. Take it into account, sure, but a coke user that is trying to rationalize their shitty decision? Color me surprised

spawnend 6y ago

Facts. I used to live here 2013-2017. Posts were higher quality , but ever since I left trp keeping only the fundamentals I realized that a lot of women can do better than this. Or maybe I’m just blue pilled again, wtv.

erarjorin 6y ago

That is one of the issues of trp. Not all women are "Stacy thots", even if female nature is real.

I mean, is male nature to fuck anything pasable. It doesn't mean that all men do that.

jamesbond0512 6y ago

Most man can’t. they don’t have the mental maturity to do so thats why some rape(not advocating it it’s just the truth.)

Not all woman are thots. That’s not the point of the post.

The point was that someone said that people only post about low quality woman; and obviously. There’s more low quality than high.

Most man don’t wish to fuck everyone because that’s just immature but if they could fuck their specific type, they would.

Ask rockstars and rappers and actors and good looking security guards and bartenders; they have the best high and low quality pussy on platters.

They’ve fucked over 1000 woman, not counting the repeated womans.

So don’t say everyman doesn’t do that.

They just cant and they wont.

Plus, These woman get more dick than you get pussy.

Don’t trust me. I just have plenty of young cousins and old cousins getting dick thrown like spears in the movie 300 or w.e that movie is.

The red pill doesn’t have an issue. It just talks about the sexual aspects of it. So it all sounds the same.

Also, some guys are new, so they treat this like its a new discovery and talk kind of weird which the moderators are doing a good job removing weak post

ntvirtue 6y ago

IF that were true then why would women who make more than 60% of the household income divorce their lower earning husbands at an average rate of 95%?

urbanfoh 6y ago

Have you met women who are willing to be bread winners? They tend to be not feminine and have swallowed the feminist strong independent women - pill.

I don't want refuse the entitety of TRPs teachings but with statements like these you definitely look at a biased sample of women.

Edit: ... and of men

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xfiles_tr 6y ago

What is a good way to assess if she is LTR material or not?

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First, set your boundaries. If she has a kid, if she's divorced, if she's on anti-depressants, if her notch count is high, etc. Enforce them, don't lower your standards. You have too much to lose. After that, there are three traits that stand out to me: conscientiousness, self-awareness, and self-discipline.

A LTR needs to be aware of her obligations, take them seriously, and be determined not only to succeed, but to produce the best results she can. That's not limited to a job, but especially motherhood and her role as a partner in the relationship. The metaphor is that she's the first mate. Assuming you do your job and lead, don't drag dead weight behind you.

Self awareness and self-discipline go together. Being aware of what motivates her and making good choices based on that. AWALT is thrown around a lot, but it's misunderstood. What it actually is, is a reminder that all women are capable of being like that. But women are also capable of making good choices for the right reasons. In the OPs post, this woman made a poor choice, cocaine, for a poor reason, pressure from her social circle. She lacked the awareness and discipline to make a good decision for a good reason.

This sub has the tendency to assume the worst in women, and to be fair, iGen is the worst generation of women in the history of the world. The truth is that women are no more slaves to their biology than men are. All women are influenced by their inherent nature (solipsism, monkey branching, etc.), but not all women are controlled by it.

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The-Knowing 6y ago

This is why AWALT is so important to understand. Not all women do cocaine and act like it wasn't their own responsibility. But all women are like that. All women are inclined towards plausible deniability. All women are inclined to not take full responsibility for their actions/circumstances. The only differences are the actions themselves and the extent to which they externalize responsibility.

So yes she may not be a high quality female, but that is not the point. The point is that women don't take full responsibility and that they abuse plausible deniability, low quality or otherwise.

Lambdal7 6y ago

The acronym AWALT is probably the worst description and the most misunderstood concept here for that reason as well.

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when_its_too_late 6y ago

Problem is, there has always been potential to do cocaine, she could have been doing it for a while (like someone already mentioned) if she's willing to admit it. Maybe she just needed a reason and an excuse to bring it up to test me. Also she didn't text me when she was on cocaine. Apparently it was the day before, to negate the effects of alcohol. What a dumb human.

The-Knowing 6y ago

I think it's pretty silly to make anything of this example, tbh.

I'd agree, but only because detail is lacking. It's not that coherent and obvious, but I just wanted to emphasize the point being AWALT.

Literally anybody could have this panicky train of thinking on their first time doing cocaine. It's a hard drug. You think differently.

Fair, but the post reads as if she denies responsibility after the fact. Also coke has a pretty short high, so I just assume that's the case. While this is not the best example to show this dynamic, I think that it atleast highlights that AWALT/Plausible Deniability reaches beyond promiscuous matters that we are familiar with such as going out clubbing, going home with a dude to 'see his place' and then it just happened/wasn't under her control.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Thanks for being more verbally capable than myself and explaining this.

That's exactly the point I was making.

TheEgyptianConqueror 6y ago

Yo I've always heard coke has a short high, and I'm naturally very resistant to drugs (100% immune to caffeine, high alcohol tolerance, and have tried to get high off of weed many times and have never been able to), but man when I had cocaine one time (give me a break, I was in Colombia) holy fuck that shit lasted forever for me

DareyFathom 6y ago

I would guess different drugs work on different receptors. So your tolerance thresholds wouldn't be consistently high across the entire drug spectrum.

TheGweatandTewwible 6y ago

You using Colombia as a given to doing coke made me genuinely laugh out loud. Have an upvote

red_philosopher 6y ago

I wonder if it's an area of the female brain that just develops differently or more slowly than other parts of the female brain. ADHD brains develop executive functions much more slowly, as an example. We also know our personal experiences shape our brains significantly, and the choices that get made and how they are attributed also shape our processes.

For example, women that have overcome significant trauma tend to have a very significant internalization of responsibility, because they had to in order to take back control of their lives. No more bullshit excuses existed for them if they wanted to heal. These women are masters of their lives, because they know deep deep down that the only way for them to get to where they want is to work for it. It's a little extreme, but the AWALT mentality may be a deeply rooted side-effect from the experiences of never consistently having had to be responsible for themselves.

Since men are naturally inclined to do things for women in the hopes of getting their dicks wet, is it any surprise that women would learn this behavior anyway? If AWALT was a pile of shit, the vast majority of women would still be AWALT because of the instinctive behaviors of men. Also, the tendency for men to be more personally responsible than their female counterparts probably extends from the instinctive empathy gap. Nobody cares about men, so you either man up and do it yourself, or get your ass kicked the whole way.

The same holds true for all the entitled man-children; they fuck up their entire lives and blame everything but themselves. They're just as AWALT as the women are. So what's the difference?

CuntMonteCristo 6y ago

There are many neurological differences between the male and female brain including anatomy, grey and white matter, signal processing, hypothalamus etc. but that's all forbidden science these days...

red_philosopher 6y ago

It's intriguing isn't it? But the fundamental learning methodology is still sound. Like, Western women have no true incentive to be self-responsible on the biological basis of inherent value, that is, until something forces them to be.

The same holds true for men, boys that are coddled and raised to be self-entitled had no similar incentive to be self-responsible. The only difference was that they were lied to about having an inherent value vs actually having one. And the exhibited behaviors are quite similar.

CuntMonteCristo 6y ago

I respectfully would like to add. From a bio-psychological perspective any form of responsibility and therefore possible confrontation always meant extremely high risk and possible death for a female. In their evolutionary system taking responsibility has no value and actually should be avoided at all costs for themselves and other women. Even when two female arch enemies that hate each other bump into each other on the streets they will pretend and go "Hi Stacey so nice to see you bla bla" and even if they hear some talk about another woman, that they may not even know, they will immediately instinctively defend them regardless of what happened...that does not happen with males. Males come from a evolutionary system where taking responsibility and honesty was crucial. Weather we went hunting or to war together or build a house, these were dangerous activities where we clearly need to know who what when etc. so we can fix it and avoid disaster. That is why men have a lot of respect for other men who take responsibility for their mistakes. These are honest men that we can trust. Women don't feel like that for women who take responsibility, they see it rather as dumb or "shit, you got caught". It has no value for them. That is deeply wired into them.

Men have an instinct to sacrifice themselves since sperm is cheap.

Women have an instinct to sacrifice others since eggs are valuable.

jamesbond0512 6y ago

First of all Awalt is a general statement to not out woman on the pedestal.

(learn how to read long passages and learn how to avoid bullshit advice) (I wrote all this bullshit just so one of ya can get some pussy and make some money one day, so soak this shit up. A little reading won’t kill you; you’ll just learn to distinguish bad writing and bad advice from the good ones.)

And low quality woman are everywhere so you’re typing like you live in a utopia.

Low quality woman are the base of life; same for man.

Either you live in “high society” That has its dirty side as well or you get no pussy at all.

Trust when I say that I am around the party crowd all the time.

The percentage of high quality girls there is minimal and that’s where the majority of humans decide to go. To clubs and have “fun” and shit.

The other high quality woman dont do such things but they will if they get the chance.

A well reserved woman does not means shes a snowflake.

Put a girl in any environment and she will soak up its culture in less than a week.

Woman have no moral, only a really small percentage. (Not even my mom and I love that bitch; she’s one of the cool ones that reserves her self)

You can say the same for man but it’s much harder for a man to do crazy shit if he has built character and standards.

Don’t think your woman is high quality just because she doesn’t do cocaine cause either me or my friends will game your bitch so hard, she’ll find a reason to cheat. Any reason is valid enough. So don’t let your bitch outta sight just cause she’s “high quality” those are the ones that really want to have fun after a certain time.

As a plus; all those bitches going to top colleges? They all have a biological time clockS and they all want to explore. They all have a timing in their uterus and clitoris that itches like the world collapsed on it.

Those are high quality woman striving for good grades and a life after college but when they’re with their friends? Herd mentality takes over. They all want to fit in. They all want to get chatted up by chad. If chad or some cool kid brings over some good drugs, they might take a good rip before acting like a good girl again.

Listen; I wish I stayed in college and transferred to where the high quality woman reside. Young, smart and itching to be full of cum.

But wait, there’s more; you know those highly successful woman ? The ones that earn more than most man? They truly have an itch to explore their wild side. Have you been to those reserved clubs or restaurants? It’s so calm and high quality that if you ever have the balls to tell a girl, lets get the fuck outta here and go somewhere more wild, 9/10 will take you up on it. Those woman are miserable surrounded by a bunch of simps. If I can find a way to connect all the wild dominicans I know with all these high quality woman full of money, they will dry their banks up and fuck them dry. Except those woman will still be miserable because they idealize about a sexy man whose way better than them monetarily and a person as a whole.

Now I can condense this whole bs essay into a couple of words but you won’t even try to understand. So I’m going to keep typing shit with little to no consideration for your time.

I have a best friend; lets call him chad. He can get any bitch just off looks but he cant chat them up for shit unless its through text and bitches still fall for him cause their animal brain is what decides.

The majority of his bitches love him cause of looks first and personality second. Great guy, but every bitch he’s been with has those dick sucking eye. Meaning if he wasn’t there when we hang out they will mostly all drop down and go to town and suck me up. I don’t say it to brag, only to say that back then I believed in nice girls and loyalty and all that good shit that should only be reserved for war.

These girls have no morals. They all claim to want to have his kids and treat him nice but on his back they start dancing like moderate whores and stop when he turns around.

I’ve only fucked one of them cause I knew she was a little whore before dating him but the others, are bitches you will suck on their daddies dick if you saw them. They all have a tendency to want to show their slutty side around me cause I absorbed this whole side bar shit.And I’m also Dominican. If you don’t learn in the Caribbean with hot weather and animalistic tendencies, you for sure aren't going to learn anywhere else that’s why most of these dudes are simps and full of ideologies that lead to shit.

A security will fuck your high society wife. A dirty hood guy with all the right looks will fuck your good looking mom. i’ma post this link so you can see some reality.

We have basic rules in reality and that’s to procreate and kill and all that other good shit. God designed some cruel shit with the rights amounts of everything To be entertained for a long time until this bs design blows up on itself which is designed to, scientifically.

All that reservation shit and high quality and manners and other BS like that is a great front.

Mostly all men want to fuck your sexy ass bitch and Almost all woman want to drop down and move like a whore. They enjoy it as much as we all enjoy watching it.

Don’t be blinded by all the the jewelry and high class society. They are refined animals with no restrictions behind doors. We’re all animals. We’re all dirty bastards. With great education but it means nothing when your dick gets hard. A great education means nothing when your bitch gets wet.

Learn how to get mad at society and reality. Learn how to question your immediate reality. Everything is exactly as it seems if you don’t learn how to think for yourself.

I really respect my mother cause she’s not manipulative like other women, that’s pretty cool. She tried to raise me to be a regular guy. To raise my voice at my father cause he was a real animal. He’s what you call a bitch. He was chad in his days, getting bitches left and right just off looks. Now he’s bald with no game. Acts like a simp christian, (god I hate christians)

I’m bald as fuck too but I can fuck the devils wife if she’s hot and moves correctly.

Listen, I can write for days and inject great grammar into this bullshit but I’m not.

Take what you can and fuck what you don’t. Idc. But I can tell you this, if you learn how to read a bunch, learn how to get in tune with your dick and reality you’ll start seeing the shit for what it is.

It ain’t cute but there are some nice architectures out there and great interior designs but if they don’t maintain it will go to shit.

There’s a couple laws of physics that describe reality. Almost everything links together; the less you see that, the more sheltered And shitty your life will be.

The more connections you see, the more broad life you will live. Maximize your IQ and exposure to everything. Learn even if it hurts. You might want to kill yourself but stop being a bitch and you’ll get over it. Ignorance is bliss until you’re bored out of your mind but too stupid to know you can kill yourself. Life is misery. Life is pain. Life is so good, it’s linked to death. so do w.e the fuck you want.

Understand that you can fuck any woman even if you’re ugly as shit.

Just put your best foot forward and dress up like you mean it.

When you get to the effortless stage because nothing means shit to you, you’ll start acting like a killer. Bitches love killers. Everyone loves killers. Not glorifying it but if you walk around with the aura that you can’t kill, your a simp like the rest of them. All those wall street guys drink theirselves to death if they don’t buy pussy. I’m not against it but you get great value when you know how to fuck for free. You’ll get higher return on your money if invested else where that is not a pussy.

We’re all animals. We’re all killers. Grow your balls and stop thinking shit is sweet. The bitter taste of the red pill and reality is as sweet as it gets. If you take It like black coffee no sugar, you’ll start to live way beyond your shitty means.

Take over what you can, nobody really gives a fuck until you meet another killer with his balls in tact. You know exactly what man I’m talking about. You get scared by looking at them.

I’m not cleaning this shit up so learn how to read bs grammar. Forums are full of information with jack shit writing skills. I’m a skilled writer but sometimes I just don’t give enough of a fuck.

And remember that you can fuck those little bitches with “ripe cunts” quote from the netflix show mindhunters.

Why settle for an old bitch when theres plenty of hot bitches ready to give it up. If you got your game on point theres no reason to be old and fucking old wack bitches.

Get on your shit, this world means nothing to you and you mean nothing to it. So strap on, cause we’re on a fast moving rock or take that reserved seatbelt off and walk with meaning and intention with every step you take.

BadBambino 6y ago

Damn, maybe you the one on cocaine..

jamesbond0512 6y ago

I learned how to channel the excitement of cocaine into writing.

You can too if you learn how to look past the shitty writing and into the little messages

Brandono99 6y ago

You're ranting, inflating your ego and threatening that you and your friends might game other people's women in the midst of what reads as a torrential tide of word vomit. What a fucking loser. Condense this shit enough so that it fits in the bin and leave it there. We need less of these soapbox rants.

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Thefreeman911 6y ago

From this reading alone you definitely sound dominican

jamesbond0512 6y ago

that sounds stupid lol i could order this up but fuck it

Keith_Valentine 6y ago

Bro, condense your fucking post. Youre blabbing like a woman.

jamesbond0512 6y ago

I could but I have to type it all out before I can condense it tightly packed.

This post might not be for you. The intention is to make people read.

If you don't want to read, so be it. It’s not for you.

I practice writing and copywriting so I know this shit is way too long.

I can condense it to a couple paragraphs after I’m done.

-3

Keith_Valentine 6y ago

Thats fine but your wall is longer than the op and you are mostly just ranting about random shit.

GlowInTheDarkDonkey 6y ago

The intention is to make people read.

And who the fuck are you?

It’s not for you.

What you are missing is that it's for YOU. It's textual masturbation.

I practice writing and copywriting so I know this shit is way too long.

Practice somewhere else.

Skimming this world-class turd revealed nothing novel.

jamesbond0512 6y ago

Lmaoo I hope you become the best person you can.

Just wanted to mentally masturbate cause I get no cheeks

xfiles_tr 6y ago

This is a mainly mens sub so Confidence is good being self delusional is not.

jamesbond0512 6y ago

I don’t see where the self delusion is at.

If it sounds like it, maybe you’re projecting your limitations out on me.

I know my skills and I know it’s worth a little bit and I practice stand up comedy, so saying some funny shit that’s a little Controversial isn’t out of the my reach.

Confidence means nothing to me even though it plays a big part.

I’m glad you read a little bit but take that mentality out your head. Imposing limitations on a person you’ve never met says enough about yourself but the great thing is that there’s always time to keep growing until there’s not.

xfiles_tr 6y ago

I should assume every stranger that can type a comment to reddit as James Bond + Dave Chappelle.

jamesbond0512 6y ago

Lol the name was random cause who the fuck is really serious about their name specially in their teens.

Listen, you choose how broad your mind is. All I can say is enjoy,

ShinjiBoi 6y ago

Dude cocaine is everywhere. And if you're like 25...In 2010-2013 everyone was doing drugs, like everyone. I swear to God it was a weird fucking time

when_its_too_late 6y ago

I definitely wasn't in my 20's durring that time. Shit I grew up till my 20's never trying pot! I mean sure it would be cool to try but it's not something I'll go out of my way to do.

But I do remember the adults back in 2010-13 talking about drugs being rampant, guess it was true.

DrunicusrexXIII 6y ago

The nineties, when I was in college, were very druggy. Nearly everyone at least smoked or drank, other than very serious athletes, and they chewed tobacco and boozed it up too. The only thing I never really saw was heroin. Speed, coke, weed, lots of booze, and cigarettes were at most $3 a pack. It would be unusual for someone to have at least not tried pot. I was fairly well behaved compared to most but would definitely cut loose after exams, if I wasn't working.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Must have been fun times, I haven't even held pot in my hand. Most people who I know who have some refuse to sell it to me because they all say "you don't need this shit keep your brain working" lol

DrunicusrexXIII 6y ago

I went to a university with a big music department, and every weekend was a huge house party with live music. A lot of the music students would practice for 10 hours a day, then really cut loose on the weekends. I partied pretty heartily for about 20 years, from 18 until I was about 40. I was good about hitting the gym a couple times a week, and always worked decent paying jobs, so I did okay when I went out from Thursday to Saturday. Now I'm pretty conservative, quit smoking, got married, have a nice wife about 10 years younger than me. For whatever reason, she's one of the few people I know for sure has never once tried weed or coke. She's pretty much the exact opposite of all the girls I dated when I was younger. I will say my 20s-30s were the best years of my life, but they couldn't have lasted much past then. I probably got out of that lifestyle at just the right time.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

It really sounds like your did! At least you had your fun. Makes my life seem boring! Even though I have plenty of fun, I am partial towards alcohol but that's probably because my genetics give me a really high tolerance.

DrunicusrexXIII 6y ago

I'll have a beer or two now, but I'm glad I got married and settled down when I did. Though I do get crazy bored out here in the suburbs, especially now. I can't even go to the gym, and just have dumbbells. Trying to kill time with software training videos (I've been a developer/admin/analyst for the last 10 years or so) and my guitar. Learned some new songs but nowhere to play them now!

when_its_too_late 6y ago

I've bounced some crazy careers myself mostly self taught on the side of college (flunked out of med school and turned into a Civil engineer/designer working on 48 story high towers, life is so weird).

Did coding, mostly Java/C for Android and iOS. Work on electronics and cars for fun (I love circuitry, and engines). But now with quarantine I'm doing some home renovations, never time to get bored in this life. And no time for coke-head chicks neither.

jm51 6y ago

COVID-19 does like a weak immune system

And a weakened heart.

liberules 6y ago

this woman would not care about quarantine restrictions

the chicks who aren't giving a shit about the quarantine aren't giving a shit about the other 10 guys they're fucking during the quarantine. hooking up is how you end up spreading it, not standing only 4 feet away from someone for half a second in the grocery store.

the same applies when we're not in quarantine though. there's a reason why far more men are virgins than women, and far more women have STDs than men. it's because it's a small number of dudes smashing a large number of women. and right now these bitches are starved to death of attention, even from their orbiters.

bluefingerblue 6y ago

She’s a plate. Not your girlfriend.

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Niamke_Mode1 6y ago

Great post. Remember: it's never her fault. Why do women have LMR (last minute resistance)? Because she can't have people think she's easy. Why does she tell you that she's slept with/dated a much lower number of guys than she actually has? To throw you off the trail of her being a slut while simultaneously disarming you before you ask. Women can't take responsibility for their actions because they can't handle the social repercussions of it. Who judges and slut-shames women the most? Other women.

This particular woman brought that up with immediate apology because she wanted to see if you would fawn over her with the "it's not your fault/I still want you/I know you're a good girl" bs that betas would give her. I don't know if she sees you as beta or an orbiter, but she sure as hell doesn't see you as her Alpha Fucks.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

I like your second paragraph. I honestly don't care what she sees me as, as long as I don't give in to "saving her ass". It's not my job.

Glad for your input.

Zech4riah 6y ago

I'm not sure how this implies solipsism. It's more of a lack of responsibility/accountability.

I guess you should read again and internalize what solipsism is.

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CygniGlide 6y ago

I hope you have other reasons to next other than “I did cocaine”. I’ve done coke once and its honestly not that bad. There’s a huge stigma behind it. If you only do 1 bump, you’re only high/energetic for about an hour. That’s why people constantly do bumps throughout a night of partying. If she’s an addict then yea those people are crazy, but I mean I’ve done it once and haven’t done it since, though I wouldn’t say no to do it with my friends. Doing drugs does not instantly mean psycho

when_its_too_late 6y ago

I've long suspected a Coke issue. The fact that she mentioned it means there could be more. It's widely used in her field. She's already practically an alcoholic, tough to keep her sober. She's horribly irresponsible, and I get it AWALT. Plenty of smaller things, but seriously, it gets boring if all it is is sex and booze. Steady degradation has caused me to slowly move off. 2 years ago she wasn't this bad lol. I have options, she was just the hottest one who could also be fun. Now she's just hot lol.

Str8_Pillin 6y ago

She's trying to see how willing you are to forgive stupid impulse decisions. She's setting you up for the Georgia. The "what are we?" is likely coming soon.

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part_wolf 6y ago

The Georgia? That’s not an expression I’ve heard before.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Same but sounds appropriate...or the Alabama

iwviw 6y ago

Op this girl contacted you to let you know she did coke? Or was there something else to the story?

Chitlinsandgravy 6y ago

Twas a frame test. Wouldn't consider the logic behind BEFORE the coke. Definitely do not with it being a factor in the interaction.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

That is literally it.

We text solely for logistics/fuck. We don't talk, she doesn't do phone calls. It's solely let's meet up, let's have a drink, let's fuck. So to get a text like this is out of the blue for me. The most I've gotten is a pic of her at a party or something which I wouldn't reply to.

iwviw 6y ago

Was she trying to imply that you guys meet up?

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Nope. I haven't responded, so that's it.

iwviw 6y ago

Maybe it was like a “hey, I’ve had a few drinks” text... insinuating that’s she’s hot and ready

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Considering she immediately followed up with an apology for her actions, doubt it.

" I'm sorry for telling you, I'm just in such a bad state in my life"

Honestly her life isn't that fucking bad, not even close.

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She wanted dick. She was hoping for a "come over and work out that energy" response. She served a fastball down the middle, and he struck out looking by not responding.

She apologized to save face because she realized he wasn't a heavy hitter. She was apologizing for treating him like Chad when he was a simp.

empatheticapathetic 6y ago

Why did you next? I don’t get it.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Soft next. Meaning too busy to reply, or just moving on without setting some hard line like "you're bad stay away".

empatheticapathetic 6y ago

So ignoring her text is automatically a soft next? I don’t think that’s correct. This implies you soft next every girl when you don’t respond to their text. Ignore women’s bullshit, that’s standard. Why are you nexting though?

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Read the sidebar. Avoid crazy.

empatheticapathetic 6y ago

That’s fine. Just wanted to know your reason and boundary. Doing coke isn’t that crazy though. The only difference here is she felt like she could trust you enough to tell you one thing she did. You’d be horrified if she told you all the other crazy things she did, or any girl.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

If I wasn't so busy I'd give a longer explanation in more detail.Even though everyone's on quarantine I still have to work.

But just to name the topic headlines, avoid crazy, (my definition of crazy may be different than yours so), I am not her daddy so I'm not going to help her solve this problem because that is the reason she came to me, also the last thing I want to do is her bring up her problems when we're fucking next time, I'm just avoiding a headache to be honest I have enough other options.

empatheticapathetic 6y ago

Cool, fair enough. The only reason I said what I said is because, girls are going to admit crazier and crazier things to you as they feel they can trust you more and more, and you’ll probably end up dropping a lot more for similar reasons without realising, they’re all like this.

I’m also at work btw.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Oh I've heard some crazy things but I just have a pretty strict no drug policy. I didn't mind her drinking I didn't mind her fucking other dudes as long as I could snap my fingers and have her all I want to myself. But the last thing I need is a headache. If she admitted to doing cocaine wants who knows how long she might have actually been doing it and who knows maybe she'll start stealing from me or something you never know I just don't want to put up with it in the future I'd rather soft next right now and if I have ever in desperate need of sex then I can just hit her up nicely.

BKLager 6y ago

That’s a pretty radical view of people who do coke. Working in finance in a large city, cocaine is pretty common with my age demographic. No idea where you are or what your background is but think this is a little harsh.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Medical/engineering.

That's why I'm my post i referenced cocaine is common in her social circle, she's been pretty outspoken about not doing coke. I mean why try now after being in that same circle for 6+ years. Get what I'm saying?

I'm talking about the BEHAVIOR not the act itself. I could care less, let's say you're a doctor whose outspoken about smoking and then you try it and cry about it like "I dunno how this happened that wasn't me".

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Dls95405 6y ago

Women generally have what psychologists call an external locus of control. Even when they realize they've made a given decision, in their minds, they had no choice but to make that decision because they are always responding to forces outside themselves.

KingGerbz 6y ago

This is why all bitches live and die by their horoscopes. Their behavior is based off when they were born. Something they had zero control over, it’s not their fault they did this or that, it’s because they’re a Capricorn. External locus of control to the max

wtfdoiaskfor1 6y ago

lmfao, dude this is such a succint and great way to put it.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Wow that is so spot on. Horoscopes, superstitions, spirituality, fucking YOGA. Everything they do is connected to some kind of "it's out of my control but it works/did it" thing.

okuli 6y ago

With horoscopes and spirituality you can cherry pick things to your liking, that's why it's more convenient than religion.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Interesting detail, I'll look into that term, thanks.

Dls95405 6y ago

And the concurrent internal locus of control. They both go a long way in explaining general gender differences.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/moments-matter/201708/locus-control

when_its_too_late 6y ago

Is there a particular place you'd recommend looking for the full scoop on this? Otherwise I'll just Google it see what comes up.

Edit: thanks man

Jetrous 6y ago

Sounds like you care. Hot and wild is an easy cocktail to get addicted to. Ignoring is good, spinning it so next time she'll do coke with you is better, if you're in that sort of thing. If not, just forget about her so she won't get used to texting you every time she tries coke with a bit of cock.

sniper1905 6y ago

Couldn’t she #metoo him if she did coke (and he didn’t cause why would he).

when_its_too_late 6y ago

It is addicting, but the right thing to do is GTFO.

guynpdx 6y ago

Coke whores are the worst. Sucking dick for white powder. But it's not their fault!

Acx3 6y ago

The post is more heavily focused on female hypo-agency with solipsism acting in the peripheral. Hence the title might more properly denoted "Hypoagency at its finest" rather than female solipsism at its finest.

when_its_too_late 6y ago

You are right, now that I think of it, that wasnt the first subject to come to mind as I had recent read about solipsism hence my brains primary recency effect.

ledsdeadbaby 6y ago

I don’t get what the big deal is. She did some blow so what?

David-Yonnas 6y ago

This isn't a good example, I think you're overthinking it. I'd take this at face-value. She did something wild and just wanted to talk to someone about it.

Popeman79 6y ago

Although true, it´s really a weak example of female solipsism. Not worth a post.

TFWnoLTR 6y ago

Is it weak, or is it just simple?

I've found simple examples are just as important as the complicated ones. This is a simple example.

Think about it. How would one of your male friends text you about their first time trying coke? Would they try and externalize responsibility for their decision to try it, or would they say something like "I just tried coke. Not proud of myself."

when_its_too_late 6y ago

This is probably the best example I've found here. Most are about sex, which is shallow and common.

zino193 6y ago

Dude, stop being a fucking judgy bitch. This was about sexual strategy before all the cuckservatives made it about the kulture warz.

What does it mean that when excited she texted you. Why you - why not one of the other 20 smucks in her phone that are more recent contacts - that is a discussion about sexual strategy.

It means: hey - look at crazy girl over here ; want some of this?

Sure, if you're busy and all that - or don't want to bother with crazy it's a reasonable decision. But stop pointing fingers like you are some 50s boyscout. If you ain't fucking you ain't winning. The end.