If a woman destroys a "man's" confidence, he wasn't that much of a man, really... :) Give up resentment, for yours and others' sakes.

I had this happen to me in reverse.

Was at the bar and a really hot girl, in a pretty good looking group, comes up to me, smiles and says "hi, my friend thinks you're hot". I was like cool, start scanning the group a couple them move and then a literal 2/10 whale waddles up out of nowhere and I literally did a shocked Pikachu face and turned 180 without saying a word.

They started yelling at me for being rude and an asshole. The hot one slapped me in the back.

But like, what the hell did you expect? Way to set up your friend for embarassment. This story reads similar and you can't blame the girls here.

Try being a chad. I literally get bumped in the club by females on purpose. Elbows the whole 9 yards. Then when I approach after literally getting eye fucked, hand in the face.

Idk man..... I don’t mind much. These women play games right off the bat. So I apply dread-game, talking to other females.

And all of the sudden she wants me.

This is peak negative feedback loop. If you look ugly, is shy and awkward, then you're subjecting yourself to the brutal social negative feedback loop. The key is to change the variables where it's a net positive feedback loop vs negative. aka by lifting, dressing better, learning how to talk properly etc

Probably sheltered by his boomer parents, especially the mother, never taught or had any positive male role models, siblings, friends that could acclimate him socially. Its the typical formula for these kinda guys and add in MSM programming and that'll usually produce the modern new age eunuch.

Unfortunate a lot of guys have these elements to them. Who knew MSM, school or retarded boomers were a failing on the young.

I dont know why people literally take under consideration what others think of them? Like seriously duuude, just pretend they are no better than mare apes. You don’t care what your cat thinks about u, so why stop there? Unless someone accuse you of something, which you didn’t do. Then yeeah you got to shut it down.

Yeah. That dude was primed for failure the day he needed external validation.

It's funny cause on one side, it's cool the gal kept talking to the dude to sort of get him over his panic attack. On the other, you also sort of wish she were just real with him in a way to give him a reality check (though, I think the bitchy friend did that in a way).

...and that awkward dude went on to be Ted Kaczynski.

"stfu bitch" is the only right answer.

Do not ever let your validation come from a female.

sounds fucking gay. Maybe the bitchy friends the whore that sloppily goes home with anyone. Seems like the type. Don’t treat women how they want to be treated treat them how they need to be.

These are the women who will scavenge the internet in their 30s on how to talk to hot guys. Humiliation is good when I look back it put things into perspective.

Yes this is a sad story and I'm sure very painful for that man but some of us need experiences like this to fire up our inner beast so hard that it will change them into a new stronger and better man. I hope this is what has happened.

Nobody destroys your confidence. Destruction of your confidence is a result of your own thoughts and/or actions. You are responsible for your own thoughts and actions.

If you were really having fun you would have told you r friend to fuck off. Apparently, your friend was right.

Don't be doing a guy any favors. Just fucking stay away.

Women like those are the lowest bottom feeding scoundrel. Soulless cesspool of low IQ and zero integrity. For every million rotten women in this world..there is one gentle soul out there waiting for you to find her.

Bit confused. Are you a girl?

Why are girls so socially incompetent. When I’m hanging out with other guys and one of them starts talking to a girl we have the common sense to not interfere

What a misleading title. Females don't destroy a man's confidence because his confidence is already destroyed. It's his own internal beliefs that destroy his self value and any criticism will only confirm his beliefs.

Any person, man or woman, has any jackshit of power over a man who has confidence.

This post is shit and unhelpful.

a handsom stranger becomes a handsome friend in just two paragraph of times.

a very handsome guy came up to me, spoke to me for 10 seconds and then shoved his shy and unfortunate looking friend in front of me with a "this is (guy's name), he's (something good and interesting)!

I find it interesting that no one has mentioned this guy yet. The narrator says "very handsome guy" came up to her to speak to her then shoves his friend in her face. This handsome guy has probably had luck with girls in the past based solely off his looks, and is probably trying to help his unfortunate looking friend out by getting him some external validation.

Shy guy has yet to learn that validation must first come from himself. His 'very handsome' friend may not realize this either or perhaps wants him to lose the fear of rejection.

The narrator says also, 'this for whatever reason touches my heart, so i set about having a polite and friendly conversation with Awkward Dude'

Doesn't that smell like pity?

Hope my manz levels up and stops seeking validation from women. Their validation of you is correlated by your accomplishments, which translate into what you can provide to/for them. Pity has no viable trade-off for them other than perhaps adding you to her friend zone.

My thoughts at least. shrugs

Reading this was painful, it reminded me of myself a few years ago. I hope this man uses this experience to grow and become stronger.

Most of us have stories that have had a similar effect on us; that's why we're here.

once crushed let's hope the poor guy goes through a transformation and becomes an alpha. That's how shit works

this is why you convince yourself that youre better than everyone because any attack on you is simply so ludicrous its not to be taken seriously

This is why you take advantage of any and all power you may have over women whenever you can.

If I was the guy getting made fun of. I would use that anger for self improvement

I've had something similar to that happen to me. I was talking to a girl in the bar and it was going fine then her friend came over and grabbed her hand and tore her away. I certainly wasn't a bumbling idiot like this guy either. Part of the game. Learn and grow.

What bugs me the most about this is the fact that females are holding eachother back from changing their hypergamous nature. The girl telling the story was clearly enjoying her time with the awkward dude but in comes her friend and ruins it.

Now that girl will probably never even attempt to do something similar again, at least when she's hanging out with her bitchy friend.

No one destroyed his confidence, he didn’t have any to begin with. She is not responsible for how you feel. You’re responsible for your own frame. Don’t blame others if you allow your paper thin veneer of confidence to be shredded, people (men and women) want to, and will, see who you really are.

The way the OP tells his story is like "all women are bad, all men are good". Oh my... haven't you ever seen men treat women like trash?

Both sexes are equally good and bad, open your-mind idiot. Even though TRP is true, it really gave me depression at first, but deep down I gradually realise if I were in women's shoes I would react in the same way as they do. Every behaviour of men and women can be boiled down to survival instinct. Since our physiology is different, our behaviour is different.

At the end of the day , 99% of men and women suffer, life is about suffering as there will always be more sadness in our life than happiness. So, there is no need to spread hatred and cause more suffering to others.

Atleast he went out. He can either learn from this or be a bitch and go back to pornhub.

This dude, never had a heart break. When you have a deep deep heart break, you know you can't love in the same way ever in your life and hence you stop caring about walking over shattered glasses to please someone. You know....It won't make a person stays in your life. All Chads who are capable for spinning multiple plates are either indifferent to girl's attention or had a heart break in their lives.

Are you now not worried that your friend will also 'save you' when really talking to a man you're naturally drawn to? Or maybe that's what she thought she was actually doing, and she later secretly followed up with him to find out what the fuss was about?

It is a fact that I feel bad for my less attractive friends who don't get laid as much as I do.

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Literally I would've done the same thing and I'm a guy.

Stop feeling sorry for the losers. Unless someone has some fucked up mental illness that prevents them from living normally, no one has fucking excuse for being a loser.

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This always used to be my greatest fear.

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Suppose hes really close with his mother too.

No point in blaming the "bitchy friend." Girls will be girls. Personally, one such encounter (actually even cringier) kicked me on the journey towards pimping, which led me to find RP. Throughout most of the journey, I was mad at the girl in my encounter. Not now. I'm thankful she crushed me when she did. I needed my ego to burst to build myself from the ground up.

With regards to his post though, the guy could either end up here or delve further into BP and end up becoming Mr Nice Guy from thinking there's "good girls" like original OP and "whores" like original OP's "bitchy friend." I hope for former, expect the latter.

Bet that friend was a land-whale.