Reposted because the original got inexplicably removed.


If I had to ask you right now, what would you say women find most unattractive in men?

Is it being short? Fat? Poor? Ugly? Sexless? Friendless? Unambitious? Insecure? Hesitant?

If you think any of those are correct, you are right. The bitter irony, however, is that you are so right that you have missed the point of the question.

Every one of those conditions listed are only parts of the real dealbreaker, because they are not individually the things that repulse women.

To be unattractive, you simply need to be a man who is limited by circumstances. Or to be more specific, believes he is limited by circumstances.


Women don't give a damn about each of the individual qualities, but each of the qualities communicates a limitation. And every limitation that you have drags you further and further away from what women really want - an unstoppable man.

It's not the qualities themselves that make a man unattractive - it is the limitations that they subcommunicate. If you let yourself beleive that you are limited by circumstance and approach life with that attitude, don't expect

The only reason why women are more attracted to tall, muscular, handsome men in the first place is because it makes emotional sense in women's minds that those are men who are more likely to feel unstoppable as they carve their way through life. Women want the emotion, the attitude, and the experience that comes with those qualities, not the qualities themselves.

Women know there are many, many, many things they are limited in by nature, but men are capable of being unstoppable despite their circumstances. To have excuses is to impose limitations on yourself. This is an emotion of scarcity. Abundance mindset means believing, with every cell in your body, that you are capable of anything as long as you act. The belief that every door is open to you - that is the quality that women truly want - the experience, the opportunity, and the exciting journey that a man gives them.

The only way to be an unattractive short man is to be a man who believes that his height is what is holding him back from infinity. Most people disbelieve in their potential, and this goes doubly for women, who see nothing but limitations if someone has not shown them the way. Do not buy into the frame of disbelief. That is a man's most valuable resource - the belief in possibility.


Disclaimer: this is no excuse for not changing yourself, since that defeats the whole point. To maximize your success, build your body and optimize your physical image. But always remember - no matter how outwardly attractive you are, if you are passive, incompetent, and boring, you are not attractive.