Reposted because the original got inexplicably removed.
If I had to ask you right now, what would you say women find most unattractive in men?
Is it being short? Fat? Poor? Ugly? Sexless? Friendless? Unambitious? Insecure? Hesitant?
If you think any of those are correct, you are right. The bitter irony, however, is that you are so right that you have missed the point of the question.
Every one of those conditions listed are only parts of the real dealbreaker, because they are not individually the things that repulse women.
To be unattractive, you simply need to be a man who is limited by circumstances. Or to be more specific, believes he is limited by circumstances.
Women don't give a damn about each of the individual qualities, but each of the qualities communicates a limitation. And every limitation that you have drags you further and further away from what women really want - an unstoppable man.
It's not the qualities themselves that make a man unattractive - it is the limitations that they subcommunicate. If you let yourself beleive that you are limited by circumstance and approach life with that attitude, don't expect
The only reason why women are more attracted to tall, muscular, handsome men in the first place is because it makes emotional sense in women's minds that those are men who are more likely to feel unstoppable as they carve their way through life. Women want the emotion, the attitude, and the experience that comes with those qualities, not the qualities themselves.
Women know there are many, many, many things they are limited in by nature, but men are capable of being unstoppable despite their circumstances. To have excuses is to impose limitations on yourself. This is an emotion of scarcity. Abundance mindset means believing, with every cell in your body, that you are capable of anything as long as you act. The belief that every door is open to you - that is the quality that women truly want - the experience, the opportunity, and the exciting journey that a man gives them.
The only way to be an unattractive short man is to be a man who believes that his height is what is holding him back from infinity. Most people disbelieve in their potential, and this goes doubly for women, who see nothing but limitations if someone has not shown them the way. Do not buy into the frame of disbelief. That is a man's most valuable resource - the belief in possibility.
Disclaimer: this is no excuse for not changing yourself, since that defeats the whole point. To maximize your success, build your body and optimize your physical image. But always remember - no matter how outwardly attractive you are, if you are passive, incompetent, and boring, you are not attractive.

Comfortable-Regret 6y ago
"How To Be Unattractive"
Me: The expert
Deluxillo23 6y ago
I agree with you, good point. But as men, we also like pretty and young women just for biologically reasons. Or we like to eat to, etc etc. We are no free, none of us. We are all slaves of our survival and reproductive needs
Also woman like to fuck the hot guy just for being so, with no questions. Nothing is black or white with women thats for sure. And their dream alpha men is all rounded. Physically, mentally and financially.
NovicePilgrim 6y ago
Glory is not found in victory, it is foud in the struggle.
Bear the burden. Proudly.
Godspeed.
TheProfitMotive 6y ago
The problem is a lot of people never truly wake up and realize this world doesnt care one bit about you. The second you realize that then you are free to not care about this world.
masterpiece00 6y ago
Sure, i'll just take 20% of your wages from your labor at work. Thank you, free man.
gleeeshy 6y ago
This whole post doesn't really make sense. Okay so you're a 5'5 fat ass with pimples covering his mug but you think you're the king of the world, now youre gonna go get an 8+? No, she's gonna go fuck the 6'5 Chad who also thinks he's the king of the world but actually has the crown to back it up.
This entire post is what I like to call a red pill fairytale. Posts like this serve one purpose, to convince a man that he is not held back at all genetically, which is ridiculous. Look, we are men, we like to be in control, I get it. But walking around like you're Brad Pitt when you're an ugly little fucker is going to get you laughed at a lot in real life.
Im also not sure why you are just changing the definition of attractiveness into the definition of confidence when we already have a word for that. Yes, being confident (within realistic boundaries) will net you more attractive girls, but it will never make up for your genetic deficiencies. What exactly is the problem with knowing your limitations and trying to push them as far as possible instead of just delusionally convincing yourself that you're capable of anything that you can put yourself in the mindstate for? This way of thinking is why sooooo many guys are depressed they aren't banging 10's when realistically they should be proud of pulling a 6. Not everybody is on the same playing field. Sorry
nickdimitrov 6y ago
I can see how this can be interpreted the wrong way, but I'm not advocating that people do not evaluate others based on how they look.
A physically attractive man =/= an unstoppable man.
There is a correlation between the two, but the two qualities are not fixed to each other. It's not a man's height, money, or his handsomeness on their own that a woman is attracted to, but rather what they imply. A man can be attractive but completely impotent and boring, and obversely a man can be unattractive, but unstoppable.
I'm not saying that women do not have an initial preference for physically attractive men. The point is very simple: Outward attractiveness is not what women are ultimately after, and it does not reflect a man's true desirable quality.
gleeeshy 6y ago
Well again, I disagree. What a woman wants is going to be a combination of physical and personality traits. Just saying a woman ultimately does not care how you look, it's just absolutist, and wrong.
It's really no different than men.. the things we looks for in a woman are a combination of beauty and other mental characteristics. My point is definitely not that looks are all that matter, but they matter a LOT.
In short, I agree with the concept of this post if it was just "be confident, it's helpful" I do not agree with "be confident, it makes up for being ugly"
PopePalpatineTheWise 6y ago
The post is saying "play your best with the hand you're dealt" instead of sourgraping and complaining that you were dealt a bad hand. That increases your odds of winning.
It's not mindblowing or controversial by any means.
carolinaflash 6y ago
...You missed the whole point of this post.....
gleeeshy 6y ago
"The only reason why women are more attracted to tall, muscular, handsome men in the first place is because it makes emotional sense in women's minds that those are men who are more likely to feel unstoppable as they carve their way through life"
"Women don't give a damn about each of the individual qualities"
"The only way to be an unattractive short man is to be a man who believes that his height is what is holding him back from infinity"
Oh come on. No I didn't. This is straight up you can do whatever you think you can do Disney-fantasy-land bullshit. Read the last quote specifically, that sounds like something from a children's book.
Again, I'm not saying everything this post suggested in terms of being confident is wrong, I agree with all of that. What I disagree with is that THINKING you're ugly is the only negative effect of being ugly. And I vehemently oppose the idea that every man is capable of becoming this unstoppable limitless force that can shag any girl he wants. Sure, it's a nice read to make yourself feel powerful, but in application I think people will find that their physical traits will change people's opinion of them regardless of how solid their mindstate and frame are. If you want to believe you are capable of doing anything, it will help you. But what would NOT be beneficial is a bunch of people getting depressed they can't fuck model girls because obviously they are a failure as a human, considering all the qualities they need to fuck models come from within themselves and are not genetic at all .
The equivalent to this is a girl version of TRP having a post "ladies, you can still get Chad if your an obese whale with balding head and no tits or ass. All you gotta do is make sure you're loyal, smart, caring, motherly. Ignore all the physical shot, what men really want is a good partner in life"
Yeah, we do want all those things, but we want the girl to look good too. I don't see why you are putting women on this pedestal of being above physical judgements of people when literally EVERY bit of information we have points to women caring about only 2 things, how you look, and how your wallet looks.
carolinaflash 6y ago
You’re entitled to your opinion my guy, but im not reading all of that lol.
BigSassyBlkLady 6y ago
This is good advice. I always say "confidence" but this is more accurate. I still have a gf even though i rip huge farts right in her face when she falls asleep on the couch.
She never stays mad for long, I know she secretly loves it. Either that or she is afraid I will lock her in the closet again.
when_its_too_late 6y ago
I find only one issue with being an unstoppable man. Sure you can be unstoppable in your personal goals and career for example. Climb the mountain of success so to speak. But never for one second get led on and become an unstoppable man for the sake of a woman.
I have a plate that moved to a whole different country. Yesterday she texted me to come visit her, and that we can have a night out and blablabla more hints at DTF. Okay sure I could totally tell her I'll take the first flight over (when quarantine lets planes fly). Heck the plane tickets aren't even that expensive. But seriously, why bother jumping stupid hurdles for a single woman.
You want to be unstoppable in the universal things that will get you attention and get you laid regardless of where you are and who it is. Any dumbass can become unstoppable when it comes to simping on a single woman. But can he become unstoppable in his own life to become a beacon of attraction that the women will be the ones simping to him?
BigSassyBlkLady 6y ago
Yes, it is jumping through hoops if you just go there at her command and then return home at some later date. But if you kidnap her and bring her back home with you, that is asserting dominance AND living without limits, on your own terms to boot. In time, she will respect you for this.
when_its_too_late 6y ago
Ah the ol assert dominance on some crazy chick... Fuck no who needs that headache, she respects me as is.
BigSassyBlkLady 6y ago
Better man than me, you is.
papertowelfreethrow 6y ago
only issue I see with this example is that you can use her to travel for cheap. she provides housing, food, and social scene, and you get to experience a new place that otherwise would've been paid completely out of your pocket. That is if you value traveling tho.
when_its_too_late 6y ago
I've been there a bout a dozen times. The reason she moved there and they moved there because my fam has friends and family that live there and it's kinda we all know each other but never talk or see each other. So it's nothing new to me.
I value traveling for sure, but again she was just a plate. She was to fucking dumb to know how to save and spend money so there's no way in hell I can beta buck her ass because unlike her I actually know what I'm doing with money.
So what I would get is a potential threesome and good sex for a few days? Nah, I just fucked a plate at the office since everyone is afraid of the virus and I'm the only one who comes in.
10211799107 6y ago
You must be my twin. Same situation. Spent two weeks with a girl and she wants me out in her new country asap. Non stop pics of herself doing shit with herself on video begging me to visit.
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[deleted] 6y ago
As a 5'7" inch male in the US who never struggled in my younger years with finding women - plural - I can vouch.
Get fit. Educate yourself. Be charming. Maintain DGAF. So long as you aren't trying to hit up 6'1" models, your height will be a non factor...as long as you make it a non factor.
masterpiece00 6y ago
Ahhh yeah thats a no, women like height and at 5'7 you are about the same height as a majority of them.
[deleted] 6y ago
Good thing you're on this sub because it's your attitude that's holding you back. Might wanna think about changing it.
jzekyll6 6y ago
Tall women are less judgemental
[deleted] 6y ago
Which is why Liberals are all cucks. 'Why try and improve when you can blame someone else?' Is how they live their life, it's also why they are always unsuccessful dorks who get pushed around. If anyone wants to argue, go ahead, we both know it's the truth...
[deleted] 6y ago
This is just an unenlightened perspective of someone who's spent way too much time on the internet. You have this caricature of a liberal built up in your head because you've spent way too much time thinking about it. Liberals are very clearly not all cucks. Some hardcore lefties are, but that's not the same thing.
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[deleted] 6y ago
Go to a gym, most guys lifting are conservative. Same with business owners. They put in work and hate excuse making
squarehead93 6y ago
There are some amazing dudes you'll meet at the gym and there are a lot of kind-hearted business owners who got into what they do for all the right reasons. But if you don't realize a lot of them are just wannabe sociopaths who are willing to step on anyone to get ahead you're in denial.
If you want to be like the latter, you do you, but as a regular gym-goer and having worked for several small business owners I can tell you a lot of those people are objectively pieces of work who are allowed to be who they are because they're big fish in a small pond. They'll throw absolute shitfits when the smallest thing doesn't go their way
[deleted] 6y ago
One mans shitfit is another mans assertive
squarehead93 6y ago
In my experience definitely not. One of my owners I used to work for would act all tough on our scheduling app and bitch at us over instant messaging or have the managers do his dirtywork. Never could do it in person.
Like I said, these are weaklings who have been allowed to be big fish in small ponds and think the rules just don't apply them and throw a tantrum when they do.
Trancefanatic 6y ago
I was a liberal sjw white knight.... annnnd i let a woman push me too far. I did a lot of reading and soul searching. Now im a conservative. Sometimes just people need education.
TheMailmanic 6y ago
These labels are stupid and just part of the oligarchy's strategy to pit middle class folks against each other while they rape the country and create economic slavery.
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DrewChambersDC 6y ago
ooo-la-la someone's going to get laid in college
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kpl1998 6y ago
Yeah not all of them are but definitely a lot. I feel like a main philosophy of people here (you control your own destiny) is something that resonates a lot more on the right than the left for whatever reason.
vreller 6y ago
Just be apolitical. Political orientation is a form of identity and there’s nothing more to it. You aren’t going to change the world.
[deleted] 6y ago
No one is truly "apolitical" though. My views align with the right but that doesn't mean I blindly follow them. People on the left tend to accept failing as they can always blame other people, people that lean to the right tend to take more responsibility for themselves which is why capitalists are so successful.
TheEgyptianConqueror 6y ago
That's why I consider myself a conservative more than a republican. I have conservative values, but I don't want to be part of a party
when_its_too_late 6y ago
This. Got to love the dumbasses who keep voting because the think their vote counts...ever heard of the electoral college?
[deleted] 6y ago
Being on the left is a safety net for failure, most people I've met on the left always seem to use excuses as to why they are unsuccessful whereas my friends on the right always look at ways to improve which obviously results in success over time.
BlueBlus 6y ago
I’m on the left and gotta agree. It’s much easier to blame problems on the world rather than take responsibility. However not to say there are zero problems. The one thing the right pushes well is self determination
Mr_KenSpeckle 6y ago
Or at least self-determination is one of the right's talking points. They are the first in line with their hands out whenever the shit hits the fan. As far as blaming others rather than taking responsibility for your own actions and inactions, we could talk all day about the Excuse-maker in Chief. But the quality of Red Pill always suffers when it devolves into partisan politicals. But I like the original post.
InsidiousCurve 6y ago
Ironic thing is there's nazi's on the right that need to be told the same thing. They blame jews and major corporations for all their problems.
squarehead93 6y ago
Exactly. There are at least as many whiny losers on the right and anyone willing to dispute that is just in denial.
MrAnderzon 6y ago
It’s only a problem if you make it a problem
deville05 6y ago
Essentially find the balance between being realistic and delusional. If you are too realistic you are a insecure and a bummer. If you are too unrealistic then you are an overconfident douche.
[deleted] 6y ago
That's the difference between confidence and arrogance.
Arrogant people are douches; they brag about themselves, qualities, and achievements. They put others down to make them feel on top. They seek out praise and admiration, and don't take well to criticism. Their motto is "I can do anything better than anyone else effortlessly, and you should take notice," and everyone sees right through them. They are not confident, deep down, but rather insecure.
Confident people are likeable, because they believe that they can do just about anything, but they understand they may not be the best- at first - and that certain qualities and achievements require significant effort to aquire. They have a positive attitude and a willingness to do what it takes, and they let their actions speak for them, not their words. They take criticism in stride and use it constructively. Confident people have a degree of humility and "quiet" pride that people just sense, and the admiration just comes naturally.
mr_Tobbor 6y ago
Women hypergamy. You have to be James Bond x 10 in order to put your penis in her vagina!!!
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Nursing_Father_ 6y ago
The monkey is dancing. I just can't seem to hear any music