I am going to be blunt today. Mostly because I spilled boiling hot coffee on my hand and now I have a relatively severe burn, which also means typing this can be painful at times. This also means I haven't had my coffee and being a long time caffeine addict, I can't live a day without having a coffee at 5 AM.

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Recently I was again having a conversation with a young man I have been keeping an eye on so that he doesn't completely fuck up his life. I am approaching this with a "let him fuck up and admit that what I said was true" approach. It is highly effective. Let them burn themselves but only once, they wont make the same mistake again if you warn them ahead of time with an "I told you so".

He told me how after quarantine he already had 3 plates lined up to fuck. I also see plenty of people here and on ask trp saying the same. Stop lying to yourself.

Just because you got a girl sending you nudes on tinder doesn't mean she is your plate. You haven't even seen her face to face. You haven't spoken a fucking word using your mouth yet, let alone put that mouth on the pussy.

I see this more and more by the day. Young man is bored on quarantine, finds TRP, proceeds to stay at home and try his luck on tinder. What you are doing is pretending, faking, acting. When this quarantine is over, you will walk outside and immediately turn around back to your xbox and pornography. Just because she said she will fuck you after quarantine also doesn't mean she meant it. She is bored, she wants attention, and she will say anything to get it, after all, its just words, she wasn't being serious.

So no, you do not have bitches lined up to fuck you after quarantine unless you were fucking them before or during said coronappocalpyse. Stop lying to yourself.

If you are new here and came here because quarantine gave you an epiphany, or some enlightenment that you don't need anything in this world other than your nintendo and iPhone so you thought..."man...IDGAF Imma go full yolo on tinder", you really didn't understand the point, the goal, nor the path of this subreddit. Going on tinder is an easy way out without the quarantine, let alone where you have nothing to lose during quarantine.

Conclusion

The sexual market place is like a casino, you have to stake some things to win some things. You have to overcome your insecurities and approach, invest into working out, the costs of looking what you are worth, etc. A "text" is like trying to put a dollar into a slot machine expecting to make a million on sheer luck. If it doesn't work, oh well you only lost a buck, if you win, you win! Except you don't. Stop lying to yourself. You aren't winning if your'e not evolving and improving in the real world.

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Spets87 6y ago

The main take away here: don't be a slave bitch to coffee. It's an addiction and it's not good for your health. It messes up your stomach and digestion.

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MaleInThePathway 6y ago

Build your purpose, your scale of values, your frame, is everything.

What kind of legacy I want to leave here once I pass away?? I ensure ya that wanted to bang chicks is the less of important things that you'll have once ya start to develope the answer to such a question.

It need years, to live, to make mistakes, to be fucked, get up and try again

It's tough but it really worths it!!

ConfidentActuator 6y ago

I've actually seen this "I have x women lined up *after* quarantine" with my own eyes here and was like, dude you what? Bitch will break quarantine ten times over just to fuck NOW.

alikebabay 6y ago

Yep. Thank you red pill for I knew this due to red pill! If girls mention social distancing to me now I know they are not into me. I pull one more time with ur funny, or ur coward and leave the interaction if they don't budge.

Diesel_Dragon 6y ago

Yup. I've had 2 break quarantine rules to hookup with me in 1 week. And a 3rd is driving an hour to fuck me on Thursday. If they want to fuck you, no quarantine will stop them.

GainzdalfTheWhey 6y ago

Had about 4 wanting to do the same. I'm not doing it because I had my mom move in temporarily to take care of her.

throaway4000s 6y ago

Amazing comment. Whenever I have troubles with girls being unresponsive or ghosting me, I look at a post on here which was titled something along the lines of "when a girl wants you, you'll know". Effectively it states that a girl will walk over broken glass if she genuinely wants to be with you.

henry589 6y ago

\^\^ pretty much this and I'm Chinese American too so double risk cause stereotypes

krokozubr 6y ago

So what is the actual point here? TinderBad?

True - if they sent you nudes and said that they will fuck you, it doesn't mean that they will fuck you. Don't count your chickens before they hatch. That does not, however, also mean that they definitely will NOT fuck you. It's all just maybes, why are you presenting your assumptions as facts, man? It just feels like you are a little bit too encouraged to discourage.

About the whole 'Tinder is a lie' thing. Again, true, Tinder is full of shit. There is a big percentage of guys and girls on Tinder who are full of shit. Doesn't mean that you don't have a choice to just be who you are and play it fair. Why, again, you say it as a definite truth that if you are doing Tinder then you are faking, acting, lying etc.? A lot of hookups and relationships begin on dating sites nowadays - so why texting on Tinder is not considered as 'putting yourself out'? Sex is always a sex, regardless of how you first met - but just because it happened on the Internet, it doesn't count?

MaleInThePathway 6y ago

I have a story with this kind of apps. I downloaded tinder, and I was browsing the app til I came across with chick with pretty boobies. She lived close to me and I opened a chat. She refused to speak with me.

It turned out that we were studying in the same classroom at university xD. When she met me face 2 face... She discovered that I didn't appear to be what she thought about me when she saw my tinder profile.

Then she turned wet and looked for the ways to fuck me.

On exams time she tried to get my phone number by saying " I wanted to wish ya good luck for the exam, but I figured out that I haven't it"

I replied her: huh don't worry (...)

So, well just want to say that I'm better in face 2 face than in date apps. Date apps in my opinion are a stream of dopamine and waste of time.

But well it's my humble opinion

when_its_too_late 6y ago

In the world of sex you cant judge things with a 50/50 probability. Just how in court you are innocent till proven guilty, a woman is unfuckable until you do. With this approach you see things with a more realistic point of view.

I think the point is in the title. It isn't very hard to understand.

Also, TRP does not advocate "being who you are" as the modern sexual marketplace isn't "fair" and the whole "Be yourself" thing is utter bullshit when it comes to smv. Selling yourself lies in any manner is detrimental. You seem slightly delusional.

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For real, I don't get the dudes using Tinder during this time, they are giving their time and attention away for free during a lockdown, bitch you are not even gonna meet with the girls, what's the fucking point??