Dr. Scepter has a set of techniques for you to get that HB2 off the pedestal you’ve put her on and cure the ONEitis you’ve caught for her. But first, I'll explain what a woman being on the pedestal means, how she got there in the first place, and how this becomes the dreaded ONEitis. After that you'll find two lists of techniques, one for pedestalization and one for ONEitis. Each list is not exclusive to its problem, meaning, techniques for taking her off the pedestal may work for ONEitis and vise-versa. But before I begin the class, allow me to give a tldr for the lazy illiterate fuc- I mean, the students who have things to do.

tldr; The root of all ONEitis cases is thinking the girl has something you're missing or she is better than how she really is, in a word; idealism. Once you realize only you can complete yourself, she's not as good as you think, and she's either using you or doesn't care about you, your ONEitis will go away if you dedicate time and effort to yourself.

Defining the terms

A woman being on the pedestal is a precursor to oneitis for red and purple-pill folks, but can happen simultaneously for blue-pilled beta cucks. Putting a woman on a pedestal means you prioritize her before you prioritize yourself and care far too much about her. Over time, this evolves into what Rollo Tomassi defines as oneitis...

“ONEitis is an unhealthy psychological dependency that is the result of the continuous socialization of the soul-mate myth in our collective consciousness.”

To put it simply for my slow kids in the back, ONEitis is when your psychological state depends and rests on how a woman treats you and acknowledges you.

You get sad if she doesn’t respond to your texts.

Your day is ruined if she cancels on you.

You become joyful if she seems to offer you even a chance of getting a crumb of coochie.

If she brushes up against you, you feel as if you’re a hooker being cleansed of her sins by the Pope. Total bliss and ecstasy.

You’ve allowed this woman direct control of your emotions and mental state, but before we talk about curing ONEitis, let's talk about how to take her off of the pedestal before you catch it.

1. Taking that bitch off of the pedestal

There are three main ways to take a woman off of the pedestal.

A. Find other women (duh.)

This one is obvious. Once you realize that the woman you’re talking to isn’t special and can’t give you anything another woman can’t you finally stop giving so much of a fuck about her. For those of you that can’t find other women since you’re just beginning your TRP journey or you’re going through a bit of a dry spell, the next two are for you. Remember class, she's replaceable. If you forget that, you will start to behave in an unattractive manner.

B. Realize she won’t satisfy you.

The root of pedestalization, and ONEItis for that matter, is idealism. You, for some reason, think this woman will complete you. Out of the billions of women lumbering the globe, you really think this one girl has what you need. Take it from me; women will not satisfy you. Only you can satisfy you. It doesn’t matter how many HB10s you plow in a week, if you’re unhappy and incomplete that’s a you problem.

C. Realize she’s probably using you and/or doesn’t care about you.

Women are like sharks, they can smell desperation and neediness a mile away. Some women are unconsciously cruel and will take advantage of whatever you have to offer them without giving you anything in return. This is the classic “alpha fucks beta bucks” dichotomy we talk about here. Here’s a rule of thumb; if she’s leading you on but keeps things ambiguous when you’re making overt romantic/sexual gestures then she’s using you for something. Cut your losses and move on. Then there are the women who don’t care about you at all, trust me, you’ll know when this is the case. If she knows you exist she’ll do everything in her power to dismiss you and berate you.

2. Curing ONEitis

So you fucked around and caught ONEitis. Before I give you the cures do me a favor; look in the mirror, realize you're a soft faggot, then use these techniques.

A. Realize she’s not as good as you think.

This is something that everyone recovering from ONEitis needs to realize, even if you do get her to go on a date with you or get her into bed with you she WILL NOT be as good as you think she is. You WILL be disappointed. I’m speaking from experience here.

Back when Dr. Scepter was just a peasant’s staff in high school, I caught ONEitis for this one chick in one of my classes. I somehow convinced her to send me some nudes and… I was disappointed. We’re not talking roast beef pussy here, we’re talking somebody bought some Arby’s, chewed it up, spat it out, and ran it over with a Ford F-150.

You would think young Scepter would take the hint, oh no, fast forward to when Scepter was no longer a peasant staff, but a budding monk staff college freshman.

After 6 months of solid SMV building, a woman I had ONEitis for began giving me IOIs. I seized the opportunity and asked her out. The date was lackluster. The only reason I had fun at all was because I took it upon myself to enjoy the date. She was very stiff, awkward, and I had to weasel any sort of fun out of her. She didn’t match the angelic, perfect image I had of her. During the day I realized I didn’t even want to fuck her anymore.

After the date I began avoiding her. Cutting her off wasn't easy but I won’t bore you with the details. The bottom line is I didn’t like her anymore because I expected too much out of her from the start. Maybe if I wasn't blinded by petty idealism I would have remembered that women being boring is the norm and it's my job as a man to get the fun out of them. Who knows what could have been between us?

Save yourself some time and disappointment. Lower your expectations of her. In doing so, you’ll find yourself obsessing over her less and less.

B. Know that while you’re obsessing, she’s getting dicked down by a man who isn’t obsessing over her.

This is a tough pill to swallow. Imagine this; the girl you’re currently dreaming of being roughly fucked by somebody that’s not you. Hard to imagine, isn’t it? That’s the reality. This method will leave a very bitter and nasty taste in your mouth, but that’s okay, the girl you have ONEitis for will have a bitter and nasty taste in her mouth after sucking Chad’s dick.

This method/vision should make you angry and bitter… and that's okay. This anger is a result of your perception of this woman being shattered. Use this anger and energy to invest in yourself and stop obsessing over her. Contrary to what most people think, anger is a very good thing if used wisely. The amount of PRs I’ve broken while blinded by rage could be a record in and of itself.

If you have even a semblance of pride, you’ll promptly stop obsessing over her and use your rage productively. You're not a cuck, but you might as well be if you obsess over her while she's getting dug-out by a dude she just met. The red pill is bitter, huh?

C. Figure out what’s wrong with you and fix it.

I covered this in my post Stop Giving A Fuck About Her. You care so much about her because something in your life is out of balance. When you figure what's out of balance and fix it you’ll notice two things will happen.

1. She won’t matter as much to you.

2. Everything in your life will begin to fall in place; you won’t have time to obsess over her and constantly wonder and think about what she’s doing. You’ll be too busy being a complete fucking legend.

This method is by far the best way to cure ONEitis. As you improve yourself you'll realize that she's not the prize and doesn't deserve to be idealized and sought after. We, as men, are the prize and always have been the prize once we harness our potential. Men will always have far more potential to create a lasting legacy than women. Keep this in mind.

You're not going to give a fuck about that bitch once you're big and strong, making bank, have a name for yourself, and are leaving behind something that will last throughout the ages. If she doesn't like you when you're absolutely killing it at life, that's her loss.

Wrap up

Catching ONEitis is forgivable, but not curing is unforgivable. I get it, we all slip up and get wrapped up in our insecurities and fall out of our masculine frame. Use my techniques to get back into your frame and grab life by the balls. Life is too short to be spent obsessing over a woman.

Class dismissed. I hope you learned something.