What is an Iron Maiden?
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A women who is attracted/ gets off to male aggression. The more aggressive the more she is attracted. Shows traits of sadistic behavior. could also be called a witch or black widow.
On the extreme end of the slut'ster-hood. These women like Rape-baiting...... They are fucked up.
Women like being dominated. However for the iron maiden it's not enough. She wants to be disciplined. She wants to be Hated, maybe even almost-killed.
They often have:
- Unnatural Dyed hair
- Nose rings
- Tattoos
- Scars from cutting
your typical communist flag parade.
If shes knows about herself and communicates this to her man, all is well. Consent is important. Boundaries and safe-words can be established.
A BDSM happy meal.
However the dangerous side of things is when the woman doesn't know this about herself, and her man doesn't.
Women have game as well, as terrible as it might be sometimes. If she want's the man to fuck her she will piss him off. make him jealous, lie or even cheat. She also can get off to her ability to control the mans emotional state. Like a cat playing with it's prey. There's varying degrees of this, its a spectrum.
The more mad he gets the more horny she gets. This is sub-conscious behavior. If the man doesn't have self-control, things can take a dark turn.
For she get's off to the thought of her being his punching bag.
Why do Iron Maidens exist?
- Well, Masculinity is dying. Men are less dominate.
So how does a Women get a male to act manly? aggression, the mans primitive instinct. - She has past trauma perhaps associated with violence and aggressive male behavior.
- She hates herself. And wants you to hate her as well.
- She may have BPD. And more than likely is a daddy issues girl.
- May have been or is suicidal. Or has major depression.
...WTF?
What are you supposed to do with this information?
- Avoid them. Or Search for them. Its up to you.
Here's way's to spot them:
- What music they listen to. If she's listing to music about rape then that perhaps may be a signal.
- If she does art. Considers herself artistic. Especially dark art. YA know... drawing skulls and blood.
- did or does consider them-self as emo, goth, or scene
- Use deaths of her love ones to victimize herself. Extreme self-pity. or shows apathy. one of the extremes.
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They are self-destructive
I'm just trying to give you their "attitude".
I believe these women closest relationship is with Bi-polar disorder.
My thoughts:
It is my belief that this is an extreme type of sub.
a woman who loves to be objectified. Turned into an object.
but what makes her an Iron Maiden is her addiction to pain.
I also believe though that parts of this can be deeply seen in every woman. However, it is hidden.
Women are Machiavellian in nature.

throwlaca 6y ago
I was one of those that thought this doesn't exists...It does. I found out my LTR was actively looking to get punched. I never did, obviously. It was incredibly fucked up.
It was really creepy how she would get off when I would get angry at her and displayed any sings of impending violence.
Finally, she left for a guy that actually hit her. Fine with me, I'm just not into that kind of thing.
Sudden-Effect 6y ago
One of the most generic posts available here, almost completely useless. Reads like magazine advice “Yo girl what you doin?”
“Oh the usual just listening to my RAPE MUSIC and drawing SKULLS.” I got 10 bucks down you’ve never even approached
[deleted] 6y ago
It's not useless some girls are like this.
It's to give a general vibe or feeling.
Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction.
Perhaps it wasn't as descriptive as you would of liked. And that I understand. However it helped others and that's what's important.
Sudden-Effect 6y ago
How are you supposed to play a believable character when your responses are this limp?
[deleted] 6y ago
What is limp about my response?
And what character do you believe i'm trying to play?
OrganicReflection7 6y ago
Thank you for regurgitating the side bar. Can't wait to read a field report on how you hooked up with one of these types of women.
[deleted] 6y ago
Field report:
Hooked up with satan's devil child. Threaten to consume my soul with her pussy.
Lessons learned:
Sudden-Effect 6y ago
For real this guy puts out stuff that looks like a bot could’ve written it if it skimmed the side bar. Speaks to the degraded state of this sub his posts are on the front
[deleted] 6y ago
This sub-reddit is to discus or expand upon the ideas represented in the sidebar. Is it not?
Sudden-Effect 6y ago
As of about two to three years ago it is 10 percent the original purpose(men becoming the best men they can in an honest environment) and 90 percent newbies posting their LARPs
[deleted] 6y ago
It's an archetype which can be similar to a LARP alright fine.
But what seems so dishonest to you?
wait....
You're that one guy....
Fuck off and actually apply the sidebar and see what happens. (frame of reference problem) that's what you have.
Stop reading it.
Sudden-Effect 6y ago
Boy please. You’re that one guy who’s been here for two weeks and posting silly BS FRs and generic advice that anyone can give. Anyone who’s been here long enough has seen a hundred cases like this.
I’ve already found success from TRP hence why I left the sub lol, fuck off kid.
[deleted] 6y ago
It's generic advice if you read the sidebar.
Funny enough a lot of people here don't. it seems.
That's the problem we have here bucko .
Then why are you still here?
You're not helping others. you keep trying to shit on me as well.
I've been here for two weeks and i've helped more people than you.
so then why are you still here?
Sudden-Effect 6y ago
I check in every now and the and some times a guy like Gaylubeoil has something nice up to read lol. This place is a little bit of a hugbox ever since we got the flood of refugees from incel/mgtow subs that got shut down and most the lifting advice went away.
Your “advice” posts are something that soooo many newbies do and if you were to have posted them about 3 or so years ago you’d have been laughed off the sub lol. When I say your replies are limp I’m referring to this doofy attempt at frame that just comes off as passive aggressive HR office worker shit “bucko”. It’s almost like you’re going off some kind of Template
[deleted] 6y ago
well to be fair you called me, boy and kid.
So you don't like my passive aggressive, mainly smart ass attitude?
Majority of people in my real life respond well to this attitude. You can imagine why. I live in blue-pill suburbia.
Exactly, this community has gotten too big. IMO. The more people you have in a community, the more people you try and cater too. TRP is trying to gain more followers it seems. Funny enough allowing more mediocrity. But that's also how you attract more people to your cause.
We tell men to get laid so they build an abundance mentality and take pussy of the pedestal. Then they can focus on greater things.
I'm just re-establishing the basic principles. I hope to improve my writing.Obliviously.
GLO is one the guys I read as well. I respect his writing style
I agree, talking man to man is better. It's very rare though. Even on this sub.
Sudden-Effect 6y ago
It’s not really smart ass it’s more like arguing with a woman. You’ve been here for two weeks and already have a BSFR lol pls
The problem isn’t the size it’s the quality of members now
VigilantRedRooster 6y ago
Leaving this up not as an effective guide to date such women, but a warning to young men with few options who would consider picking up a fixer-upper girlfriend at the relationship scratch and dent store
Olga_Schmutzer 6y ago
Exactly. Don't date these women. They are like Sirens, very hard to resist. Red flags are red flags for a reason, don't let your ego get in the way and think 'now I have read about and practiced TRP for three weeks (or six years for my part), I can handle a bitch like that'. That's like thinking you can handle a velociraptor. If you are even aware that you're dealing with a predator, that is.
I guess the more correct (and common) name is psychopath, or it might be some kind of subcategory of it. BPD and narcissism don't cover this kind of behavior.
To be honest, I think the OP wrote an unclear description of something vague, but at the same time very important thing for redpillers, young and old.
On the other hand, it's very good to point out some specific strange behavior that men should be wary about.
Summary: run the fuck away from these gravediggers. No contact.
[deleted] 6y ago
Thank you for the constructive feedback. I believe I have good ideas and information, just my writing is poor. I need to develop better structure to my ideas.
Olga_Schmutzer 6y ago
Hi Zoocuffs, My post sounded worse than I meant. It's good stuff, and very important, so thanks for pointing it out! I recently had to deal with somebody very high on the cluster B spectrum (probably psychopath) and I was a little triggered by your structure and overall vagueness. Don't let my reply stop you from contributing!
Besides, I don't know about your situation or experience, but I think the existing classifications (cluster B: borderline, narcissism, psychopaths/sociopaths... and they do overlap, because all of 'em need narcissistic supply) are more useful for people reading it. There's a ton of information out there, which helped me immensely (thank god for the internet!).
Ofcourse, your experience and the special characteristics from the woman you had to deal with are immensely helpful for the community. The devil is in the details, literally. Very useful for other men on here.
'My' psychopath didn't give a fuck about pain, whether inflicting or getting. They like it rough. They really are wired differently, that's very hard to understand, and that's why they go unnoticed for so long. Not everybody can make a right judgement on the 'strange' personalities you meet.
One thing though: did you mean the woman gets off on male aggression as in aggression to herself? Or aggression from a man against other men/women?
[deleted] 6y ago
If a man gets angry it triggers her attraction. If I were to yell at someone she find that attractive .
Any demonstration or use of anger. I'd say.
If your angry at her thats even better. That's her ideal.
Girl was most likely a sociopath.
Yea, Sociopaths still have the capacity to "feel".
Compared to psychopaths who are numb to even pain
Probably her mom and dad fought alot. And she grew up believing that's what makes a man. His anger.
If I ever run into one again. (I hope not) Or find out more information. I'll make sure to edit this pokédex entry.
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acoltismypassport 6y ago
You just triggered me. My first LTR was with what you call an 'iron maiden.' BPDA, dyed hair, nose piercing, made highly personal 'art' and would do lots of other crazy shit that you don't even want to know.
Wanted me to 'rape her' while she was sleeping, hardcore choke fucking, and would get off on the angry sex we had after a heated argument. Called the police on me several times. Insane.
Stay well away from these women, run like that guy from the Fatboy Slim video to 'Right Here, Right Now.'
ezragriffin 6y ago
This has always puzzled me. I know this is true.
But, why would someone want to put themselves in a position that can be bad for them?
[deleted] 6y ago
She has exceed the point of pleasure. Thus coming in full circle.
Pain gives her Pleasure.
LiveAFTSOV 6y ago
Lol you completely described this girl I was banging. I like girls like this though, gothic emo and artsy.
There fun. Their version of love is perverted, but I dont judge, it's the best they can do.
Great post man.
Noitrasama 6y ago
explain more ... give examples.. i might run into one & never know
LiveAFTSOV 6y ago
They will love you with passion and do anything you say, but they treat every guy they meet this Way. They are submissive to the most aggressive man in their immediate vicinity. If it's not you. Well then that guy has a high probability of fucking her.
Wears wigs
Did drugs (cocaine)
Has been in a male male female threesome
Has been gangbanged
Has partner swapped
Does arts like paint and draw
Is gothic or emo or scene
Has self harm Scars
Tells you she has any mental illness
Goes to raves
Goes to night clubs
Is an instagram model but not a real model
Is a cosplayer
Starts shit with you then plays victim
Openly flirtatious despite dating someone
throwlaca 6y ago
It makes sense, as a man, you would try to fuck the girl with the best tits, or best ass. This is the equivalent in women.
listeriosis69 6y ago
Goth/scene bitches are life
assa_ssin 6y ago
Very informative post! I wish I have found this information earlier!I was with a girl exactly like what you describe but I wasn't aware that maybe she was into that!
The girl was a singer and very hot, but a pain in the ass. I treated her with respect and love because all of her past traumas and eventually I learnt that every time she had to go for some job she f@ked another guy!
When I found that I got mad and never again heard of her.
She was a trouble in the ass. I remember one day I brought fishes to cook and she told me that she couldn't because she looked in their eyes and felt pity for them!!
Also I found that she accused for rape a friend of mine for some dispute they had- after one year of the incident of letting him fingering her- and his lawyer managed to save him because of her troublesome past.
Thank you for your post, I wish I had this information earlier!!!
SvenAtLarge 6y ago
This is all truth. I'm seeing similar traits emerge in the extreme church girl I married with things in a tough place.
Men, you best learn this stuff real quick. The curse of Eve is that they will devour you on occasion just for satisfaction. They desire your authority and can snap if you give them a reason. Your authority, frame, and self control are vital and you can never let your guard down.
surfthroughlife 6y ago
Wtf dude you straight up described this chick I slept with yesterday.
I’m more into extremely feminine chicks so this was one of the worst fucks I’ve ever had and I just got head to finish off and she left.
Not planning on seeing her again, but good job on the personality description so I can avoid this in the future.
majcisen 6y ago
Dont forget to send her some nice msg soo you dont have problem years after for being acused of rape.
DaBaulz 6y ago
these kinds of chicks gross me out
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DubsPackage 6y ago
Alot of "subs" out there are just topping from the bottom.
Like they say they're "submissive" but will put 50 different rules and conditions, start acting real bratty and expect you to chase them around town, or fight off other guys.
They're trying to manipulate you and make you play their game for their own entertainment.
Personally, they're usually not worth the effort and a complete pain in the ass.
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EPArt 6y ago
So what your basically describing is most mordern day feminists, as that's what it sounds like.
Call-Me-Wacky 6y ago
I thought you were talking about Viking Iron Maiden, but realized those were shield maidens
Dongune 6y ago
I read the title and I thought Viking shield maidens haha
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VigilantRedRooster 6y ago
How about no.
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