My first year in high school, I had a crush on this Asian girl. I did the usual blue pilled things to try to get with her like helping her with homework over the phone, greeting her on the bus, and even cheering her up when her boyfriend broke up with her. After a month she eventually messaged me some long paragraph with the usual “you’re a great ass guy and your future gf would be lucky to have you” mixed with the “you and I are from two different worlds and not right for each other” spiel and said we could be friends. Even as a kid deep in the matrix, I wasn’t interested in the friend zone. (I told myself “the fastest way to escape the friend zone is to not be friends with them”). So, I deleted her number, social media, and never contacted or started a convo with her again.

Fast forward to sophomore year and my track coach mentions I got taller. I brushed it off as normal growth (turns out I grew all the way to 6’). That same week I got out of one class and was headed to my locker. In comes the Asian girl power walking to me and for the first time ever, starting a conversation with me instead of the other way around. It entailed her saying things like “woooow, look at you! You got so tall. That’s crazy! You changed a lot.” mixed with some flirting. She did this while I was trying to walk away from her and giving one-word answers, as I had long since gotten over her. I was years away from the red pill. But, a thought that stuck in my mind was “oh, so now that I’ve changed a bit, you’re the one initiating things. Yeah I’ll pass”.

Would I have done things differently back then knowing what I know now about female nature? Probably. The signs of hypergamy were there even as a kid. I was simply blind to them.

Edit- I’m aware of how a girl becoming more attracted to a guy after previously not being attracted him isn’t a sign of hypergamy. This post is meant more to point out how girls will keep an eye out on how you change, even if they weren’t initially interested.

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ElderDark 6y ago

You did the right thing by forgetting about her and moving on. Nothing against her but, her getting interested in you when you got taller seems like trivial thing for her to be looking for in a guy. It feels like you were some kind of back up to her. I might be reading to much into this, forgive me if I do. That's just my own take on the whole thing.

throwabcdaway4 6y ago

You still dont accept that life is not faire and that you are not your past.

FanaticMind 6y ago

Ah yes, these are the quality posts I expect to see here.

aGodofmyownmaking 6y ago

Yea man, it's their nature. A girl I was all over for about a year rejected me constantly until I kicked ass playing guitar in a talent show, that night she cornered me to make out. Just take advantage of it, it's good to be desired and desirable.

Zech4riah 6y ago

Yes, gotta be growth spurt.

Or maybe you made her curious when you stopped simping and giving her unconditional attention? Or perhaps you generally changed from baby face to actually looking like a man?

I'm not saying height doesn't help but it's probably not that binary.

Impalmator 6y ago

Ignoring the girl you want to bang honest or not, works. The first girl I ever banged was the unxpected result of walking away.

Had a crush on her for a long time and became "friends". She flaked when I made a move so my first instinct was to back off and cut communications with her and her whole group of friends. She chased me back and we ended up dating for 2 years.

MerryVegetableGarden 6y ago

Asian girls are near universally slutty. Do not ltr.

DirtyLickins 6y ago

We exchange them for the whites.

MerryVegetableGarden 6y ago

White women aren’t immune from sluttiness. There’s just more variety with them.

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saikaushal 6y ago

Damn. I feel bad for asian american guys.

0ggles 6y ago

No worries, we Asian American red pilled men do a hard pass.

MerryVegetableGarden 6y ago

Asian American women aren’t attracted to them, so who cares?

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saikaushal 6y ago

Thats the point of my comment.

empatheticapathetic 6y ago

No need, asian girls will never go near them.

saikaushal 6y ago

Ffs, this is the point of my comment. Not just the thotery.

empatheticapathetic 6y ago

I don't get it. Why do you feel bad for asian guys if they don't have to deal with slutty asian girls?

saikaushal 6y ago

Because most white girls look down on POC and that includes asians. So if asian girls act slutty and interracial, asian guys are left with nothing in the end.

empatheticapathetic 6y ago

You probably should have elaborated more in your original comment. Why would you assume everyone is going to be aware of the race politics of hypergamy or that it's relevant to the point being made?

The point of the comment is that ethnic women have almost a binary bias against men of their ethnic background, but then attempting to attribute a similar bias to women of a different ethnic background makes the entire point in the first place null.

Itzmatt8888 6y ago

Glad you’re red pill aware now! You are young and will have a huge advantage! I wish I knew about this at your age. I’m not that old now, 28, but wish I would of knew about this then!

darkmene24 6y ago

I cant wait till I get the new jordans, bitches gonna love that shit

TheHardBack 6y ago

Good on you brother. This proves that appearance is hell lot important factor in dating life.

FJackxd 6y ago

Ikr, I get so annoyed when people say 'looks don't matter at all' and I really wanna ask them which rock they've been living under all this time.

TheHardBack 6y ago

True bro. That's just sympathy for ugly and lazy people who don't want to put in effort to get better looking. Your face is ugly, fine, that's something you are born with. But your skin, hair style, posture, body and clothes, as a man you can fix those. Take good care of your body and girls will come around.

FJackxd 6y ago

Indeed. People should be given genuine advice instead of misleading statements.

Schhwing 6y ago

That’s not that crazy man. If a girl suddenly sprouted tits I’m sure you’d pay more attention to her at that age

Edit - or a fat chick lost weight and was now attractive

hanexs 6y ago

This isnt hypergamy, read the definition again.

This is a story about how a girl didn't like a guy she was not attracted to, and then later changed their mind when the guy got more attractive. This is common. Girls do this, guys do this.

Your not a victim if girls dont find you attractive and it says nothing about a girls character for not being attracted to you either.

You should have hit that and moved on.

kkikuyu 6y ago

Exactly. Men misuse the term “hypergamy” to mean when a woman finds ANYTHING attractive. Hypergamy only means marrying up in social class or income. Not women finding you attractive when you grow 5 more inches.

empatheticapathetic 6y ago

It's definitely hypergamy. A taller man has more status compared to a shorter man. A more attractive man is a better catch than a less attractive man. He has more status, more options and therefore a better option.

OttoVonBismark71 6y ago

It says nothing about a girls character for not being attracted to you, but it says a lot about people how they treat others depending on whether they're attracted to them or not. Ideally, you should treat a hot woman and an ugly woman the same, except you want to fuck the hot woman. In reality, you're more likely to fuck the hot woman if you treat her as an ugly woman. So it works out for everyone.

LotBuilder 6y ago

They are how they are, accept it and have some fun with a pump and dump. You “rejecting them” when they show a little interest won’t teach them a lesson, have some fun then move on.

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odaklanan_insan 6y ago

If you're not interested anymore in someone, it's not really fun. Furthermore, there are plenty more options for a guy who increased his SMV than his ex-crush.

LotBuilder 6y ago

Maybe that’s my mental sickness but I’m interested until I’ve banged her. If it’s great I’ll do it again and if not then so be it.

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New_Guard 6y ago

That's not hypergamy - that's just caring what someone looks like. You'd do the same thing to the skinny nerd girl who suddenly grows tits and an ass.

Maxofwarcraft 6y ago

My friend actually did something like that to a girl when she got prettier lol.

0ggles 6y ago

In high school, someone who looked like me won Prom king. Suddenly, droves of girls asked me out in a month to statusmax. That is when I was redpilled.

user12345678654 6y ago

Dude I was a new student a school. I already had heaps of attention as the new guy. Football coach comes and invites me to the football team, I accept after a couple times and had damn near the entire school trying to get know me.

It's nice but annoying after a while

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Yeah I had a simular experience. However it was with me acting more sexual. Instead of a growth spurt.

Girls found me attractive, however I was a blue-pilled alpha. Which is a beta mindset essentially.

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cryocai 6y ago

What the fuck is a blue pilled alpha?

Zech4riah 6y ago

Blue pilled alpha is the kind of man who is naturally alpha but believes in blue pill disney fantasies - Sort of a alpha bux. He is the natural born Chad who marries Stacy after college and gets stuck.

jihocech 6y ago

Chad with oneitis. No one is immune :-)

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Imagine a silver-back gorilla with a weak mindset.

cryocai 6y ago

Ah ok so physical alpha traits but beta mentality!

mrrooftops 6y ago

The body grows at a different rate to the mind. The world reacts to the former, then confirms with the latter.

RanaMahal 6y ago

lol this was me for a while. Built like a truck and 6’2 but wasn’t fully woken up

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SvenAtLarge 6y ago

"Your future gf"

NEXT

She's not imagining you having sex with a future girlfriend. She's not imagining you having sex with anyone cause eww gross.

Time to lift bruh.

Phantom099 6y ago

how short were u beforehand?

Maxofwarcraft 6y ago

I think I was average. 5’7” or 5’8. I think one of my teammates exaggerated when they said I used to be a “shrimp”.

Cha_Cha_cho 6y ago

lmfao shrimp is a new insult i guess

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ShotgunTRP 6y ago

Shrimp is decades old get out from your rock neet

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Andgelyo 6y ago

Taller= more masculine, signals that you had great nutrition, and are healthy. Women also love to feel like the smaller, more vulnerable, sex. I’m only 5’9 but the woman I’m dating loves it when I wrap my arms around her because it makes her feel small.

IterMercator 6y ago

Noticed this in uni, girls always loved tall guys, but 90% of the tall guys were lanky twigs rather than scaled up humans. Being tall only works if you have a frame that makes you reasonably wide as you are tall, if not it's completely detrimental to anything survival based.

jihocech 6y ago

The same is when fat girl loses weight. Look at Adele.

Wingflier 6y ago

Finding someone attractive that you did not before is not hypergamy.

If that's the case then guys are hypergamous too in situations where the chubby girl loses 50 pounds and suddenly everyone is hitting on her.

Slayermog 6y ago

I think he meant that originally he was on the same level as the girl and then he became of much higher value than her she started liking him

throwabcdaway4 6y ago

Exactly what the ptevious guy said

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oooKenshiooo 6y ago

Don't be butthurt. Smash that asian puss.

guynpdx 6y ago

Confirmed. Went from 5'4" to 6'4" in @ 18 months in high school. Things changed for me drastically.

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Jesus lol you woulda felt like a different person

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Maxofwarcraft 6y ago

Dropping the same line. That would genius and savage

acoltismypassport 6y ago

You just reminded me of a similar sort of anecdote from when I was 15/16.

For a few years in high school I had a popular, very fashionable at the time haircut, but one which wasn't too common in my selective, private school. At one point, the guy who was considered the best looking in my school year came to school with the EXACT same hair cut, styled the same, same length, everything. Naturally, the usual crowd of girls fawned all over him.

All of a sudden, my haircut attracted a lot of these same women, and so did their attention. I recognised back then that something was up, but didn't quite connect the dots. Took me another five years until the red pill was shoved down my throat, but that was definitely a moment of reality.

Bing_Bang_Bam 6y ago

Yeah treat her like shit. Fuck her and forget her

Goh12 6y ago

This has nothing to do with redpill, you pretended to be this girl friend to find your way into her panty ; she didn't rejected you since being a typicall "nice guy" you didn't try anything fearing the consequences of being rejected.
You became bitter and resentfull about the situation, and when she showed emotional distress and lack of insight by refering to you as a "grat ass guy" you showed her how much of a cunt you really were by ghosting her since you couldn't get any pussy.

Now bear with me, i'm not just trying to just shoot you down, but even so you ghosted her because of your own mistakes, years later she came back to you and showed interest but being too resentfull after YEARS you ignored her since you seems to belive that her past lack of interest was solely caused by your height.

I think you need to stop being resentfull and moove on with your life, if you were a manlet how can you blame this girl for not wanting to date you ? Life is just unfair, and girls are more attracted to tall guys than short ones.
But i think your height as really little to do with the outcome of your experience and i encourage you to change your mindset by taking responsibility and admiting that you ended up where you are because of your actions and not because girls are "hypergamous" and yada yada, like you want to belive to feel better about yourself.

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Flintblood 6y ago

you ignored her since you seems to belive that her past lack of interest was solely caused by your height.

Ok. You’re saying it wasn’t his height.

if you were a manlet how can you blame this girl for not wanting to date you ? Life is just unfair, and girls are more attracted to tall guys than short ones.

But now you are saying it was his height and growing taller made him more attractive and that’s all she cared about.

But i think your height as really little to do with the outcome of your experience and i encourage you to change your mindset

But now it isn’t his height. Which is it? Sorry, but I can’t keep up with the mental gymnastics displayed here.

Goh12 6y ago

In the sentence "if you were a manlet", "if" is used to create an eventuality, an eventuality is something that might happen or not. So i'm starting from his point of view to try to underline his contradiction.

He's overfocusing on his height and you are too by asking questions about me beliving or not it was a factor. It always is, but was it a major one ? Seeing OP attitude years later, i belive it wasn't.