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TOO many guys in asktheredpill focus TOOO hard on women who pose no value/use to their lives. The Red Pill IS about building yourself as a man. So focus on what does and not what doesn’t. Sure Becky may be sexually useful but only let it be when it doesn’t affect your morale.

Women are not godly creatures, they’re normal people just like you and I. Attracting a woman isn’t really different from a man. Envy and jealousy is what creates attraction. To attract people you just need to plant these fears in their minds:

  • Fear of Abandonment: Codependency, always wanting to please others (you). In this case you’re the abandoner.

  • Fear of Missing Out: Refers to the feeling or perception that others are having more fun, living better lives, or experiencing better things than you are. It involves a deep sense of envy and affects self-esteem. In this case, you are living the better life in exclusivity.

  • Fear of Jealousy: While jealousy can be described as a fear that another person may take something that is theirs or something they consider to be theirs. In this case you are the one they’re jealous of.

  • Fear of Rejection: Self explanatory. In this case you’re the rejecter.

Note: Envy is when you want what someone else has, but jealousy is when you're worried someone's trying to take what you have. In this case you’re the one they envy.

Lesson: In nicer words, be the man Timmys want to be and the man Beckys want to be with.

Build upon your self esteem, your competences (earnings, achievements) and abilities (life skills, job skills) and only address yourself to those who can assist you and can bring substance to the environment you want to create for yourself. Self-esteem is the foundation of all confidences. A low foundation will hinder the examples listed in the top of this paragraph. Unfortunately a lot of guys have low self esteem therefore hindering their progress in life and because of that they feel like they can come to these kinds of subs to find secret recipes to ultimate attraction and make believe people into buying their bullsh!t facade.

Soooo work on developing confidence in your:

  • Intuition (observant, questioning, adaptive, empathetic): The ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning.

  • Integrity: The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness.

  • Initiative: The ability to assess and initiate things independently. Be a handy man not a lazy man. Useful > Useless.

  • Resources: Be resourceful. have the ability to find quick and clever ways to overcome difficulties.

  • Self-Image: is the mental picture, generally the kind that is quite resistant to change, that depicts not only details that are potentially available to objective investigation by others (height, weight etc…), but also items that have been learned by persons about themselves, either from personal experiences or by internalizing the judgments of others.

  • Rationality: Your brain is an instrument designed to solve problems. Unsolved problems feed insecurities because they’re replaced with defense mechanisms and unhealthy coping methods. Solved problems feed confidence and morals thus making you more competent. Stop asking yourself WHY (she cheated; lied, broke up etc..). Start asking yourself HOW (can I make myself better or earn respect).

Sum: Humans are endowed with free will. You have used your free will to lead yourself where you’re situated today. These were all YOUR choices. “ A man must suffer to remake himself for he is both the sculptor and the marble “. Use your brain as an instrument of success, not to carve your own downfall. This is the period of your life where you remake yourself and not demake. Look yourself in the mirror and meet your maker. Upgrade don’t degrade. Invest don’t rest. Progress don’t regress. Work severely on your self-awareness and your environment in conjunction to you plus your role as a man in your life. Build a list of 10 self-improvement commandments that you follow religiously.

Aaaand don’t be one of those guys who talked to more girls than they’ve talked employers/professionals in his life.

These are just a few to name feel free to comment and add