I'll add that going out alone in a new city often makes you more approachable as long as you aren't giving off awkward vibes. Naturally it helps a lot to look good, e.g. you lift and dress well.

I was on the other side of the country for a work trip recently. Most nights I went out alone. Had a number of girls catcall me walking around at night ("nice ass"), opening me at bars, hell even buying me shots (thank you random L.A. girl). This almost never happens when I'm out with friends, as I'm usually more concentrated on socializing with them instead of random girls. Anxiety about going out alone really is all in your head.

This is a bad ass article. I heard about it in NMMNG and had a red pill gf who would do this. Great idea. Any suggested countries for a first time international traveler (outside of Canada and Mexico)

Totally agree with this. Traveling alone changed my perspective on life, but mostly my level of agency and (emotional/financial) independence. Additionally, it's a great way to get to know your own fears and anxieties, specially when stuck in a place without internet for a week or so :)

Traveling is definitely something that's worth your money/investment, if you get out of it what you can. Just remember that `do nothing = get nothing' whether that is at home or on the road. Safe travels!

I've been living in latin america for 6 months and this is true in so many ways.

You would think talking to woman in your second language would be more difficult, but I would say it's easier.

My spanish is improving, but not at the point where I can have full, deep conversations. One of the girls I'm seeing now speaks zero english and due to the language barrier, I am not talking as much as I usually do. And the crazy thing? She's more attracted to me. There is something about silence and being totally ok with it that causes tension, forces the other person to think about what you're thinking, causes her to get a little nervous because she now doesn't have the comfort of conversation to distract her nerves. Experiences like these are making me realize that not talking all the time, being ok with silence... they're totally fine and even sexy to a woman.

Trying to bring up the nerve to go to Thailand by myself. I've got the cash just never done travel alone before.

Not in specific regards to traveling but I've always been confused at why people in the US are generally so hesitant to go out alone. I roll out alone around once a week and I usually have some cool interactions. Its a great way for men to get more abundance, social skills, experience and thus confidence. Highly recommend.

When I moved to a new city and didn't know a single person it was the most social time in my life. I felt truly alone and that terrified me. That fear is what pushed me to go out and be social like I never had been before and because of my willingness to put myself out there in social situations my life became abundant with social opportunities.

Hell yeah brother. I personally am planning a trip to Tibet right now and I’ve always had the lingering feeling that I was going to be alone, which initially sparked slight fear.

The more I contemplated it, the more freeing it felt. I’ve heard that you don’t know who you truly are until you fully experience a different culture and I am thoroughly looking forward to experiencing one by myself.

Just don't be an idiot, and get scopolamined in Colombia, or stabbed in Nicaragua, or Ass fucked in Russia because I told you to travel alone. Crawl before you ball.

I’ve wanted to travel alone sometimes, mostly because most of my friends are in LTR’s and don’t have time to go with me. (Yes, most are bluepilled, living the family life where the wife decides everything.). Getting into trouble has always been one of my main concerns if i wanted to travel alone. I’ve heard some stories from friends on how you can often be an easy target when you are alone and some tourist areas have people looking specifically for lone wolves to rob. A friend of mine once got lost from his group when they visited Bulgaria and he got robbed and threatened with violence by a group of people. If you have at least one friend with you, you aren’t an easy target anymore. I know it depends on where you visit, and in the big famous tourist cities you are probably safe, but yeah. This always crosses my mind when i think about travelling alone lol.

I have traveled alone and with a partner. Whether its a museum in Paris or Everest Base Camp, sharing the world with a partner is way better.

If I could afford it, I would. I go out alone all the time locally, it's the best.

I’m at the perfect point of my life to start travelling. I’ve just finished university and still have my part time job that I can drop at any moment.

I start applying for full time jobs after finishing uni but I genuinely think it’s time to explore the world. I have extremely low expenses so a couple of months on a part time wage should be enough to travel for 1-2 months at a time.

My question is how do I even start? Like literally I don’t know how people plan all of this stuff like the activities you are going to do when you are there. Do you simply just book your flight and where you are staying and then just wing the rest of the trip? Should you plan/book activities before leaving?

I think for my first time travelling I would love to go to some sort of organised camp which runs for weeks-months in a country like Thailand or Bali and you pay like £1000 for that camp and stay as well as your flights.

I could be travelling all around the world really easily the next few years. Go on a trip, come back home and work a shitty part time job. Save up a few thousand while living at home with low expenses and then go somewhere else in the world for a few months! Sounds like a fucking great life to me but I am pretty scared of starting and planning all of this myself. All advice is greatly appreciated!

Agree with your post. Started traveling in February and have completely changed my behaviour towards life, women and what I want to achieve in life.

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Going to South America was a blessing for me, as it taught me that there are different girls out there than the one I know from Western Europe. Girls here get wet as soon as they talk to any gringo that can barely hold conversation in their language. They see the white meat and cant wait to go somewhere with you.

Life can be pretty good!

I’m headed to Paris, Florence and Rome early next year, God-willing. I can’t wait.

If anything, trying to be an engaging conversationalist has been fucking you over this entire time

A succinct bow for the best paragraph in the post. Mastering physicality in posture, facial expressions, and silent reactions that communicate more to her than you could ever say aloud lets her create and interpret her own mysteries surrounding you, and that means you’re speaking womanese and father Pook will be proud!

I have traveled to many countries alone. it is the only way I like to travel. I adventure hard and other people ruin my trips with all of their sleeping and drinking and eating and bitching and moaning. Fuck that.

I met a Vietnamese girl in Hanoi that taught me to ride motorbikes, and now I have a Ninja ZX6R at home that I love.

In Costa Rica I met a Japanese girl who was also traveling alone, and she flew from Japan to Las Vegas and we did a 4-day road trip together. She has traveled alone to even more countries than me, and she is so fun to be with. Always positive, tons of energy, love of adventure, goes hard all day.

I quit my job a few years ago to travel for a year (mostly because I wanted to figure out going out, being social, getting laid if I'm being honest), and it was the single most important thing I ever did for my abundance mentality.

I went from being a 25 year old virgin and now I've been with a little over 20 girls at 28 (I know that's not a lot for some of you slayers, but god damn I'm proud of my improvement).

Travelling and fucking foreign bitches teaches you sexual communication and universal "intuition" with women. You learn that all women play games, all sex is transactional, and all forms of LMR can be clobbered with enough knowledge of female nature.

You also learn to take extreme self responsibility. Learn the rules. Learn how much money to have in small bills to lubricate social interactions. Understand you need to slip the hotel guy a few shitcurrencies to make him fix the damn A/C. Understand the bitches you bring back will jack your valuables, hookers or regular girls.

Basically, you learn there's a universal order of things. There's a way things were meant to be, and it is natural for men and women to fall into these roles. It's normal for women to use their beauty and pussy to secure financial resources. It's normal for men to be fucking around on their wives with hot bitches. They're the men, why wouldn't they, if the wife don't like it, she can go work in the mine or get a divorce and sell her ass on the street.

This helps you internalize some behaviors. You start to realize that it's just part of this game that women act crazy, it's nothing personal. They all lie and cheat, they all have buffalo stories.

If you have no game, don't assume you have to P4P. You can do that if you want, and I encourage you to in some countries just to understand how sex is just sex. But if you actually fucking try, you will find you can fuck beautiful women just from your inherent value as a (foreign) man. You may find you have personality and game you never thought you did. You see, you are getting a little slice of alpha life in a way, even if the actual game you're running is BP. I have always believed that SIMPLY EXPERIENCING the reality of the "alpha fucks" guy for a short period of time is enough to completely transform your personality very rapidly.

So many behaviors we preach are so hard to internalize and actualize if all you ever experience is beta reality. Experiencing new realities will change you quick.

It's kind of like how people say doing lsd changed their perspective. No idea if that's true, I haven't done that, but I will say that after you've fucked a few dozen foreign thotties, you're internalized behaviors WILL change. It's unavoidable.

You would think talking to woman in your second language would be more difficult, but I would say it's easier. You don't have the vocabulary to fuck up.

This hamstering is on another level.

Traveling in 21st century only requires balls if you’re a little spoiled first world bitch.

whats wrong with russia lol

In terms of safety precautions, do you refrain from going out at night when traveling alone?

I've been meaning to, once I finish my Apprenticeship in 5 years(lol) I want to take a long ass break and travel Asia. I don't think I could realistically take longer than 1-2 weeks currently due to trade school and my contractor being busy all the time. Planning on going to Bangkok with my father though.