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foraesthetics 6y ago
Being a dad is one of them right?
OneRedSock 6y ago
Number 9 boils down to ego investment in the outcome over a person with which you should give zero fucks. A pithy text only comes from an emotional place; that means you cared about how she treated you. Your frame should be you don't give a fuck how she treats you because she is a child and you are a man with other goals that are far more important.
We have ego; we need to remove our ego.
Priorities in your life should be:
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Bitches should never occupy any of your top priorities in life. They come and go; invest in them as little time and emotion as possible, but fuck them as much as possible; and most importantly: constantly replace.
Nicolas0631 6y ago
For #9, make sence to not react to your girl having flaked or ghosted you and all. That's logicial, you don't want to lose frame or negativity in your life.
But then it seems he hope for the best that tomorow he might bang her. Honestly you shall not do that, even for just plating, you don't want unreliable or disrespectful girls. Even for a one night stand, she is more likely to fuck up again.
If you already have abundance and frame, sure don't react, but also be sure to not care for her ever again. There no point.
We all know awalt, but some women are more subject to bad behavior than other. There no reason to encourage and bang the one with the worst behavior. Make no sence.
journeyinward 6y ago
Definitely appreciate this. I've been experimenting and making mistakes in the wild, and it is nice to have a better understanding of what they might be and why.
Brutal13 6y ago
Sounds controversial and yet that combines for real.
redpillcad 6y ago
I disagree with #1. Sometimes I dont have time or energy to run game on new women to keep the supply chain full.
So what? I may be forced to start fresh? Big deal. Wont take very long. The extra time will come in handy.
Marry your mission
frykidse 6y ago
Solid- I'll pile on
#2 is the biggest hurdle in general. It leads into #6 naturally. It can be overcome yet it's like playing diablo on nightmare mode. Don't add extra challenge when you really don't need to.
#4 women are not stupid in the slightest. If she has allowed herself into a situation where sex can happen, it's on you to go for it. Sometimes you get a no, that's perfectly ok. That no is typically a "No not right now". What she will not forgive is her putting herself out there and you not having the balls to go for it.
#6 requires you to grow some balls. Once you taste that dragon you'll keep chasing it. I'm an exhibitionist at heart, so run this through your own filters. I've done the deed in alleys, behind dumpsters, behind trees at lake spots with people 20 feet away, in portajohns at concerts (I wouldn't bend over a portajohn but hey that's her business), plenty of times in the car at lots pregaming before concerts, in the lot between cars at concerts, fuck it I'll get naked almost anywhere. To this count I have had run-ins with the law 3 times but nothing serious came of it yet. It's an awkwardly fun (after the fact) convo that you can bond with over the gal afterwards. "Hey remember that one time..."
#8 These gals are for practice. You can say just ab anything to them & they won't bat an eye. Use them to hone your game or to grow your balls to say ludicrous shit. Helps you become comfortable. Concrete example is I walked into a bar with a new bartender I didn't recognize (aside- train & befriend your bartenders. also tip them well, don't be a cheapskate. they'll hook you up with good drinks and point out solid gals worth chatting up). She had a wet bar towel on her shoulder getting her shirt wet. We eyed each other down as I walked in & she asked me what I wanted. I said smth ab her getting wet already & not knowing me pointing at her shirt with my head. She blushed a bit & made my drink. Now she hooks me up and takes care of me. I've hooked up with enough bartenders to know why it's a bad idea (certainly fun for a while, find out why for yourself & enjoy the ride), so it's just a fun & flirty thing with her. Point being you can say pretty ridiculous shit to them and not completely nuke the interaction. Once you realize you can say it to these girls, you realize you can say it to "normal" girls.
#10 is rough for night game. I found many a night where I ended up too drunk to game effectively. I have my own demons when it comes to substance use, so moderation is key. The 2-3 drink range is where I'm in the groove and on point. You can also make a game out of it.. find out if someone (male or female) will pick up your 3rd drink then call it quits and drink water afterwards. 4+ I get too drunk to be fun and game-y. Weed also completely destroys my social skills, it draws me into myself where I'm not nearly as fun or outgoing. I set aside the weed from a daily thing to a when it happens thing, which makes it a more social experience to smoke up with ppl & share the experience. Overall weed & game just don't mix. There's gonna be some stoners arguing there.. idgaf if it's good for you, I'm talking about myself & in general.
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Nicolas0631 6y ago
Still your fault. We are not designed for texting, most people mis understand texting because there no visual/oral clues to correct them and they can't question you the same as they would if you where talking to each other.
Always be extremely clear in your texting. Your are not trying to evaluate her IQ or make it in a hard treasure hunt for her where 99% of participant get eliminated.
nobody_thinks 6y ago
lol i was not trying to evaluate her IQ
EmirSc 6y ago
as a side note i always write time like that, life is too short to search for the :
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ATRP2019 6y ago
Pretty good read. Thank you.
Chadster113 6y ago
Won’t you get more ASD or LMR if you try to fuck her anywhere but a private room?
vas_mhtro 6y ago
If you have the right frame/character she will find it hot/not judgmental. Chicks dig risky shit, requires a good and teasing "frame" to pull this off
opper-hombre1 6y ago
Chicks also just want to do memorable shit with you. Bet they won’t forget a public fuck
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