So it was Saturday night and I was out with my boy, let’s call him Jay. We were out in New York City bar hopping and having fun. He invited a girl out who he has been working on for like 1 month now and only ever made out with her. That was a big blue pill sign and I knew this girl was using him as an orbiter. We were out in the city and she came out by herself to meet us, so that was “I wanted get fucked sign”. So I was sort of third wheeling but being the Redpill alpha I am , I knew I could easily just pickup another girl at the bar so I wasn’t worried.

Throughout the night, this dude was doing all the beta blue pill behaviors by catering to her, following her around, and buying her drinks. I was displaying the alpha behavior by not even trying(because after taking the redpill it becomes who you are) . I was carefree, having fun , confident, using strong eye contact with her, and having fun with other women. She saw all those traits and instantly swing the hypergamy branch to me and was on my hip the whole night. My boy Jay would be talking to her but her eyes would be on me while I was talking to other women.

My boy noticed and was getting upset and him being my boy I didn’t want a girl to get in between us. But I knew he was blue pulled asf and wouldn’t win this young HB8 over. I flirted back with her just to see how far she would go but I never planned on taking her from my boy and fucking.

Throughout the night when we were walking the streets, her behavior told me everything I needed to know. She was walking closer to me while my boy chatted her up, and we would lock eyes throughout the night. Then when my boy went to the bathroom she came up to me and told me overtly “Can you take care of me?” and I was like “ what do you think”( with a smirk on my face). Then my boy came back and I proceeded to talk to other girls.

Fast forward to end of the night, we all Uber back to my boy place where I was crashing. I knew she wanted to get fucked but I just couldn’t fathom taking her from him and then fucking her at his place where I needed to crash. So I threw my boy an alley-opp , told him I will pretend to go to bathroom while he gets her to his bedroom( I warmed her emotions up the whole night). But at the end of the day , he was too beta and didn’t make the right move and she eventually saw I wasn’t there so she Uber’d home.(I wasn’t planning on making a move).

KILL THE BETA boys

Side note: a lot of my boys told me I should of just took her from him. I felt like that would of killed our friendship( because he has ONEits asf). What you guys think?

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RobertLongshaft81 7y ago

There are some fucking bellends posting on this sub. As if you fuck your mates chances up like that, what a cunt.

thatdeterminedguy 7y ago

You did the right thing by not going for her. Always remember that "No woman can take the place of men in a man's life."

SuperCrazy07 7y ago

Did you really make a whole post about how you and your lame friend couldn’t get laid?

I know, I know, you totally could have because you’re super alpha. You just didn’t cuz [reasons].

Rob345678 7y ago

-“couldn’t get laid?”

Don’t project your own failures and insecurities on me dude...I was just giving a RP concept example to help the new lurkers of the Redpill. You have no idea the full story on my side of the night with the other women. This story was just focused on the dynamic between me and my friend’s girl(friend) . Every guy who has experience/success with girls knows you don’t get laid every night you go out(logistics, etc) and some nights you have to plant seeds. try again dude

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thewrecker8 7y ago

Side note: a lot of my boys told me I should of just took her from him. I felt like that would of killed our friendship( because he has ONEits asf). What you guys think?

Bros before hoes. If he's your boy like you say then a pump and isn't worth it. Especially since you're so alpha like you said and can pull more ass than a public toilet seat.

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AbleDad 7y ago

I've always avoided the easy-lay if one of my friends is invested. You don't want to be the guy who steals someone else's girl in your social circle. Your reputation and your friendships are more important. Also, women respect a guy who is loyal to his friends and has the loyalty of his friends. They understand the hierarchy, even as they try to destroy it.

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BobbyPeru 7y ago

Agree with your post except this part:

Also, women respect a guy who is loyal to his friends and has the loyalty of his friends.

Who the fuck cares what she thinks

jackandjill22 7y ago

This is true. Although this is why in your twenties A. You have to have thick skin & can't be a little bitch & have to be more flexible. B. why friendships in your twenties are almost disposable.

People are so incompetent & selfish/hormone driven at that age that if you get pissed everytime someone slieghted you by making a move on a random bitch or something there would be non-stop turmoil. In fact some twenty-somethings live exactly in that way; in a hell of their own creation with neverending drama about who slept with who what night & endless bullshit arguments/pissing contests.

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lobstergenocide 7y ago

Thank you, if you’re an alpha the girl could not give less of a shit what some beta boy’s opinion of you is. You’ve already proved you’re higher on the totem pole simply by virtue of the fact that you’re the one getting pussy and he’s not.

Halitenina 7y ago

Never place men morals on women.

Don't place men morals on men either.

jackandjill22 7y ago

There is no relationship equity, maybe in 1952 but not now. People are too disposable, too many options. To impulsive if this were a financial agreement I would place my bets on the mid/short-term outcomes not the long.

Rob345678 7y ago

“Never place men morals on women. We are not the same. As long as she gets her alpha she doesn’t care.”

Thank you dude! That’s exactly what I’m trying to present in this post. But a lot of insecure dudes are projecting and saying I’m bragging.

Focus on the message not the messenger.

MilkMoney111 7y ago

It’s because it does sound like you’re bragging. The whole night you’re obsessing over this girl, focused on her, watching her intently for any reaction. Had you actually been focused on other women you wouldn’t have cared and this would be a none issue. It almost sounds like you’re the one with oneitis

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Howdoiusesync 7y ago

tbh i've been in OP's position before. It's actually comical to watch.

He has his own set of morals that's cool nobody else has to follow his exactly. You can not even entertain the girl or be whatever towards her. That's besides the point here, he knew the game she was playing might as well watch since you got front row seats for free.

Stop giving a fuck. BTW OP was looking out for his own self interest by valuing his boy more than pussy.

CollaringAccount 7y ago

Lol you guys are still don't believe in science over here I love it.

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p3n1x 7y ago

who is loyal

Ask a woman the definition of "male" loyalty.

They "respect" his power / position with the friends.

FEAR is what women understand, that is an emotion. Don't hamster it down with "man terms".

Dls95405 7y ago

So well stated. They're fucking appalling.

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YoungUpNdComing 7y ago

I have a question for this

Do females have their own version or definition of “female loyalty” as defined by them?

I seen said that all they care about is getting their alpha.

p3n1x 7y ago

Women tend to succumb to hive mind that is usually driven by the most "dominant" emotion at the time and wielded by the most masculine force (not necessarily a man).

Elongated Emotion Sharing would be as close as it gets for women to what males consider "loyalty".

Women can "feel" / experience the emotion males put out when exhibiting loyal behaviors. But watch her brain go batshit when she thinks one male has "betrayed" another male and she can't even remotely conceive why the two males would continue their bond. Something that is 'endgame' for women.

Guys want their best friend to have a vagina. Guys want their high-five bro-buddy to let them play with their boobs. Guys want their boobs and vagina to think like they do so they can share the same fantasies....

Women, not understanding "male loyalty" is OK. As mother nature intended.

Not one fucking guy here can explain the experience of Hormonal Imbalance. The HRT guys, or roid-bros that forgot their anti-estrogen pills, fumbling to explain why they uncontrollably teared up at that one commercial is as best as it is going to get.

Project_Zero_Betas 7y ago

Do females have their own version or definition of “female loyalty” as defined by them?

Only to the extent that it somehow benefits them.

The-Peter-Principle 7y ago

Yes it’s called in-group preference. This is being leveraged by fem-bots to pit women against men by made up nonsense (gender pay gap, metoo, patriarchy).

Cods_gift_to_reddit 7y ago

That also explains why some women love racist jokes (if they consider themselves part of the 'in-group' for whiteness) and some hate racist jokes (they consider themselves more part of the 'in-group' for minorities).

If we can move women from identifying as minorities, and instead have them identify as 'privileged' then they will forget all about the gender pay gap, metoo, and patriarchy.

fdsafdasfdsafds 7y ago

> Side note: a lot of my boys told me I should of just took her from him. I felt like that would of killed our friendship( because he has ONEits asf). What you guys think?

I remember reading from 48 Laws of Power "never put too much trust in friends". There was whole chapter on it (Law 2) along with knowing how to use enemies. While in one way you can be almost certain he would have taken her from you if he were in your position, I commend the integrity this took. But I do also think you need to have the capability to be a cutthroat selfish cunt at times. Machiavelli said something to the effect that if you can't transcend your morals, you will be prey for those who don't have any.

Were you capable of stealing your friend's girl blatantly, breaking the guy's heart while salvaging the relationship? If you did fuck her you would have taught him a very valuable lesson and you would have exercised your DNGAF attitude and destroyed the BP fantasy that 'friends' even exist. If you want to kill your own beta, that's how.

Depends how much you value the friendship. I would have defaulted to being loyal to a friend over chasing a piece of arse. Pussy isn't worth the drama.

chazthundergut 7y ago

You did the right thing by taking a pass. Friends are more important than pussy.

But do tell him not to bring her next time

wrightedgeworthy 7y ago

You forgot to write the ending on how you console your boy Jay that all woman suck shit and make him suck your dick and proceed to have hot gay sex that night!!!!!! Just as how you plan it the night before

BusterVadge 7y ago

I think you did the right thing here. Sure, you would have taught your friend a valuable lesson, but was he ready to receive that lesson? No.

Mattcwu 7y ago

Good call controlling yourself and not ruining a friendship over casual sex.

ArdAtak 7y ago

Always value male friendships over easy lays. Bro's before ho's sounds silly but it's a solid tenant. You did the right thing. Maybe it's time to intro your homie to RP.

Rob345678 7y ago

I agreed dude. Men have morals and loyalty to each other..women do not. I thought about it even gave him some RP hints but he is not ready..he loves his ideal BP world..he will reject it.

Two_kids_in_a_coat 7y ago

Naw, a fling ain’t worth losing a friend over. You did the right thing

Hayekr 7y ago

" So I was sort of third wheeling but being the Redpill alpha I am , I knew I could easily just pickup another girl at the bar so I wasn’t worried."

Who honestly writes like this? People at the top of a hierarchy don't need to announce their status, they exhibit it through action. It's insecure.

" I flirted back with her just to see how far she would go.."

Look. Either agree to be a wing-man and help your buddy out, or don't. If he utterly screws his chances and goes down in flames, you pick him up and dust him off and move on to other women. Giving her false signals just left her and your boy confused at the end of the night. It seemed more to stroke your ego than anything else.

I think you ultimately made the right decision because sleeping with a random girl is not worth losing a friendship over, but the route you took there wasn't the best.

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Rob345678 7y ago

redpill alpha

What you don’t understand is that this is a forum where you write so I have to give context. In person I do not go around yelling from the rooftop “I am a redpill alpha” . I speak with my actions and my results. But in a forum you have to give context. I am not just another insecure dude trying to cover( call me what you what I really don’t give a fuck) . In this forum you are either in the girl’s eyes a beta or an alpha..that’s it.

-“Stroke your ego”

It really wasn’t to stroke my ego, it was more to validate RP theory. At the end of the day, she is going to fuck someone else dude. My beta friend lost ,it was over, me not flirting back would of have not made a difference. She was already ready to branch swing. But just like another commenter said men have morals and women do not. I could of fucked but I have morals and wouldn’t do that to a friend. All I was giving in this post is an example of how hypergamy doesn’t care or have morals. If I was really a egotistical dude tryna say I’m “alpha”... I would have fucked and bragged about it on here.

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guyau 7y ago

This whole posts sounds like you're using RP theory to rationalise you fucking over your friend. Instead of flirting with the chick he was after, why didn't you give him advice? Why didn't you go after another girl?

Rob345678 7y ago

Can please tell me how I fucked over my friend? I did absolutely nothing to start it. The girl doesn’t care she was ready to swing regardless whether it was me or the next dude. I was with other women she came after me.He lost, it was over, she prolly went and got fucked by another guy. My friend learned from it so it the end it benefited him.

You are so worried about the messenger, you are completely missing the message of the story.

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dpgproductions 7y ago

What exactly did your friend learn from it? Or was it just another confusing/frustrating result for someone who is still BP? Seems like you were more focused on testing your own limits with this girl instead of actually being his wingman. You said it yourself: she came out by herself to meet you guys so, assuming she’d never met you before, it’s not like your friend had zero chance to begin with. You just tipped the scales against him instead of in his favor.

JamesSkepp 7y ago

Can please tell me how I fucked over my friend?

The girl doesn’t care she was ready to swing regardless whether it was me or the next dude.

The girls doesn't care, your friend does. As a RP alpha you are, you should understand his BP mentality about how he sees this situation.

guyau 7y ago

Even if your friend's blue pulled, if he's been after her for awhile, you should just have pulled off completely. I dunno man, I just wouldn't do that to one of my friends. You're supposed to be a team and furthering each others goals. At the very least, I would have spoken to him about it.

tilfes 7y ago

"I flirted back with her just to see how far she would go but I never planned on taking her from my boy" One thing is certain, and that is that you're not that man's boy. That's fucked up to play with his emotions like that.

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Rob345678 7y ago

He’s more of an acquaintance I went to school with and hung out a few times. We don’t have a deep relationship but I would still call him a friend. At the end of the day I didn’t break the guy code so we are still friends to this day. I am just showing the RP community the power you have when you understand hypergamy.

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TFWnoLTR 7y ago

I didn't break the guy code

There is no "guy code". That's just an arbitrary boundary you made up to feel like you didn't totally ruin any chances the guy had with that girl already by flirting with her all night.

Honestly, you should have just fucked her in his house at that point. You'd have been doing him a favor by giving him that hurt one needs to begin swallowing the pill and getting over their oneitis. You already broke what most would consider "bro code" by flirting with his girl rather than being a wingman for him. You only didn't go all the way because your hamster was already spinning in a different direction.

That dude deserves a better friend than you anyways, and you could have given him everything he needed to realize it.

Rob345678 7y ago

this dude deserves a better friend

That’s your opinion dude. To me it sounds like you are projecting ur own emotions right now. First of all, she wasn’t his girlfriend or wife so she is charged to the game.

Second, because I have morals and care about the dude I didn’t go through with fucking her. And we are still friends to this day.

Third, if you kno RP at all, you already know the girl doesn’t care and she was looking to branch swing either way. My friend lost it was over, I could of told her about his million dollars and she still would of been ready to swing. Whether it was me or another dude she is gnna fucked regardless. All I was doing was validating redpill theory when she started flirting with me.

lobstergenocide 7y ago

I’m sorry, how is it OPs fault the other guy was too beta to go for it? If she didn’t fuck OP she would just fuck someone else, he didn’t steal anything from beta boy because beta boy never had her to begin with. I agree with you that he should have fucked her at his friends place, maybe that would teach him a lesson next time that if you want something you fucking go for it. It is not OPs fault that he kept himself together and his friend didn’t. Plus fuck, it’s not like this was his actual girlfriend we’re talking about, he can and should find someone else since he’s already fucked himself out of her pants by this point.

Downvote away but OP did nothing wrong and we should not sympathize with betas because you know were the roles reversed that some pussy starved beta wouldn’t hesitate to steal your girl if he got the chance. If he wouldn’t, he wouldn’t waste his time orbiting girls in the first place.

NovicePilgrim 7y ago

This. The guy never had her in the firat place.

And "Its never yours, its just your turn."

Each day the TRP forum feels more watered down. Less sharp. And much, much more emotional than I remembered, two years ago.

Project_Zero_Betas 7y ago

This. The guy never had her in the firat place.

Nah he had a chance, but between his beta behavior and OP flirting with her on the DL it definitely wasn't going to happen after that, and most likely not in the future because the girl will always be thinking "If I fuck OPs friend that may kill my chances with OP."

Now, if the friend had been orbiting her like several months without closing, that's a different story.

Nicolas0631 7y ago

I don't think you shall fuck your friend girls even if they can't pull them. So there shall have been no flirt at all. Even worse to do it on their roof and literaly in front of them.

lobstergenocide 7y ago

If he can’t pull them it’s not his girl. You don’t get to call dibs on a girl if she’s not even into you, what kind of bitch shit is that. You’re doing him a favor by banging her, maybe that’ll help get it in his head that’s she’s not the one so he can move on with his life

Nicolas0631 7y ago

This isn't about his capacity to pull the girl but respect and caring of your friend. Also this isn't like if you some successful man you really need to do that.

If you were a beta and had oneitis for her I could undertand the irrepressive need to do it regarless but as a RP man, you only do it because you allows it.

To me the idea that to take the girl would help the friend can and may work but only in some cases and is quite likely to be a rationnalisation for just taking her rather than having anything to do with actually helping a friend.

The decision to do it or not then shall not be related to you wanting the girl or not, but only if you find that it will actually help your friend. Quite likely for max effect, you had discussed with you buddy as well before and asked him to double check how you behave and what you do so he can learn.

guyau 7y ago

'the red pill alpha that I am'. Just one cringy line from what is a cringy post. Reminds me that I have to stop lurking here: too many teenagers and bitter old guys in mid life crisis.

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ShimaRoosman 7y ago

Yeah this line was the give away. Nobody who is "alpha" talks like that

umizumiz 7y ago

lol

and he went home alone hahaha

Dark_Lord_A 7y ago

My nigga. The moment I saw it I started shaking my head. These guys are just too easy to spot smfh.

p3n1x 7y ago

Because saying "my nigga" is so Alpha.

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Dark_Lord_A 7y ago

Stop thinking like this or you're going to look like an ass on this sub.

Rob345678 7y ago

What do you want me to say? If I said I was a simp y’all would be okay with it and say “it okay, do better bro” but as soon as someone has a little pride in himself y’all have an issue. On a subconscious level you are either beta or alpha to a female(RP 101). And I would rather be on the alpha side so I claim it and I’m not just being egoistical because my past results and my transformation from blue proves it to myself.

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a_fotzn_konnst_hom 7y ago

What do you want me to say?

Nothing. Nobody really cares. So screaming in out in the world doesn't really do anything other than show insecurity.

If I said I was a simp y’all would be okay with it

No, then its shut up and change it. Some people just talk to much all the time.

Dark_Lord_A 7y ago

Little brother, no one who wants to be perceived in a certain way will tell people to see him in that way. If you want to be seen as a fighter, you can't go around telling people that you're a badass warrior that fucks people up every week. That's trying too hard.

An important part of Red Pill that gets ignored by way too many guys is this: Actions speak far, far louder than words. If you're an alpha, people will pick it up just from the way you act. If you say that you're an Alpha, people will laugh at you, call you a loser, and say that you're trying too hard.

Don't tell us that you're an Alpha; prove it.

Rob345678 7y ago

Once again , in person I don’t go around saying these things. I speak with my actions and results. Because this is a story on a forum I must give context. I am gearing this story for the newcomers so you must give them context.

Dark_Lord_A 7y ago

Nothing's really wrong with any of that. It's just that you have to be careful of how you put things, or what you're saying could seem false.

kantianluvboat 7y ago

By doing what? Shitting on every comment instead of posting your own content? There's almost no way to post a "here's what being alpha looked like last weekend" post without everyone feeling challenged and needing to assert themselves. It's a hilarious problem to have, an entire community of men who pretend they're the best thing around, except they're all talking to each other and act surprised when the chest beating starts.

Rob345678 7y ago

Hahaha exactly bro! They are so focused on the messenger instead of taking the actual message and learning from it. Instead of using logic like men they search inside like females to see how the words “the redpill alpha I am” makes them feel. Then they project their feelings on the comments.

Men focus on the message and take the little nuggets to better their own life.

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The-Wizard-of-Oz- 7y ago

It would've killed your friendship, mayhem but it would've helped him learn the lesson. It certainly did for me, if we take a trip down memory lane

BusyHearing 7y ago

This post is retarded.

Took your title from Rollo then autofilled some inspired garbage.

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red_philosopher 7y ago

I would have just crashed at her place. Honestly. The "Bros before hoes" mentality only matters when your Bros aren't BP beta-tards.

lobstergenocide 7y ago

Exactly. Blue pills are not your friends.

sebastianconcept 7y ago

That you’d have killed your friendship of course. But you already know that. You don’t need us to rationalize for you the act of transacting his friendship for an easy fuck, do you?

SilenceOnTheWire 7y ago

Throughout the night, this dude was doing all the beta blue pill behaviors by catering to her, following her around, and buying her drinks.

Where's the equity in this?

Rob345678 7y ago

He’s been texting/hanging out with her for about a month but never sealed the deal. Those behaviors was just that night.

deathhandmachiavelli 7y ago

The more you invest in a woman, the LESS she cares about you.

The more she invests in you, the MORE she cares about you.

KittyHotNose 7y ago

What if you invest a lot in each other? Not being an asshole..genuine question.

deathhandmachiavelli 7y ago

It depends how much of herself she lost while investing in you.

And how much of you remains.

Zech4riah 7y ago

Props for not fucking your "friends" girl but...

you broke the brocode. You shouldn't even flirt, "lock eye contact" or anything like that with your bros girl. If you notice your friends girl liking you, you don't act on it. You should distant yourself away from the girl and make sure she gets the message.

But you decided to fuck around with her and your friend to validate your ego. Well done.

I would have assumed that your friendship is more valuable than one random chick.

Rob345678 7y ago

I hear where you coming from. Really I just wanted to test to see what kind of girl she is and if she really was going to try to branch swing. I was never planning to take her from him...a random hoe is never worth a friendship even a small friendship.

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p3n1x 7y ago

FYI, testing the branch, IS testing your ego. AWALT = no need to test, because you already know she will. You are hamstering it to be something else.

Take this point of view as something to take time and think about, not something to knee-jerk with and take personally.

Rob345678 7y ago

Yea AWALT but some females can control it...your mom didn’t just branch swing when a higher value male walked in the room some can control and stay loyal.

p3n1x 7y ago

Define female loyalty?

Your perception of "higher value" is not her perception. FYI, You have no idea who your mom did or did not fuck.

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monsieurhire2 7y ago

Props to you for not taking an easy lay that might have cost you a friendship.

I hope you wised up your friend. However, the irony is, fucking her WOULD have wised him up quicker and firmer than telling him after the fact, where then his ego will probably come to the defense of his perceived SMV. But then that would have cost you the friendship, which you obviously valued enough to avoid the easy lay.

On the other hand, if the guy ends the friendship because you have sex with a girl that threw herself onto your dick, then he wasn't much of a friend in the first place.

Sure, he might hate the lesson, but why shoot the messenger? I suppose some guys don't like constant reminders of their own inadequacy.

I have lost a few "friends" over the years, who in retrospect, were probably just using me in a value exchange, where I was perceived as someone they could use as "bait..." except, it would backfire, and I would get the attention without having to do anything. I was sort of dimly aware of this at the time, but it was too depressing of a realization to process. Nonetheless, when one situation came to a head, I was told that I "always do this..." which was hysterical to me, because I was so socially awkward, that I would routinely shoot myself in the foot and talk my way out of getting laid, and dry up pre-moistened panties. What I actually always did was be better looking than the guy in question, so basically my existence.

Cheeseking11 7y ago

The scenario you outlined in your last paragraph is something I frequently face too but I get it more from people I don't know. Pre-redpill I always wondered why people sometimes were randomly rude to me for no reason (I was still in good shape pre-redpill compared to now). It's actually turned me off going out to bars/clubs because I'm tired of weak insecure dudes threatening me for simply existing. Drunk slobbery women are annoying too so I don't go for those types anymore.

What was the situation that came to a head?

monsieurhire2 7y ago

Some female friend of the guy threw herself at me, then it was revealed later, after we hooked up, that the guy liked her the whole time, but I was just supposed to "know" this even though he never told me. Something like that had happened before, but he had shrugged it off. In this case, he had some sever one-itis. Our friendship ended over it, but he got a year or so of guilt-banging from the girl. We were all so blue pilled back in the day.

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usegao 7y ago

yeah it seems like he enabled him in a way. his friend's claim over her was delusional. if your friend hears voices, you wouldn't pretend to hear them too to avoid shattering his "reality"

Project_Zero_Betas 7y ago

I can't stand Beta idiots getting mad at a girl he has a crush over trying to fuck someone else.

I agree, but OPs friend did have somewhat of a shot, until he kept flirting with her when his friend wasn't looking.

lobstergenocide 7y ago

Thank you. People acting like OP is such a big douchebag for stealing the other guy’s girl when she clearly wasn’t his to steal. God forbid one of my buds bangs some chick that wasn’t interested in me in the first place

-ThePathIsTheGoal- 7y ago

You made the right decision at the end of the day to not sleep with her. The people telling you you should have are lost, and have a long way to go.

A man with a genuinely natural abundance mentality understands that there are copious mounts of women to be had, and has the inner confidence to get any of them. He does not need to resort to, of all girls, the one that his friend has set his sights on.

I cannot think of a more beta behavior than stealing a girl, whether a random one or an LTR, from your friend. It overtly displays a fear of loss and scarcity. And if you know any people like this, cut them out immediately. They are not your friends, they are vultures. They cannot be helped, they can only follow ones lead and by some miracle, hopefully they learn and grow.

thebadguy89 7y ago

Damn what's up with all the hate on this post? It reads like a parable XD

I'm just wondering if there could have been a better outcome. I guess it's a win for OP since he truly values his friendship. A big fat L for his friend, however. But then again being BP is just taking L's all day, every day.

DownVotesWrongsOnly 7y ago

She wanted you from the start. You needed to tell your boy that up front.

warwolverinewarrior 7y ago

How is he going to learn if you ain't gonna take his chick? Everything is fair game. He has to learn that on his own thru his eyes. You learn from failure.

MatSapientia 7y ago

Most comments are dumb as fuck. The purpose of the RP is not to fuck in every chance, but rather to finally live your life the way you want to live it. You’d have no problem ditching her because you can get many others. BP mindset is not abundant, so every chance must be exploited no matter the costs.

You did right by your friend. If you really like him, throw redpill hints at him or just push the pill down his throat if you think he’ll not throw it back up

NovicePilgrim 7y ago

And to live your live also requires fully breaking the soulmate myth.

MatSapientia 7y ago

She’s his friends soulmate, not his.

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Thisisntunpopular36 7y ago

This reads like a poorly written fan fiction, put more effort in next time.

NovicePilgrim 7y ago

OP is coming along as a weak bitch by rationalizing and responding to all comments dubting his A-status or friendship. That is, he is failing all the shitests.

Let this be a lesson. If you spin some mad shit, like stating outright "I am alpha" (literal powertalk? Wtf) people will test you, hard. RP forums did just that, and you failed miserably, you little sperg.

A true alpha does not care about the shaming schemes of others.

Therefore, your FR sucks by invalidity. And all the shamers in this post, trying to guilt OP for "stealing" the oneitis girl of his beta friend, specially the one telling him that he should have shared RP advice with him, are BP faggots at heart, and you should be aware of that.

Rob345678 7y ago

Uhh naw dude ur misinformed..I opened my post up for discussion..because I thought I was posting in a forum of men to exchange ideas, not females or feminine men thinking with their feelings but I guess I was wrong. Good try with the female shaming tactics tho.

JamesSkepp 7y ago

There are no ideas in your post, nor are there any lessons, not for you, not for your BP friend, not from you, not from your BP fiend.

You wrote this to seek validation/attention from men. As NovicePilgrim stated, the form you chose to put this FR in clearly shows your intentions. Then you got shittested on that and you failed.

NovicePilgrim 7y ago

So it was bragging and validation seeking.

Also, whats to discuss in your post? What did you expect to get out of it?

Rob345678 7y ago

Nope why would I need validation from random dudes online. Just an real life experience I thought I share to help other RP fellas especially newer ones to not be that beta investing too much. I hoped to stir a discussion about relationship equity

krimpenrik 7y ago

You're using this sub the same the female use tinder.. seeking validation..

Stripped down you are still a little bitch with a big mouth.

Losingsteamfast 7y ago

Couldnt agree more. Op clearly made this post so he can compliment himself and pretend to be a big shot.

Basically the story is "I went out with my buddy. We both fought for some girls attention all night and neither of us could seal the deal. Even though nothing happened I'm going to pretend she wanted me because it makes me feel cool."

charlie_official 7y ago

You should help him to become redpill alpha you. You are an asshole bro, you should give him an advice. So even that you didn't fuck her - you are a cunt.

Libidodrivn 7y ago

What kind of sadboy response is this? If his boy wants the redpill, he will tale it himself. You can't live others lives for them. He made the right play, take your finger out of your ass.

Rob345678 7y ago

Haha exactly! “When the student is ready the teacher will appear” trust me I tried to redpill other friends, it is dirty work and usually doesn’t work because they are not ready.

charlie_official 7y ago

Another selfish asshole. Wow

Dark_Lord_A 7y ago

He's not wrong. Each and every single man has to make a conscious decision to take the Red Pill. You can't convince a man that everything he believes in is wrong, when he adamantly believes that he's right.

Nicolas0631 7y ago

I think actually you can with good teaching but it would require time and example and avoiding of calling it redpill.

charlie_official 7y ago

But did he ever told him that there is a chance for him to take the Red Pill, do you know how many guys is not aware that something like this exists. If he know about it and doesn't want to take it hten he is stupid, but what if he doesn't?

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Dark_Lord_A 7y ago

Oh man. Take it from me; that rarely ever goes well. It's hard for most men to accept the Red Pill. Really hard. If you tell a buddy about it, you run the risk of losing your friendship. The best thing to do, sad as it is, is to let your friend crash and burn, and suffer a true heartbreak before introducing him to the Pill. Otherwise, trust me it won't go well.

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You are a stand up guy!! Your friendship is worth more than a ONS.

Here is the pat on the back i think you were after for being a good boy

JamesSkepp 7y ago

This is one big TRP-virtue signaling to get validation from this forum.

"Im the alpha" lines, excessive "my boys this my boys that" to project camaraderie where there isn't any real one, excuses in the form of "i could have, but chose not to", finally the moralizing about "how you made the good choice and saved your friendship". Also worth mentioning is the amount of DEERing the author makes in the comments.

Non-Cookie-cutter 7y ago

Sums up the majority of posts here nowadays.

Me mr big alpha superior to all men because i am redpill , mike tyson beta cause he blue pill

phenethyljammin 7y ago

What do you mean by your last line? I'm not familiar with that expression, deering that is.

JamesSkepp 7y ago

DEER is from Defend Excuse Explain Rationalize. "Yes i did stab him 50 times, but it was because blah blah blah".

GatienCash 7y ago

Well, if you really are the Redpill alpha you are, I guess you know women and have a lot of experience.

But... Why did you need to flirt back with her? Just to see how far she would go?

Soooo insecure move IMHO.

Anyway, we have nothing to learn from this pathetic FR.

Rob345678 7y ago

Ummm to see what kind of girl she is and see if she would succumb to her emotions and hypergamous nature. I hope you kno that some women can control it , not branch swing and stay loyal to the man that she’s with.

Looks like you got a lot to learn buddy.

Cryptoguru777 7y ago

I hope your friends reads this to know what a simp he is - but he might have had feelings for her. When feelings are involved, love even, it requires godlike resolve to stay a true alpha.

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Krsna108 7y ago

We got some riots in the community bwahaha

Kyogata 7y ago

You're a good friend. But tell your boy how he needs to change.

MundoDexter 7y ago

If he’s got oneitis it might kill the relationship, but if another few months go by and you and the girl cross paths, PUSH HER HEAD IN THAT FUCKIN PILLOW. If your boy hasnt make a move in 2-3 months, he’ll have to face the facts that he couldnt get her. So he’ll be pissed but he’ll get over it. When he confronts you dont me cocky, and dont antagonize, be straight shooting and honest but dont be a dick. Good luck op

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SilenceOnTheWire 7y ago

Side note: a lot of my boys told me I should of just took her from him. I felt like that would of killed our friendship( because he has ONEits asf). What you guys think?

I don't know what kind of person your friend is but if he's the kind of nice guy he seems to be he likely doesn't have a very strong character (more than ignorance of red pill stuff) and he resents you. Either strategy, taking the girl or not taking her and trying to lecture your "friend" on TRP is going to backfire eventually because your friend is not going to change and will only grow to resent you more.

You look like you get some satisfaction of feeling superior to your boy which is going to backfire sooner or later. Just my thoughts.

Your other friends don't seem very wise either. Maybe they don't like the beta guy, maybe they are just stupid, regardless that wasn't good advice.

ShuckLuck 7y ago

S. Nnnns n escapade s, ftg3s

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Stink-Finger 7y ago

Women are easy to get. Most are absolutely worthless so its OK that they come and go, but the friendships you make will last forever.

BigWeenus42 7y ago

You guys are a fucking circus. Take what you can from the post and stop bitching in the comments like your some kind of alpha beta detector. Comments that dont contribute at all to TRP need to be banned. Where are the admins?

UniversalFapture 7y ago

Why does it seem like everyone struggles with eye contact?

Managicall 7y ago

No matter how much the beta invest in the so called “relationship equity” the young hot girl will always swing to a surrounding Alpha.

If you have ever played the seductive game of Dungeons and Dragons then look into something known as Vin DiCarlo's Pandora's Box system. And then solve for True Neutral alignment female.