I've been dating for a while now before I got RPed I didn't know that women liked sex as much as we do, I didn't go nor did I know how to go for the kiss and how to apply kino. The only thing I was doing right was teasing, I would consider myself a very witty person, so teasing comes naturally to me.
Went out at around 4:30 pm at my local mall to daygame. I spent around an hour getting rejected constantly, I approached 4 women in an hour because rarely do I find a woman attractive enough for me to approach, some just don't do it for me. The lowest I go for are HB7s. I felt pretty down but I kept going, I ran into my school teacher, he's a dope dude, he's woke asf philosophically and he's a really fun guy to be around. He sees me, shouts "HEEEEEY SOMEAVERAGECHAP!" and gives me that handshake greeting black people do (sorry I don't know what it's called) it was kinda floppy so I tell him "let's do that again". After that interaction, I felt really good, so I guess that mirrored through my future interaction with other women that day.
Another hour passes by and I approach 3 or 4 more women, get rejected all times. Then I find this cute nerdy looking girl, I approach her, introduce myself and tell her my intentions, she was pretty receptive, she studies in Hawaii and is only staying here for 3 weeks, I told her I should get her number, she said she didn't have one, so I got her facebook instead, then I let her go. I was gonna take her on an instant date but she had to see her dad.
Then I finally approach the girl who eventually gives me my first handjob. I approach her, tell her I thought she was cute, her face immediately brightens up so I talk to her for a bit find out what she's doing, she said she was about to go home, I asked her if she wants to get a salad with me, she checks her watch and says "sure". We talk, she sits across me so I couldn't apply kino. She's pretty good at speaking, so she did most of it, I just teased her here and there and she would kind of laugh hysterically every time I teased her. Something I like to do when I go on dates where she's sitting across me is an arm wrestle, so I move our plates to the table next to us and we arm wrestle. She enjoys it and laughs.
I tell her to join me in the arcade and play basketball, she checks her watch and says sure again. While we were walking she said she has to go home by 9, and it was already 8, I tell her to forget about the arcade and I tell her to join me at the park. She kinda hesitant, but she comes with me anyways, I put my arm around her and I could tell she wasn't comfortable with that yet so I pull back. We go out of the mall, it's raining, I ask her if she has an umbrella, she said she does and she gets it out. I put my arm around her to guide her while she holds the umbrella. We take a ride to the park.
We reach there and sit on a bench together. She gets pretty close to me, that indicates to me that she's comfortable enough to initiate physical contact. I talk to her for a bit more, I eventually do this thing I learned from watching an infield video. I told her I was gonna show her a magic trick, I tell her to close her eyes and give me her hand, then I go for the kiss. I like to do this rather than just going for the kiss because we all know girls don't like to take responsibility or come off as sluts, so when she's asked why she let me kiss her, she can say something like "I didn't know he was going to kiss me", "It just happened" you know, same old, same old.
She says "wow you're pretty slick, tricking me like that", I tell her" let's do that again". She says "wait" then uses the umbrella to cover us. There's a sidewalk with people passing by and a road where cars pass by, we had to use something to cover ourselves haha. We make out heavily. I wanted to kick it up a notch, so I tell her to stand up and come sit on my lap, she's about 50kg and 5'4, my type of girl, pretty fluffy and she's about the best smelling girl I've ever met. We make out again, I get kinda aggressive and start rubbing my boner against her. This goes on for about 20 minutes and she says she wants to sit down next to me again because she's getting tired sitting like that and kind of slouching because we're trying our best to use the umbrella to cover us.
At this point, it's already 9, she checks her watch and says "I can extend my time for another 30 minutes". She sits next to me, she starts talking to me again for like 15 minutes. Eventually, she gets bored, covers us with the umbrella and kisses me, we start making out again. I had my hands on her thighs, I started touching her vagina and I place her hand on my crotch, but I didn't feel much because of my jeans, so I pull out my dick and it's pretty tough to get anything done sexually here since the only thing keeping our privacy was a fucking umbrella. She wasn't doing a very good job, I call her out she said she hasn't done this in a while. I'm not in a rush to have sex or anything, so I don't even let her make me climax, I told her I'll teach her next time. 9:30 hits, but I could tell she didn't want to go yet, but I kinda did so we start looking for a ride for her.
We were walking finding her a ride, she was telling me how thrilling this was because she's never done this on a first date, the only time she got intimate was with her boyfriends, that's common among girls in my country. She tells me "I like my hair short and you want it long, shoot I guess I'm gonna have to get it long". I was talking about how her hair was short a while ago and how I like it long, but I was only teasing her, I actually preferred her hair short. If a girl is willing to modify something as important as her hair for you, I'm assuming that means that she has high interest, so I thought I'd bring that up
We eventually find a ride for her, I smack her ass and she goes.
It took me a while to get to this point, fixing and learning from my little mistakes from previous dates. I also started lifting a month ago. What I'm trying to say is, thank you RP community, a special thanks to the asktrp members who have helped me out. This is my first published field report, forgive me if I'm making any mistakes here, I'll get better.

rgr555 7y ago
dunno dude. why would anyone go to a park when its raining and then sit on a wet bench.
RightHandWolf 7y ago
We have a t shirt for that:
https://www.tshirthell.com/funny-shirts/han-job-han-solo-princess-leia/
Trymebish29 7y ago
'We were walking finding her a ride, she was telling me how thrilling this was because she's never done this on a first date, the only time she got intimate was with her boyfriends, that's common among girls in my country'
lol if you actually believe this
SomeAverageChap 7y ago
Yeah, I'm not saying women here aren't slutty and wouldn't have sex with a guy they just met, I'm saying that most men here are unconfident betas who don't know how to escalate and they're afraid to express their own sexuality towards women. Most men here think that they need to get in a relationship first, and only then the women will have sex with them, which is of course false.
DigitalDragonSlayer 7y ago
Nothing beats an ole fashioned. You’ll miss those in the future.
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PhantomRedditor5 7y ago
Lmao. The handshake is called a dap.
420KUSHBUSH 7y ago
The really helpful knowledge is always in the comments section
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Aethetico 7y ago
Well done bro, you couldve easily got her to blow you by saying something like “i wanna feel your lips on my dick”
lugrulo 7y ago
This is actually really impressive game for a first time hj. A better location, and you woulda got some head too.
I think you’re a natural charmer. Keep up the good work.
SomeAverageChap 7y ago
Dude, a better location and I would've fucked her, she was all over me. As I said, she even initiated some of the kissing. Thanks tho.
Cheddar_Curtain 7y ago
We need field reports from the young guys, because at least he isn't sitting at home beating it to shitty porn and playing video games. This guy is out there cold approaching, getting denied, and still keeps going.
As he admits not much of it works but he keeps it rolling anyway. Most of us don't have the balls to cold approach and/or get rejected more than once a day.
I'm a little bit older and the idea of a hand job does absolutely nothing for me because I can jerk myself off, and I can do it better than she does. But I remember an age where this idea would have been exciting. And he pulls it off after just meeting her a few hours ago. Not bad really.
Keep going man, you'll be fucking in no time. My personal record of 'nice to meet you' to sticking my dick in is about an hour. I wouldn't call that typical but it can happen. Master the tools and become a craftsman.
SomeAverageChap 7y ago
Thanks dude. Being 17 means I don't have my own place yet so all I can really hope for is her place being empty or mine haha. Logistics is pretty much the only thing preventing me from having sex.
CryptoViceroy 7y ago
When you're young (<25) you can get away without needing logistics. If you're both DTF you'll find a way - anywhere that's dark/secluded and you're unlikely to be disturbed.
Sometimes you have to work a little harder to get over the LMR if they're hesitant about having sex in a public place, but once they're relaxed it's easy to close. A lot of girls actually get off on the adrenaline.
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Rollo_Mayhem3 7y ago
Got to start somewhere...know teach her to blow you
rad_dynamic 7y ago
Dude, she is going to remember you for the rest of your life. Probably the best first date she will ever have.
Congratulations man, now keep it up. But leave some girls for the rest of us ;)
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Dude, if you're circumcised (like most American guys) you'll want her to use some lube or lotion. Girls fucking suck at giving hand jobs and it'll feel like you're getting tortured by the Viet Kong attempting an Indian Burn. Blame Dr. Kellogg. If she's from somewhere where men aren't circumcised, then she'll have no idea how uncomfortable it can be for you.
SuperCrazy07 7y ago
OP is 17. He should have figured this out on his own.
Good on you for going for it op, but hand jobs suck. I haven’t gotten one in 25+ years. Next time go for the bj.
SomeAverageChap 7y ago
I would've, but again, we were at a public park. The umbrella was enough to cover both of us, but if you saw us, you would be able to tell she's leaning down with her face near my crotch, it would be way too obvious what's going on. In this country, I wouldn't be surprised if some nosey motherfucker just pulled our umbrella away to see what was going on lmao.
Adam1394 7y ago
Rule 1: Don't get married.
Rule 2: Don't cut your penis.
xnesteax 7y ago
Why is this such a thing, in the end it's still a dick
Adam1394 7y ago
At the end, in marriage you're still a man, isn't it?
HoedownInBrownTown 7y ago
Don't think most guys get a choice, do they?
usegao 7y ago
i raised my objections but they told me to "shh shh shh shh shh shh"
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KoielH 7y ago
Wow, that sounded thrilling. My only question is how you worded your compliment on her being cute.
SomeAverageChap 7y ago
"Hey I just saw you from over there and I thought you were attractive/cute"
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ChaseUnforgotten 7y ago
Approuching girls at the mall looking like a simp chasing women. I could never do that I rather make money and attract girls with that.
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swagswag1000 7y ago
fuck outta here with yo buuuullshit mayne
SomeAverageChap 7y ago
You know what I find more pathetic, it's when I see guys checking out a girl they like but they're too scared to approach or make a move. They just stare at her. Occasionally, I approach the girl right infront of them and get her number.
max_peenor Senior Endorsed 7y ago
I had an exec assistant that I would go to lunch with frequently. She was very attractive, but obviously off-limits. There was a large mall with lots of places to each where you could do people watching. This was our primary game: spot the beta. It is incredible how often men do this.
I'm shocked the human race managed to propagate to over 7 billion people.
And I wanted to point out she was very good at the game. Yes guys, they know you are being a pussy. You aren't keeping your secret. So go fucking talk to them.
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ChaseUnforgotten 7y ago
I never stare at girls I don’t even see them walking I ignore them on purpose because I know I am the price
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ChaseUnforgotten 7y ago
Having alot of money doesn’t make you beta. chasing woman in the mall seeing them as the price makes you beta... but he is young so he got lot to learn...
Distractingyou 7y ago
Lol beta trolls fake accounts lurking around.. what does the world has become