I discovered TRP about a year ago. I had just entered an LTR and was trying to figure out "shit tests," so I web-surfed into this forum. I want to reflect for a moment about my experiences and how I believe that I have positively grown during the past twelve months.

I grew up in a traditional, religious home. Sex was taboo, and I sincerely believed that sex should only be reserved for married couples in attempt to procreate. Looking back, my views about sexuality and relationships were drastically skewed, and I missed out on countless experiences. I didn't even kiss a girl until I was 18 years old. But aside from that, I had a decent SMV; good looking, smart, athletic, etc. And I've always had a knack for socially attracting people. So mainly, TRP has helped me improve my sexual abilities.

As I mentioned, I was in an LTR when I discovered TRP last year. She described herself as "asexual," so our sexual encounters were limited. I know, I know, that sounds ridiculous. But to me, she represents a solid baseline of my journey of becoming a stronger man. I waited to break up with her until after Christmas. New year, new me -- except I've actually followed through with it.

Since breaking up with her, I've had 5 sexual partners. Which is more than I've had in my entire life. It's been fantastic. I even have three separate dates lined up this weekend -- which is a bit overwhelming, admittedly, but it's a good problem to have.

I've become more confident in social situations, which has led to leadership opportunities within my community. I was recently appointed to my town council board of directors, for example. I'm unafraid to speak my mind, even if that means disagreeing with powerful people.

And there are other aspects that I believe TRP has awoken within me. I could go on for awhile. In short, here are my biggest takeaways so far, which can help any newcomers:

-Don't be scared to get sexual around women. Heavy innuendos, outright dirty jokes, flirtatious touching. Our society will tell you that even gazing at a woman is wrong, but I've learned just how silly that is. If a woman is even mildly attracted to you, she will enjoy if you hold her hand, or refer to sex in a clever way, or finger her necklace, or anything like that. Get her number. Ask her on a date. Build kino. And when the time is right, escalate! Just go for it, otherwise you'll be waiting for your entire life.

-Don't worry about rejections. Not even specifically when a woman rejects your advances -- if you get rejected for a job, rejected for a manuscript submission, whatever. More than likely you didn't do anything wrong. It's simply being in the wrong place at the wrong time; perhaps that employer found a better candidate, or that girl is already seeing three other guys. Keep improving yourself and more opportunities for success will arise soon enough.

-Speak your mind. You think a girl looks cute? Tell her. You don't agree with something your elected officials propose? Show up to city hall. Somebody wronged you? Confront them. Life is too short to act passively. EDIT: Of course, "confronting" people isn't always best. Sometimes it's better to ignore people. If you do decide to confront somebody, act respectfully and stay in control of your emotions. My point is that you shouldn't bottle up negativity and wait for it to change into positivity.

That's all I have for now. Peace.