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whiskey_bearfist 12y ago
ive mentioned it before. my favorite way to demonstrate game-savvy is to pull a girl close and tell her that we are going to be commentators on the interactions in the room.
so you grab a straw or pepper shaker or whatever and thats the microphone. and you talk like golf commentators. in that soft, whisper quiet voice, and just scan the room looking for interesting people and couples and groups. you can see the dynamics at work and you just start breaking down like its a play by play, and then move the "mic" over to her so she can offer color commentary.
its a lot of fun, and if you are careful to point out things like "oh, that guy is too eager.. she isnt going home with him tonight, tough break." "look at this guy, what is that 5? no 6! 6 shots he just bought. Boy I sure hope he knows he can't buy pussy that way."
if you do it right, she will be giggling along with you and slapping your arm telling you how mean you are. this is where you want to be.
but generally i have found that discussing this stuff with friends and especially girls is a poor idea. girls will say its creepy, and most guys have an ego investment in the status quo, so when you drop some realtalk, their auto-deny defense system kicks in and they close off or get angry.
_whistler 12y ago
This makes sense in the area of spinning plates, but I don't know that I agree in the context of an LTR. When moving from a more casual 'dating' relationship to a committed, monogamous relationship with a girl - something not all Red Pill men want to do, which I respect - isn't it best to talk about the specifics of the dynamics at play, so the shift in the relationship is clearly understood?
Pretentious_Designer 12y ago
I had the same thought reading that article.
I will admit that I have been finding some success in calling out shit tests as they are lately. I don't explain all the dynamics at once, but the more I'm tested the more I seem to get it.
My journey is only beginning though, and there is an appeal to how the article approaches it. Very Don Juan.