Rules of attraction
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Be attractive
- Don't be unattractive.
It's been a rule for as long as I can remember. Everything in here in some way is built from those basic rules. 1. is straightforward, shoulders back, eye contact, lift weights, eat well. It's not easy, but it's a direct line, so you won't get aspie outrage over it... Well, maybe genetics, but I'm not touching that crap.
2 is where you run into problems. I think people have a large blind spot for how they look in public, and it's the biggest self sabotaging behaviour I see. I'm going to use some redpill internet nonsense to make the point, since we have video evidence, and it's right here in front of us.
Whats in it for the reader? a decent example of how being unattractive is a DHV. Use it as a self-analysis springboard, see where in your own life you live in the frame of someone else, complain, and then picture how you look just like these guys do.
And if you're resonating with their image, I suggest you go subscribe from there, leave here, and enjoy yourself. Rule 0, get with the program or not, no hair off anyones back
Background
Redpillschool has had to put a few measures in place to prevent people brigaiding other subreddits against Reddit policy in the past. Notice that you can't link a reddit thread directly, and must go through archive.is?
At the same time, mod remove a lot of posts which can be summed up by posting an example of a shitty woman, so you can point and laugh, get herd approval, and validation of your whining. Whining in general is unattractive, stop doing it. A great sidebenefit is he and the other mods are saving the guys this apply to from their own self desctructive behaviours.
The best example ever given to me. For those that don't know
(disclaimer, self plug, I don't get paid for it)
Anthony Johnson of 21 studios hosts a biweekly podcast, he calls the redmangroup Where a bunch of other redpilled guys get together and shoot the shit, swap notes, and entertain listeners on various topics. /u/dream21 invited me, /u/Rollo-tomassi, and /u/blacklabellogics. He occasionally gets others, Donovan sharpe, Allan Curie, Richard Cooper and illimitablemen to come in and weight in on their thoughts.
And this guy spent 4 hours complaining to his viewers how he wasn't allowed to springboard off of the livestream. You'd think he's the only one, but he's not. This idiot wears purple pill like it's a badge, talk about not understanding frame Don't even get me started on the #upstreamtwitter bullshit. A weird mix of jesus, betamale TRADCON LARPERS, and a guy I'm convinced has autism and a mancrush on illimitableman. Feel free to search the hashtag and see for yourself what an empty suit looks like.
Now why am I making this point?
Because I don't think unattractive people know that they are unattractive. I go online, dress like I give a shit, have a few drinks, and have some fun with a few other men. Keep it as light as possible, but have some substance, engage the viewership. If people were there only to learn, there's way better sources in the books, sidebar etc. I may make a flippant comment calling honour killings the male version of abortions, or the pill being an ac-hoc croudsourced eugenics program, but with a smile on my face, and generally having fun. Video is about Ethos, not logos. Rambo has to be jacket, or no one would care about him trying to kill Commies. the Running man has to look like he can run, or no one would buy into the movie.
You tell me. If this was a social situation with people talking with girls, which strategy do you see working for you? Ranting about Rollo ignoring you for 4 hours? Bitching about another man in your car? Or being social, entertaining (as much as one can be on one of these damned things, so not saying much).
Now, I ain't Chad Incarnate. I imagine a good share of the young bucks here are some tall drinks of water, with a cut jaw, and can string a sentence or two together without stumbling over their own feet, way better than I can. Imagine what happens when you just get out of your own way and just have some fun? Be able to have a pleasant demeanor when talking about the dismal state of masculinity today?
annecdote
In Florida, when we had the first redpill themed convention, I went out of my way to have fun in the bars in whorelando. Opened a girl by calling her a cunt (and it worked) and had a blast. The ol lady is at home sending me nudes on my phone (love those mate retiontion strategies). And finally, some of the guys got out of their own way and just started approaching. I can only imagine how the other bar group was doing. Christian McQueen took a bunch of others into the other club, and probably blew any of my shit out of the water. Guys paid good money to see his game work, this german fellow especially. Granted, he got jumped the night before by some AMOG dudes who thought they had their girls on lock, but fuck, we discussed how those cuts would be a great opener for the next night!
Enjoy the decline.
Key word, enjoy. Focus on not being unattractive. If you're still floating around in the anger phase, get it out of your system and move on.

Zech4riah 8y ago
Sooo, how do I look if I have a man-crush?
Bitching around when some EC ignores me?
sadomasochrist 8y ago
To be fair, that guy is probably mentally ill. That is a total, undiluted melt down over internet points and what not.
What do we really expect here? I obviously have a soft spot in my heart for these guys, not because I think they deserve compassion but because there is a degree of logic to the thought.
TRP does conflate itself as "women period" when it's really within the STR paradigm (which is part of his misunderstanding of the content as being broad when its specific). And so there are some points that are not obvious. And it takes a literal jump into the studies to understand that LTRs for women are suboptimally arranged by design (which he doesn't understand yet).
And even then, it still doesn't fully digest until you conceptually understand AWALT in a way that wasn't outlined before I did it (which is why he doesn't have a coherent ethos grounded in reality).
I understand these guys, blow by blow.
So yeah, they have their heads in the game often and their heart in the right place. If I wasn't so god damn stubborn that'd be me, well, not nearly that bad, jesus. But you get it. You have to let the evidence overwhelm you and then at some point you stop trying to disprove it and start looking for more supporting evidence.
And so to that point, while I disagree about the nutjob, your purple pill guy is a great example. He's basically clueless to the fact that he's weak and you don't really know that until you've had to have it out. The video of him at a houseparty is pretty cringeworthy even outside of the fact that I wondered whether or not that one chick was a tranny.
I suspect this guy is of the plow horse variety, he just doesn't realize it. Just need more sets, better openers and then he seals it about casting TRP as "woman haters" while opining about how LTRs "are real."
He more or less has let his ego and lack of self introspection and critical thinking stonewall his growth.
But this does seem to come down to the question of "can you unplug a guy without a woman being the mechanism?"
Doesn't seem that you can. So until this guy settles down with a gamer girl or whatever and then does his purple pill manifesto and finds out she's pretty fresh on black cock, nothing you can really do.
Just watch and cringe.
iamanenemy 8y ago
"I get jealous, but I'm too cool to admit it."
IwannaFocus 8y ago
Ever heard how 50 cent got popular in the first place? By talking shit about a guy who was more famous/influential than him.
This is what's going on in a nutshell; by challenging the top dog, he hopes to get himself into the spotlight. Unfortunately for the captain PurpleIdiot, he lacks the stats to take advantage of that limelight - he's a nobody with zero potential.
Shit like that works only with the sheep. Fortunately for him, Redpill has gotten a lot of attention from Tradcons, Alt-Righters, Soybois-with-no-hope-to-digest-RP and the rest of the riff raff. So who knows, maybe he'll pull it off if he attracts enough idiots.
Rian_Stone 8y ago
I'm watching americas got talent bloopers. They all tried it too.
50 cent had talent and talked shit. I think that's the difference
iamanenemy 8y ago
All bad groups to have on TRP, I thought.
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Taipanshimshon 8y ago
I feel like I missed something. Whats to rant about? sometimes you guys are right and sometimes wrong , but usually funny.
Cheers
Rian_Stone 8y ago
it's not a rant. I'm starting to get more exposure with people, and just seeing so many unattractive behaviours, from what would otherwise be decent people.
I can't make jokes about it without a few scotch in me I guess
Taipanshimshon 8y ago
I thought you said someone was ranting about being ignored ?
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Rian_Stone 8y ago
Yeah, that hoca guy, but he's trying to talk and sounding very unattractive while. Asking for. Money
Taipanshimshon 8y ago
Wow. Dude sounds like he has low T.
Rian_Stone 8y ago
WNS did tell. Me haters were going to come out of the woodwork...
Did not know how bad it would be
Taipanshimshon 8y ago
Oh yeah it’s bad