he resembles any number of Indian computer programmers frustrated by a want for the secret formula to make a gorgeous American blonde with big tits fall in love with him. Don’t get me wrong, I counsel these men personally, but he fits that schema

Just curious, what advice to you give them?

She sucked his dick...then exposed him to the world. I would sue the bitch for defamation. It was a total set up in order to exploit the #metoo bullshit. This girl needs to be quick scoped.

Every act that Ansari attempted with Grace was a form of negotiation. I can’t get sex? How about a blow job? No? Okay how about if I go down on you? She feels forced? Woah, default to female identification persona. Presume the sale, “How do you want me to fuck you?”

This just had to be repeated.

He got what he deserved, he wants to pump and dump big titted blonde white women , but he doesn't make their panties wet. They are using him for his money and to meet real celebrities. Yet he believes he a Leonardo DiCaprio or George Clooney . He is never going to be that ,and he cannot understand why.

Just to make a clear point here. Ansari was going to loose no matter what the outcome of the situation was because this girl had an agenda in the first place (to publicly shame Ansari). No matter what the outcome was, this girl was going to come out and say something about this guy anyways. The guy is just a victim of the society and the truth is that the world gives no F**ks about his POV.

I’d like to mention a guy could look physically beta and that’s all it matters to a woman without even trying to get to know him.

She will think his personality is beta because he looks beta, but oh boy can that be ever so wrong.

This is why average yet self groomed looking Indians still have a hard time. The combination of our brown skin and average looks reinforces that stereotype that we are only good providers, run 7-11s, work in the IT, or are some sort of engineer/doctors. Which has an inferior not cool stigma to it. There’s nothing sexy about it.

We do worse than a white guy who doesn’t put any effort into how he looks, unless we are facially attractive ourselves.

Chad = alpha in looks and naturally alpha in personality due to many women wanting him, therefore shaping his mentality to one of abundance.

Regular redpill dude = beta in looks but adopts alpha mentality

No I did not think about it that way. Interesting point

the thing is, ansari never had the chance, even if he had "game". he's too short, too annoying, and most importantly, too indian. some people were born to be beta, and when they try alpha techniques, it backfires. he should've known his place in society and stayed in his lane.

If Ansari wasn't a wealthy, famous comedian he would be a currycel. A 5'6" Indian guy who sounds like he's breathing helium wouldn't have gotten a woman into his place if not for the massive amounts of wealth and status he has. But even then, you cannot negotiate or buy desire, which is why "Grace" lost interest as she realized he wasn't going to immediately LTR her and shower her with gifts. The guy has no game and was not able to overcome LMR and f-close despite the fact she lingered around the apartment after mutually awkward attempts at oral sex. The guy is proof that wealth and status by themselves are not enough to be successful in dating. I would feel bad for him if weren't an outspoken male feminist, so instead I laugh.

Aziz made the mistake of trying to bed a self-centered indecisive weirdo who tried to monkey branch into a relationship she thought would open doors to more opportunities and higher monkey branches.

Argued with a rich guy on here once.

Guy seemed to think $$$ = Alpha.

Fucking idiotic for thinking that.

We're looking at all these rich "powerful men" getting gang raped in their buttholes because in reality they're unwanted, out of shape, dad bod betas who just happens to have money.

When I was learning PUA before TRP was a thing it was pretty well known that the response to LMR was to withdraw attention. I have done this in many situations and it pretty much always results in sex. A woman who has come back to your house, or invited you into her house knows what she wants, LMR is basically a slut shield. If Ansari had have just taken out his phone, sat by himself on the lounge and started sending some emails and ignored her then she would have had her hand on his dick without him needing to push through LMR. It is always a bad idea to try and push through LMR, just withdraw attention and watch her come to you. Grace already planned on fucking him and this hapless beta moron snatched defeat from the jaws of victory. Beta game is a misnomer, it is actually an absence of game, a void which includes pandering behaviour and passive entitlement that repulses women. To all of the Louis CKs, Ansaris and Weinsteins out there, at least learn some game if you cant be bothered going to the gym. Status plus game is 2 out of three and they will get laid by girls who want to fuck them. If Red pill logic was more well known everyone would be much happier.

So - being in Hollywood I'm assuming Aziz had no choice but to spout off all that Hollywood feminist bullshit, the town is made up of actors and liars.

Behind closed doors, I'm sure he's been into all kinds of debauchery and sick shit. Hollywood is a lie. Don't believe the media. No one - NO ONE in Hollywood buys this bullshit.

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I keep finding experienced straight men and women generally believe what happened with Aziz and Grace wasn't assault. It was awkward and uncomfortable but not assault.

In discussing this with queer, asexual and less-experienced straight people they seem appalled by the behavior. There's a misunderstanding among a large number of people what negotiating straight sex often involves.

If Ansari had been Red-Pilled, he would have withdrawn his attention from "Grace" as soon as she felt uncomfortable and/or kicked the bitch out. I'm more of a MGTOW/IBMOR myself, but I do know that you cannot negotiate attraction. The greatest power a man has is to walk away.

I used to go out once or twice a month for the last 2 years at bars/clubs and house parties and I’d approach another Indian chick if I saw one that was single and attractive (atleast a 6). Hard to find.