There are two parts to genetic representation, part 1 is as you say, seed meets egg then the rest doesn't matter. But you forget part 2 is configuration and education which increasingly in the western civilization is segmenting into social strata and class warfare where people cut rungs on their way up the ladder.

You lure skunks messing up your garbage to the skunk trap by laying down a trail of skunk treats. The skunk briefly wonders: "Why are these chocolates leading up to the skunk trap? And isn't it interesting a herd of skunks follow behind me to the same destination?". The chocolates are a bad supervisory signal. In the same way more sex from dysfunctional women for bullies in public school day-cares is a bad supervisory signal. The entity assigning value to terminal states in the environment is an enemy, not an ally.

The bully subscribed to the bad supervisory signal, that you can get whatever you want by pissing on others and being an asshole who doesn't care about your own group. As you get to your mid 20's and mid 30's, you find that's the recipe for scuttling along the bottom of this civilization as a bottom feeder.

The boy who used the irritation from the bully to focus on his studies, science, math, engineering technology and masterful cunning is like the skunk who sees the trail of chocolates and says: "I see the end of this game, I will not go to the trap even though I'm rewarded for going there". That boy has a shot at rising to a much higher station, seeing the end game much further out, perhaps mechanizing the liftoff and bringing his friends along, and breaking out from bottom feeder to ruling class, who do no work, but instead receive all gains from those must work, using the law to subvert justice.

You missed my point. Two marshmallows now and a prison for your soul later, or no marshmallows now and anything you could ever want later. Bullies are taking birds in the hand, nerds suffering the defection are taking the hypothetical birds in the bush, banking on what is unseen, to receive the greater prize.

Women will crave the bully, but that's because they want all the men craving to be like the boy who is throwing away his future, so that the whole of women will be able to own the whole of men. Game goes much deeper than you imagine. It's male vs female on a collective level. Be the skunk that doesn't follow the other skunk eating the trail of treats. In the same way women are collectively trying to beta cuck the entire western civilization, and to much extent they have already succeeded, because here I am having to explain to you what your father didn't, how to know a virtuous supervisory signal from an evil one. Despise the free sex as the skunk despises the free chocolate.

A bland looking person can be a bully and a social manipulator.

Nope. You're just saying that because you're a bland (at best) looking person who wants to be a bully and a social manipulator.

You will understand one day.

The guy who leads my group at work spent almost a decade in the military before he joined the biz world. Now pulls in 1m++/year. When he was younger he was also pretty built. He's in charge of hundreds of people and still fires people, but he is also the warmest guy in the office.

But yes, you can be a nice humble alpha.

Just keep that violence mostly at potential or you'll be getting your pussy slayed in prison.