If you're anything like me, sometimes the way women think and feel seems like the polar opposite of my reaction in the same situation. Red Pill-aware men are armed, however, with tomes of information about female attitudes and behavior.
I'd like to share three examples of preselection that I've found suprising:
1.) The most recent occurrence was on Valentine's day. My then-girlfriend and I met a beautiful blonde girl at my friend's house on the way to dinner. I'd recently picked out a sexy, purple, Marilyn Monroe-style dress for my girlfriend and wanted to show it off. I love to use women to flirt with other women, so I had my date removed her overcoat and give a twirl for the other girl, showing off her body and flowy dress. 3 months later, I had no struggle bedding the girl who I showed off my girlfriend for. This seems fucked up and I would probably lose attraction to a girl that did this around me, but she ate it up and we're still fucking 6 months later.
2.) I have a friend who is a model and a real estate mogul. Tall, gorgeous, and kind, she has a low n-count and has normally had a committed partner whenever we've been near one another. I still take her out because she's a whole lot of fun and obviously makes other women uncomfortable with how pretty she is. They talk to her, see how nice and valuable she is, then the jealousy only builds. I've learned that this somehow works to get women wet. Maybe it incites a drive for competition, but that might be a male way of thinking about it. Perhaps it's more like a desire to share part of a man who wins the admiration of valuable women.
3.) With two different LTR girlfriends, I got caught fucking other women. Morals and specifics aside, I can't tell you how much this did for increasing the frequency of sex in both relationships. In the first case, the gf discovers that she loved to suck another girl's pussy off of my cock. After some bitchy drama, the girl I got caught with eventually joined us in a triad. In the second relationship, I was caught in bed with Plate #1 when Plate #3 tried to surprise me by showing up at my place unannounced. I was rather shocked when this event cause Plate #3 (who I valued more) to express her attraction and love for me more explicitly. Her catching me was actually the catalyst for our LTR. The dread was very real and--somehow--seeing me with someone else only made her more devoted.
It seems weird to a man, but I believe that A LOT of women get off on feeling inferior, humiliated, or otherwise "small" under the shadow of a confident and dominant man. What's crazy is that this can go as far as being cuckqueaned.
Obviously, this is a dangerous method and it needs to be handled gracefully. Context is important and you better make damn sure that the women in your preselection arsenal are actually high value if you want to use it to attract other high value women.
TL;DR: Women are a little crazy and secretly love being cucked or taken off the pedestal. Even if they don't, they'll crave the cock of a man with other attractive options. If you can show those options off, it is only to your advantage (usually). This is called preselection and it is very effective once you earn it. If you haven't generated a preselection pool yet, fucking fake it!

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187oddfuture 8y ago
“A woman would rather share an alpha than have a Beta all to herself” - Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male.
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I think if you had to sum up TRP in one sentence that would probably be it.
TRPDigesting 8y ago
I think he depicted it as a "high status" man versus the alternative, but same difference.
It was actually this quote that really spurred me on to learning and understanding more about the different dominance hierarchies we all exist in.
420KUSHBUSH 8y ago
"It seems weird to a man, but I believe that A LOT of women get off on feeling inferior, humiliated, or otherwise "small" under the shadow of a confident and dominant man"
Degradation is one of the most common kinks for women all over the world for a reason, my friend
VasiliyZaitzev Senior Endorsed 8y ago
Submission is central to the female experience.
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Makes perfect sense for women. I'll tell you what really cooks my noodle though. I wish someone besides CNN or the Huffington Post could write a scientific article on why some guys get off on being cucked. I mean it's just so against what we know about evolutionary biology that I can't understand why it's a thing. I have three theories though.
The guys are so weak and pathetic that it is worth it in an evolutionary sense for them to get half a woman rather than no woman at all. Alpha fux beta bux taken to it's ultimate extreme.
They want to bang other women or have threesomes with other girls and they somehow think that this is a good way to go about it. Or similarly, modern life is so boring and empty that they'll try ANYTHING to spice it up.
memphisjohn 8y ago
The vast majority, my opinion, are reason #1. So many reddit posts along the lines of: dead bedroom > she cheats > gets caught > proposes "open" relationship > "hey I'm a kinky open minded man, why not watch if it means she will let me fuck her next?"
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
Maybe this ties into theory three, but I think that pornography exacerbates the issue.
Just WAGging here, but I wonder if some guys just prefer to watch sex. Maybe it's such a part of their arousal schema that they want to watch a partner do it because they somehow find that sexually gratifying .
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I think you're definitely right. There's a lot of evidence for this. People start watching normal porn, and then their brain gets used to it and they need ever more extreme fixes like a drug. Start off watching regular shit, and next thing you know they're watching cuck porn and even shemales and other crazy stuff and they start imagining themselves in it.
knowledgelover94 8y ago
Wow! Playing them bitches like a piano. I didn’t know preselection could help so much!
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Had a date last night. Chick was not all that she appeared in her pictures, but whatever, I'm already there. Might as well try to bang her.
I could tell she was super into me. I walked her home and kissed her at the door. After a couple seconds I reached up and grabbed her hair and tugged it ever so gently. I literally felt her shudder and she arched her back. I then slid my other hand down the top of her shirt and started rubbing her nipple and tugged her hair a bit harder so her head pulled back a bit. She starts moaning and I whisper in her ear, "I fucking knew you'd like that."
"Hehehe omg you're terrible!" she responded.
This is on public on a street at 11 pm with people passing by after an hour and twenty minute date. She only had one drink at the bar - not drunk at all. Just a hint of domination from a more attractive guy and she literally could not contain herself.
bot256 8y ago
I should fucking print this post, frame it and put it over my bed so I can read it every morning as a reminder how women are. Thanks for the eye-opener. I really need this kind of harsh truth to keep me on the right track.
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newposter20000 8y ago
How did you handle the situation with Plate #3 showing up? Did you kick out Plate #3 and told her to come back later?
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
I tried to invite her in and swing a threesome out of it (subtly, not explicitly), but she confessed her love for me and left my house on the quick. After another month or so, I dropped my other plates to LTR #3.
AsianWater 8y ago
How's the LTR? Did the quality of #3 change after realising you dropping all your other plates?
MakeMenGreatAgain44 8y ago
Totally true. I once told my ex that this cute girl likes me and she was like I want to destroy this bitch. That she felt some sense of competition to guard her mate. Lol
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cobalt1728 8y ago
Really hard to "fake" pre selection bro
juliusstreicher 8y ago
Back in the day, I used to take hot chucks, with whom I had only a passing acquaintance, to lunch at a place where I knew I would be spotted. Preselection went thru the roof!
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
This is the second example from my post. Personally, I think it is the best strategy and doesn't usually involve overt dishonesty. I think even having a hot female friend who likes you/touches you, etc. is enough to interest other women around you.
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
2 is an example. Bring a hot wingwoman.
You can also pretend to be more committed to someone else or pretend to be married/have a girlfriend, but do it well, i.e. don't be retarded.
confusedguy911911 8y ago
The truth hurts but the OP is correct I’ve seen woman do this many a time.Its their own fault to a greater extent ,they chose sexual freedom and the complete abolishment of morality and self control to be “free”.Well enjoy the freedom , and enjoy spending your dying days with 4 cats in a 41/2 apartment strumming your worn out vagina .Ill sleep secure and sound either with my paid off assets I never let a woman steal or beside the closest to a unicorn dream woman I could find..... convinced she’s there on a LT until better shows up.
Zech4riah 8y ago
There is these Chad-stories then there is normal stories like:
One of my plates dropped about 2 weeks ago after she had seen me with another girl in a bar.
When I asked for a meetup she said "You had other girls. I'm not a backup option". And there it was. Altho it's possible that she will contact me but yeah...
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
I'm no Chad. I think attitude, bitch management, and privacy/security go a long way.
Zech4riah 8y ago
Yeah but you are cherry picking. I'd assume that most of the time your plates drop as well. You are writing about one occasion like it's a rule. There is some TRP truths in your story but rarely they manifest in described way.
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
This just hasn't been my experience, but I'm not denying truth to what you say.
I think that I have probably missed out on beginning relationships (casual or otherwise) with women moreso than having women terminate a relationship because of other girls. Again, this was very surprising to me, but I've learned that women don't tend to experience sexual jealousy like men, do.
Honestly, though, I quit dating exclusively in high school and--even though girls would bitch a little at first--they never left me for playing the field. Some won't date you to begin with, but I've run into that maybe three or four times over 12 years.
lazordoge 8y ago
Any advice for turning scenario 1 (guy above) to scenario 2 (your scenario)? I can kind of relate to both but I feel like it depends a lot on the girls attitude. Off the top of my head I can think of two girls in my life currently where both these scenarios could happen.
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
I'm so cocky and outcome independent that it's unholy. Strat works well enough so far.
RPmatrix 8y ago
lol 'unholy' nice!
that's pretty much all you need, makes for killer Game which is what it's all about
EvilPenName 8y ago
Just have abundance mentality.
Not all situations can go from scenario 1 to 2. It is OK if the plate breaks, there are others.
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RPmatrix 8y ago
no, the more 'real' you are at your age the better
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
Honestly, I don't play the Instagram game, so I don't have good advice besides game girls in person as much as possible.
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Bc_Land 8y ago
It seems feminist are out playing shame game today. All that sounds good until she bites you in the ass of your own beliefs.
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Fm661 8y ago
Do you realise what sub your on? Leave the judgement at the door, no one came here for a lesson in morality.
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Actually, no.
I wish you were right, I really do, but unfortunately that's not how the world works. If it did, this sub wouldn't exist. Every dutiful, loving, caring, grateful man would shack up with an equally moral woman and live happily ever after. History has shown us otherwise.
Biology is the kicker here, as much as we want to deny TRP practices and theories anyone who tests the hypothesis in a proper manner will and has come to the same realization. That's where a "scumbag" is born. If it wasn't found to be the most effective course of action why would so many pragmatic men turn to these practices? Bitterness you say? Maybe, but once that wears off all that's left is truth.
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nolimitnova 8y ago
Imo, he shared some experiences where he learned new lessons and analyzed the womens' behavioral processes. Then he elaborates on how to use this bit of psychology for personal gain. That's quintessential trp stuff.
donkey_democrat 8y ago
Do you check out redpillwomen too?
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-Fidelio- 8y ago
Cuckqueaned? It's not a thing and it will never be a thing. A woman is never stuck raising another woman's child unknowingly.
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
That's not what cuckold means explicitly. Cuckqueaning is absolutely a "thing"." Have you ever had a girl eat your load out of another girl's pussy?
-Fidelio- 8y ago
No, I don't have groupsex without condoms. You're making clear what you mean, though. People are making clear what they use it for, but it does not change the fact that I find it a stupid term.
edit: it seems the term Cuckquean goes back to 1562 AD.
clausternn 8y ago
That's not what cuck means bro. It just means the person has a fetish for watching their partner having sex with someone else.
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-Fidelio- 8y ago
Practically nobody has that fetish. It's something that pornographers try to push on people. If you want to know which people try to push it on which people, look at the race of the people being cucked in pornography and the race of the people making the pornography.
The reason that "cuck" is disgraceful on a very deep level is that there are few greater signs of weakness than a man wasting his time, energy, wealth on another man's child. It's a man failing at his quintessential evolutionary goal.
Of course that extends to a man with a promiscuous wife/girlfriend even without children, because the attached animal behaviours, feelings etcetera don't just disappear when you use birth control.
A woman being cucked would have to be failing at her most essential evolutionary goal AND pouring her energy into things that work actively against her evolutionary goals. I'm trying to think of the best thing that would fit for a woman to spend her energy contra-productively against her evolutionary goals and it would actually be becoming a feminist.
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
Feminists cuck themselves, then? I like that theory.
Down ass bi chicks who embrace the harem still get the spermies.
Lavlamp 8y ago
Do you know where the term "cuck" comes from? Because that's not what it means.
clausternn 8y ago
It comes from this poem?
-Fidelio- 8y ago
Cuckquean goes back to 1562? Okay, I'm eating my words. I was wrong.
Lavlamp 8y ago
Are you saying the word was invented by an old poem? Being cuckold originated as a comparison to the cuckoo bird, which lay their eggs in the nests of other birds, forcing them to raise the cuckoo chicks as if they were their own.
AlfredKinsey 8y ago
hmmm, under this definition of "cucking", it is indeed impossible for a human female to get cucked