I have a girl that is completely submissive to me. I found out her body count is 11 (all of which were in two years). When i found this out a threw her out of my apartment and called her disgusting. She stopped eating and lost 10 pounds. She was depressed for two months, cried a shit ton, and begged for forgiveness. She said that she was lost and confused during those years.
I told her I could never date her because that would be humiliating but I did tell her she could be my main mistress indefinitely if she submitted to me absolutely and followed everyone of my actions and beliefs (I have other women). After a bit of silence she agreed. You can tell from my username what my beliefs entail (note the year 1933 in Germany). She's never actually dated before. I am still disgusted by her but I dont think I would ever find a woman willing to become completely red pilled and submit to me wholly. She does whatever I tell her to do and even apologizes for the smallest mistakes. What should I do?
I try to be a dominant alpha when it comes to women but I feel like a beta for buying her drinks and dinners after so many guys have used her. Am I cuck for taking her on as my main concubine?
Lone_Ranger 2 months ago
Here's what happened...
No-Stress-Cat 2 months ago
What I would do is place my hands gently on her shoulders...look deep into her eyes...and slowly push her downward onto her knees...she knows what to do from there.
depleted_3 2 months ago
She is manipulating you. Stupid.
Lionsmane8 2 months ago
Plate forever for her sigh
whytehorse2021 2 months ago
A cuck is a guy who raises another man's child. I lived with a prostitute for a year. Of course she cheated on me the whole time. I never took her seriously though so it was no big deal. Just know who you're dealing with and make decisions accordingly.
Vermillion-Rx 2 months ago
For starters you could have just disregarded her slutty past with good frame and continued to treat her like the plate that she is and keep it casual
It's fine if you don't want to LTR her, I mean come on man, her 11-12 body count in one year could not have possibly been the only red flags she had that let you know she wasn't LTR material.
You should have known that already and just treated her like a good plate. You made this horribly messy for no reason
Nietzsche1933 2 months ago
I meant to keep it casual but it started to become a relationship and I deluded myself ignoring the red flags. Would I be a cuck for having her a LTR concubine? Shed be permanently exclusive while I'm not.
Edit: Also the messiness made her completely dependent on me. Also it was two years (Freshmen and Sophomore year, now shes a junior)
Vermillion-Rx 2 months ago
I wouldn't LTR her in any way shape or form. At least you acknowledge you made a mistake getting that close to her.
That being said, keep it casual and enjoy her company. Don't let it get any more serious than that. That wasn't a great strategy to get her dependent, it was just collosal frame break that ended up being mega dread
Nietzsche1933 2 months ago
how is it a frame break? she did everything i said.
Vermillion-Rx 2 months ago
Upon telling you her past you broke down in a loss of composure. That's not frame
Nietzsche1933 2 months ago
Making fun of someone is not losing composure. I was laughing in her face.
Vermillion-Rx 2 months ago
Yeah that wasn't in your post at all.
At any rate, you got reactive enough to throw her out. That's not composure. If she had openly disrespected you sure, but you threw her out based on decisions she made before even meeting you. You lost composure
Nietzsche1933 2 months ago
Understood. But I actually like this woman. Shes extremely fun to talk to. Ridiculously loyal to me and has my same personality. I never let myself show emotion but on an anonymous forum I will. Ive shed a tear or two in private thinking about it. Its actually fucking painful and it really fucking sucks. FUCK!!!!!!
Met her before all this shit went down. Thought about asking her out. Decided not to.
Vermillion-Rx 2 months ago
It happens, intrepid covered it well enough. You need to let go of your feels if you're going to keep seeing her, and also don't lie about what you two are. Don't give her the impression that she's more if she's not
Intrepid_Place53900 2 months ago
I've gone out with sluts, look, it's generally true, they are a lot of fun, not just in the bedroom.
You guys are young, yup, she screwed up. You screwed up by catching feelz, now you got to figure out what to do.
I had a few girls like this in my college days, same type of deal, they were real sluts , then they realized that's not what they want. could be different reasons, like I can't keep a solid guy.
I didn't catch feelz for them, I just had fun, didn't lead them on or lie to them about what we were. They tried for more, overstepped and I let them go.
Don't spend any money on this girl, make her pay for more than you do. Don't commit anything to her, like you are doing, you are being honest with her which is good, IMO.
Like others have said, treat her like a plate, but you have to convince yourself, that's all she is, she's just a plate (period). You don't have to be mean or whatever to her, she's just a plate, have fun. She'll eventually ask for more and freak out or just leave or cheat on you. Be prepared for all of the above.
Nietzsche1933 2 months ago
Should I demand exclusivity from her?
Intrepid_Place53900 2 months ago
Do you demand that from plates? I don't, because I don't care if they do or not.
Remember, you have to not care about this girl walking away and you also being able to just walk away when you want. You need to also to have other plates. Otherwise you gonna slip back into feelz for her
YoungBoyCreep 2 months ago
11-12 x 2-3
Means at least 25+
Nietzsche1933 2 months ago
No I confirmed it was 11. She broke down crying and other people confirmed.
mattyanon 2 months ago
"She said that she was lost and confused during those years"
Drunk and horny more like.
Do what you want to do.
Right.
Quit paying for stuff.