In my opinion the best friends thing only works 1% of the time and if it does theres a lack of sexual attraction afterwards. You cant get romantic love from a woman stop chasing it.

This is actually an interesting take, I had a girlfriend who i thought was my best friend then cheated on me and left without a care in the world, but we had become "best friends" in the relationship. I hadn't known her for years and were friends.

There's a lot of truth in that.

However, even friends can diverge - both romatic ones and regular ones. It's not a guarantee, it is merely increasing chances. And, those things happen often when someone moves, changes job/education or generally enters a new/different stage in life. Therefore, being and staying friends early on is also at a higher risk than later on.

Until the final couple of paragraphs, this reads like blue pill fantasy.

Romantic love? No such thing. It's cocktails of hormones that fuck up your ability to think rationally.

Best friends first with no attraction to each other at first? WTF? there's so much wrong there, I'm not even sure where to begin.

• attraction works differently in men and women. Women can grow attracted to a man in whom they initially weren't interested, as their attraction to us is based on many factors. However, men usually know at first glance if a woman passes his boner test.

• Ever heard of the FriendZone? Most of the time, once you're there, you are doomed to stay there. It's rare to get laid with a woman with whom you were previously friends. Most of the time, when a male friend (really, an orbiter, as women and men usually aren't real friends with each other (more on this in a moment)) "confesses his feelings" or whatever faggy shit you want to call it, the woman feels deceived and repulsed. This is why it's important to make your intentions clear from the get-go. Women do not like being deceived, and if you try the "friends first" route, and suddenly one day try to upgrade, she will rightfully look at you as a deceitful, cowardly worm. Real life does not work like romantic comedies.

• friend vs. orbiter: men and women generally cannot be true friends. There are exceptions (I've had a couple); more on this in a moment. Usually, when you're "friends" with a chick, she's using you for attention, favors, and as an emotional tampon. As the late, great Patrice O'Neal put it, "you're a time hoe, just giving your time away". Female "friends" rarely do anything at all to benefit their male orbiters, and just keep them around as backup plans. Here's how you test if a woman is really your friend: start dating/fucking another woman. Is she happy for you? Then she really was your friend. Most likely, though, she's going to act jealous and bitchy because you just fucked up her backup plans in case she couldn't land better. Another test: try to get her to set you up with one of her hot friends. If she does, she really was your friend. More likely, though, she'll find some excuse not to set you up with any of her friends at all. You are her backup plan, and her emotional tampon, and she can't have some other woman stealing your attention and favors from her.

For more about the FriendZone, go to /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen on reddit, and sort by the flair "FriendZone Fiona" and read through the comments on the posts. More importantly, if there's an explanation of that flair, read it (should be in the sidebar, under something like "flair guide" or something like that).

For your own sake, don't go getting FriendZoned thinking that it'll lead to some bullshit Hollywood fantasy of "true romantic love".

There's more wrong about this than I have time to go into right now.

At least you were willing to caveat it with this:

This is because the kind of best friend-before-couple type of romance that I was talking about earlier only happens to an extremely few people in the whole world.

Yeah, it's like winning the lottery. It happens, but the odds are absolutely terrible.

This is nonsense, sorry mate. Very superficial understanding. There is no such as "best friends" or "friends" with a woman. Judging from your thought patters, you are obviously still in your teens, late teen years. Get that out of your head, there is hypergamy and dual mating strategy. Women don't fuck their peers, they fuck outsiders and preferably higher status outsiders.

What the fuck did I just read?

Is this some type of anime based fantasy?

This is false. I was friends with my wife for many years before we fucked. I thought I had true love and pedestalized her. She's Muslim so it just worked out because she policed her hypergamy, ignored the beta behaviours, and had societal reinforcement. Ultimately my oneitis became self-destructive and I was getting ready to divorce her because women can't love men the way men think they ought to(romantically). So I started practicing red pill on her, became unattached, and now our relationship is very strong and she drains my balls, sucks my dick, takes it in the ass, makes me pound her doggy style, rides me like a bull and has explosive orgasms all over my dick and balls.

So the reality is that for a marriage to work there must be a common goal. Our goal was to get married and have kids. For us to be happy together I had to play the masculine role and she had to play the feminine role.

Sorry, but you're talking gibberish here. This is just a very surface level of comprehension. Neither "best friends" nor "friends" apply to a relationship with a woman. Considering the way you think, you must be in your late teens at the earliest. Put that idea out of your mind; hypergamy and a twofold mating strategy are real phenomena. If a woman is going to fuck, she isn't going to fuck someone in her social group; she's going to fuck someone from outside her social group, ideally someone of greater social position. https://geometrydashsubzero.net