Hey guys so, I was seeing this girl about a year ago and it didn’t work out because I didn’t have my shit together ie no money to literally eat for me and her(we used to lie on my bed with my stomach rumbling I was so hungry), not much friends ethier. Well I have drastically increased my disposable income (about 5 TIMES literally) and in general really sorted myself out the past year and live a really good life now.
she created a scene after we stopped seeing each other involving her and another guy. And as a result I blocked her on everything ie facebook, Snapchat etc.
I have had 2 girlfriends after her and been banging loads of new girls. But this girl I still think about her every now and again, we’ll more than the other exes I’ve had after her anyway.
I just want to get the point across that I’ve sorted my **** out now and I was only like that temporarily as I wasn’t working. I also want to show her that I’ve evolved as a individual.
should I unblockher to contact her again?
Lionsmane8 3 months ago
99% of the times, the answer to the question "should i reach out to her?" is no.
RememberingAlpha 6 months ago
dont do it dude.
Vermillion-Rx 7 months ago
Oh fuck no.
She's the "one that got away". That's why you want to contact her. She's a wound you want to heal, that's why it's tempting. I don't think the pussy she has to offer is what you're after man.
That's what you need to realize and why you shouldn't contact her. Your intent is not what you think it is. It's an ego thing, don't let ego urge you to take actions like that that devalue your self-worth and self-respect
No-Stress-Cat 8 months ago
whytehorse2021 8 months ago
What about the next time you stumble upon financial hard times? She's just gonna boogey off to the next dude? I'm pretty sure you can find an iron rule of Tomassi that fits here.
coolsocks00 8 months ago
No no. Your mentality is still fucked. You have nothing to be ashamed of and nothing to make up for. Fuck whatever she might possibly think and keep doing your thing. Forget it.
Blingo123 7 months ago
Thanks for the advice bro I will not contact her sometimes I think of doing stupid stuff like this and need to get advice.
muslimgirlredpill 7 months ago
sounds like you have a scarcity mindset for a disloyal female just because she was familiar and was probably the longest relationship you have had. Move on. You deserve better than that slut. You are worthy of more. Don't give up on yourself by relegating yourself to bottom shelf gold-diggers.
mattyanon 7 months ago